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Relationship Series: Future Spouse’s Looks

October 12th, 2009 @ 1:20 pm by Beehive

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What did you think your future spouse would look like, and what does he/she actually look like?

Ms. Swan - HA! I thought I wanted: TALL :), well-built, dark hair, a medium to dark skin complexion, and dark eyes a la Boris Kodjoe.

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Instead, Mr. Swan is kinda short, has blonde hair, and hazel eyes (he’s well built, though). :)

Mrs. Bruschetta - Oh, I definitely thought I’d find a dark-haired, dark-eyed guy — but Mr. Bruschetta’s got blond(ish) hair and blue eyes!

Miss Lamb - My Ideal: Tall, dark, handsome, but with blue eyes so that we could help perpetuate our lovely (but recessive gened) eyes.

My Man: Average height, medium skin, HANDSOME!, and dark eyes (There’s still a chance for a blue eyed babe though, his grandma has a pair of blue sparklers!)

Mrs. Joey - I’m in the same boat as Bru, I thought I’d get a dark haired and eyed guy, and ended up with a blue eyed, blond haired one instead. :)

Mrs. French Bulldog - My Ideal: broad, cute football player type… absolutely no question as to who weighs more. My Mr: tall, thin and HANDSOME. ;)

Mrs. Gloss - My “Ideal”: blond hair, blue eyes, tall, the kind of person that always seems a little tan. (This may have stemmed from watching numerous episodes of Saved By The Bell when I was younger, because didn’t you want the ‘perfect’ Zach and Kelly relationship?)

What I Got: a short Irish boy with dark hair and brown eyes whose skin is either white, white with lots of freckles, or burned. :)

Mrs. Bunny - I always had a thing for dark-haired guys and ended up with a blondie, too!

One thing consistent in my ideal type is the face shape — I prefer rounded or square to thin or oval. Mr. Bunny has a very round face. I can’t help but pinch his cheeks on occasion (don’t tell him I told you!)! ;)

Miss Frozen Yogurt - I always thought I would marry someone tall, fit, with dark hair, and blue eyes. Well, lucky for me that’s exactly what I got! He must be my type. :)

Mrs. Mouse - I have always been attracted to bad boys: long, floppy hair, skinny and pale, a bit grungy, and always with stubble. You know, the rocker type.

(Actually, I would take James Franco in pretty much any form.)

My guy isn’t quite so grungy, but he does have long hair and a beard! I’ll take it. :)

Mrs. Peep Toe - I use to go for the short guy, but thankfully Mr. Peep is a good 6 inches taller than me!! Which to me, is perfect. And it’s no surprise that I went for a brunette!

Miss Ramen - Ideal: Tall, muscular/athletic, crinkly eyes, strong back/arms/hands - just overall sexay.

Got: everything - except Mr. Ramen is more of the lean build. But everything else… goood.

Miss Star - I always had a serious thing for tall guys and then ended up with someone who is just about exactly my height. We think it’s really sweet, though, how well we “fit” each other — down to wearing the same shoe size! I never would have thought that I would fall in love with a shortie, but I wouldn’t change it for the world!

Miss Dachshund - My “ideal” guy would be tall, dark haired, light eyes, boyishly handsome, maybe a little nerdy. Think, Jake Gyllenhaal with glasses…

Mr. Dachshund has brown eyes, but I think everything else fits within my description of an “ideal” man! At 6′10″ he’s definitely taller than I imagined, but I love that about him. He’s good for changing lightbulbs and painting the tall parts of the walls that I can’t reach. :)

Mrs. Deviled Egg - I’ve always been attracted to guys who were taller than me, with broad shoulders and strong arms. Mr. DE fits that perfectly, and I also got amazing blue eyes and a killer smile!

Mrs. Mary Jane - I always was drawn to kind of grungy/hippie-looking guys. Especially with curly hair. Think “Hyde” [Danny Masterson] from That 70’s Show.

Mr. MJ has straight hair. He’s clean cut/shaven, has a modern attitude, and is definitely not ’stuck in the past’. (Sometimes I’m a little guilty of that!) There’s nothing ‘retro’ about him - and I think he’s perfect.

Mrs. Snow Pea - I seriously had plans on moving to the UK and just bumping into Prince William and having him fall in love with me. ASK MY MOH. She’ll tell you!!!

Here’s hunky Prince William.

And here’s my lovie Mr. Snow Pea.

I think I made out better with MR. SP. He’s got good teeth and hair in his family.

(Prince William pic courtesy of People dot com)

Mrs. Cupcake - I was always a sucker for taller, slender guys with blue eyes.

Mr. Cupcake is shorter (although still taller than me), has an athletic build, and has hazel eyes. Not my usual “type” at all, but I think he’s a looker!!!

Miss Poodle - When I was a teenager I had a HUGE crush on Cristian de la Fuente, so I always thought I would marry someone like him: tall, brown hair, big brown eyes, tan skin, and great teeth.

Well, I feel like I got the “American” version, hehe. Mr. Poodle is taller than me, has blonde hair, blue eyes, is NOT tan, but does have great teeth. :) I am more than happy with my version.

Mrs. Potato Chips - I was just talking about this last week!

I always thought I’d end up with a dark-haired, argyle-sweater and Converse-sneaker-wearing, nerdy black eyeglass-sportin’, schoarly English type.

But Mr. Potato Head is a red-headed, athletic, all-American former Marine Corps personal trainer. And the idea of him wearing Converse sneakers makes us laugh.

Ms. Champagne - I’ve always been attracted to the tall, dark, and handsome type. Champ is just that—a dark haired Italian, and has an athletic build, with a kind of Hugo Boss-ish style.

Mrs. Cherry Pie - Bizarrely, I’ve never had a “type” outside of pursuing men with lean, athletic builds. I never really pictured my future spouse as a child or teenager, or really thought about being married. Even now, meeting people who are my type is rare, and Mr. CP is always surprised who fits the bill.

Mrs. Duckling - Since I was young I was always liked blond haired, blue eyed, tall, surfer types. In middle school I had a huge crush on Paul Walker. Thinking back, a lot of guys I dated fit this basic description. Maybe it was because I secretly wanted to be blond, which would never work with my Asian features. haha

Mr Ducky? Brown hair, brown eyes, just slightly taller than me when I wear heels, and a surfer. :)

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What about you? What did you future spouse look like in your mind? What does he/she actually look like?

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27 Responses to “Relationship Series: Future Spouse’s Looks”

1.
tea
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tea (message)  2,659 posts, Sugar bee

oooh mrs. swan..boris is so easy on the eyes. lol.

i definitely had a type: tall, athletic build [i like the lean muscular look], great smile…basically my two biggest crushes were on tiger woods and derek jeter so there you go. lol.

my guy is taller than me and lean but definitely not the athletic type but oooh so hot.

 
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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,534 posts, Bumble bee

I always pictured myself with a tall, tanned, dark haired super preppy, ralph lauren wearing, football & golf playing, prep-school educated, all-american boy!

Then I went to South Africa and fell for a dark haired, (definitely not tan or super tall, though a good 6 inches taller than me), British guy who didn’t own khakis, played football (soccer), grew up on a farm & totally threw my ideas of the all-american boy out the window… i’m now a sucker for the brits, his sexy accent, & everything else about him that I never thought I wanted, but now can’t imagine life without!

 
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Laylabelle
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Laylabelle (message)  1,946 posts, Buzzing bee

Holy what, Doxie?? 6′10″?? Wow!!!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

haha. so cute! Love reading about all these :-)

I thought I was going to go for a medium toned medium built guy. just all around average. I got a more solid guy who’s a little shorter than i planned, but he’s the cutest, and he still catches me staring at him when we’re eating dinner :-)

 
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pmerr
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pmerr (message)  1,307 posts, Bumble bee

I love this series. I always thought I’d end up with a tall dark tan muscular man preferably with blue eyes. I got a tall and dark and lean man

 
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CorgiTales
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CorgiTales (message)  1,659 posts, Bumble bee

I’m with Ms. Daschund– I LOVE jake. I always pictured myself with someone with dark hair, light eyes, average height (or maybe a little short), and somewhat grungy.

I think that my current guy is better looking than I imagined! He has dark hair, light blue eyes, super cute! At 6′3″ he is taller than I would’ve guessed, but I like it now! He’s also pretty preppy… but he lets his beard scruff grow out sometimes and its super hot :)

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  476 posts, Helper bee

@Mrs. Frenchbulldog: I had a friend who would never date skinny guys because of the “who weighs more” question. Ha!

@Miss Gloss: you wanted marry Zach Morris! LOVE it.

@Mrs Snowpea: WHOA. The resemblance is pretty amazing.

 
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Miss Yap
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Miss Yap (message)  558 posts, Busy bee

lol. I always wanted tall, dark, handsome, with light colored eyes and curly hair. I got everything but the curly hair though I am certainly not complaining!

 
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slicey19 (message)  816 posts, Busy bee

In my ideal world, I would marry an aspiring President, have preppy blond children and become the first lady.
In reality I was set on a sporty, preppy man’s man which would mostly of describe my past boyfriends. I got a non-athletic but totally cute engineer who would rather play computer games, brown hair, blue eyes, taller than me.
As much as I long for blond children, I’ve never dated a blond boy and my hair is dark brown.

 
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julesann
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julesann (message)  79 posts, Worker bee

All I wanted…..was taller than me…….

And what I got? 1/2 inch shorter. ;) It works, though. :) You know what they say about short men?!?! HUGE….personalities!!!

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  1,040 posts, Bumble bee

i always thought i’d end up with a preppy-meets-alternative kinda guy, tall, blond hair maybe…. my FI fits that pretty well except he’s not that tall, and not that blond. hes soo cute though!

 
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11.11.11Bride
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11.11.11Bride (message)  84 posts, Worker bee

Tall, dark, athletic, handsome and a great smile. Think Chris Webber. I always went for the basketball type. What did I get? A basketball type. lol! Not Chris Webber… Someone much better! :-D

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,604 posts, Bumble bee

These are so cute! My hubby is pretty close to what I thought I’d end up with. Totally into brunette men with curly hair, and very athletic.

 
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skibobrown (message)  269 posts, Helper bee

I wanted tall dark and handsome, I got tall, not so dark, and handsome. I have a major height hang up. Even though I’m not too tall, I am just incapable of dating shorter men, so it’s great that my FI comes in at just over 6 feet.

 
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KMSull
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KMSull (message)  2,916 posts, Sugar bee

I never really had a type, actually. In high school I dated alot of different types. College I dated a tall red head, a short guy with hair longer than mine, a caveman, and a bald guy (he shaved his head)… I ended up with a tall-ish brunette/ with some red in his facial scruff. So… oh well.

 
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Minutiae
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Minutiae (message)  511 posts, Busy bee

I knew for sure that I did not want a guy with blue or pale eyes. They creep me out! *shudders* Don’t know why, but I really don’t like ‘em. :P

I’ve always tended to go for taller, clean cut guys with muscular builds. Football player types. And I’m with someone who is broad shouldered and built, has a face like Patrick Swayze, an ex-football player with brown coloring. He has the warmest, most amazing brown eyes I’ve ever seen. Oooooh yeah.

 
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golden8214

I knew I always wanted a tall, chocolate, slim man. I wanted him to look like a basketball player. I got exactly what I wanted. He used to play basketball and is still slim to this day and is 6′2″. Even in my tallest heels, I am short next to him and I am 5′8″! Im super excited and happy

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,472 posts, Bumble bee

I thought I would marry someone similar to me but with a computer background. Tall, blonde, with a killer smile. What I got was a grease monkey (mechanic), tall, dark hair, green eyes, and not the schooling type at all. Apparently I was after the wrong guy all along!!

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,472 posts, Bumble bee

Oh yeah, and I LOVE his smile!! :)

 
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coleyjean
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coleyjean (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

I thought he’d be abnormally tall, a little grungy, with dark eyes and hair and a thin build.
I got a 6′1″ solid guy (not buff, not chubby… just big) with great auburn hair, dark eyes, the best smile, an occassional beard. He’s devistatingly handsome, to boot!

 
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AnamCara
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AnamCara (message)  326 posts, Helper bee

I always loved brown hair and blue eyes and that’s what caught my attention when I got his message on MySpace - that and his wonderful smile. We’re both pretty short but that makes it easier to plant smooches on him!
:o)

 
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AnnieAAA
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AnnieAAA (message)  1,076 posts, Bumble bee

I’ve dated all kinds of guys, blonde, brunette, even a redhead. But I’ve always loved brown hair & brown eyes & must be tall, and when I got to college I fell in love with that dirtry frat boy look: curly longish hair under a baseball cap & a perminant 5 o clock shadow…swoon!!

Whelp FI has the brown hair & eyes, he is tall & my favorite thing is his curly hair!

 
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lcneiny
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lcneiny (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

Loving this series! I didn’t really have any hangups on looks, other than tall and bald (shaved head). Turns out my man shaves everything, but if he did have hair it would be dark - 100% Italian, brown eyes, always a little tan, athletic build. I couldn’t have imagined anything better!

 
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yogigal
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yogigal (message)  394 posts, Helper bee

Nothing like looking on the menu when you are on a permanent diet ladies :). These pictures just made my day!!

Love me some boris and de la fuente!

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  1,531 posts, Bumble bee

Hahaha. I thought I’d have someone WAAAY taller than me … like at least 4 inches on me. And this may be bizzare - but minimal body hair … hair and eye color never really were two things on my radar. And I’ve always had a thing for skinny guys. I didn picture a indie-rocker literary type … but Loverboy is not that at all - he loves baseball and football. He is rather skinny (okay, very skinny) exactly my height, and he’s kind of a hairy guy. No back hair and minimal chest hair - but that boy has wooly mammoth legs!

 
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laurenadela
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laurenadela (message)  119 posts, Blushing bee

haha my hunny is EXACTLY my type :) grungy bearded tattooed boy. and he has the most beautiful green blue eyes i’ve ever seen

 
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ColorCoated
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ColorCoated (message)  951 posts, Busy bee

Hahaha. I totally have the hots for James Franco too, Mouse!

 


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