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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.
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Step by Step: First Look

November 2nd, 2009 @ 10:32 am by Mrs. Stiletto

We had debated doing a “first look” quite a bit. Mr. S was all about it, I was a little more hesitant. I even posted about it this summer. I finally decided that if it was something that he felt was really important for us to do, I would throw caution to the wind and go for it.

Our timeline was tight on the wedding day, so I left the hotel in the limo with the bridal party around 2:30, arriving at the church around 2:40. The ceremony started at 3:00 on the dot, so it was a quick look! I waited in the limo after the bridal party went into the church and waited for the “all clear” that Mr. S was all set and waiting for me in our designated spot - a little garden on the side of the church.

Mr. S waited patiently with his back turned in one part of the garden.



I was ready and waiting behind him, all anxious and excited. Having a second photographer for this was great - she was standing facing Mr. S and our main photographer (the fabulous Laurie Peacock) was facing me… you can even see Laurie right behind Steve. Love it!

As it should be, Mr. S came to me! (Okay, I was going to go to him, but part of the garden was a bit muddy, and I wasn’t ready to trash my dress quite yet!)

I like to think he’s liking what he’s lookin’ at.

Especially as he goes in for a smooch.

I gave him the cheek, though. Why? I’m assuming I didn’t want to smudge my freshly-done makeup.

And then it was just time to chit chat and share stories from the morning. Mr. S is most definitely my best friend, and it was nice to FINALLY show him my dress! Whew… that was secret I had kept for almost a year.

Aww, a last hand squeeze before we separate - it was almost time for the ceremony to start!

Oh, and maybe a funny face.

Or two. Mr. S is apparently great with the faces!

*Please note: All photos from Laurie Peacock Photography

I had originally thought that our first look should definitely be in the church as I walked down the aisle. It would have been meaningful, emotional and magical. But I truly believe that having those few moments together before the ceremony really was perfect. It eased some anxiety, let us reconnect before saying “I do” and helped us deal with many emotions. I can only imagine what kind of a crying mess I would have been in the church if I hadn’t seen Mr. S beforehand.

Next up - Everyone gets lined up and ready for the ceremony to finally begin!

Previously in our wedding recaps:
Step by Step: Girls Get Ready
Step by Step: Guys Get Ready

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16 Responses to “Step by Step: First Look”

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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,529 posts, Bumble bee

yah! those are so cute! can’t wait to see more! love the silly faces by mr. s!

 
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Mrs. Gloss
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Mrs. Gloss (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

Very nice!

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  1,078 posts, Bumble bee

Awwww, you guys look so cute and sweet. Can’t wait to see more recaps!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,328 posts, Bumble bee

So sweet and lovely.

 
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peachesandtulips
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peachesandtulips (message)  163 posts, Blushing bee

How cute! And you look gorgeous - I especially love your hair and your veil!

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  1,073 posts, Bumble bee

Awww, I teared up reading this a little bit, you both look so happy and it seems like a really honest, sweet moment between the two of you…

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,616 posts, Sugar bee

oh yay! these pictures are so lovely!

 
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KMSull
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KMSull (message)  2,670 posts, Sugar bee

Swoon! I love first look photos/ doing photos before the ceremony! My mom FLIPPED when I said I wanted to do a first look, but I think she’s gotten used to the idea after I told her that at least her makeup would be fresh instead of doing them after the ceremony when she wouldn’t have any left on her face.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,598 posts, Sugar bee

That’s funny that you gave him the cheek! :) These shots are really cute. :)

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  3,301 posts, Sugar bee

Beautiful photos–what a sweet, private moment your photogs captured.

 
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Ms. Mojito
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Ms. Mojito (message)  230 posts, Helper bee

I love your pics-I am trying to convince the Mr. to do a first look, but he is not having it so far!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  588 posts, Busy bee

Aww, too cute, you two!

 
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nhaggard21
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nhaggard21 (message)  2 posts, Wannabee

these are some great pictures! i can’t get over how much Mr. S and my Mr. A look alike.. they could pass as brothers.. the hair and everything lol

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

Those pictures are great! I’m still debating a first look - but pictures like this make me want to! And I specifically love the pictures that seem like one picture split in two!

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

you guys look awesome! If it wasn’t because of Weddingbee I would have never consider doing a first look but after reading all the pros about it I’m convinced it will be the best in our case too :) thank you Mrs. Stiletto

 
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dille_dalley (message)  45 posts, Newbee

Love this! Congratulations! Great way to get the jitters out and have a little alone time since the wedding day is so busy there’s little time just to be alone.

 


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