Register or log in —

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Miss Hamster
more by Miss Hamster (oldest)
Older blog post by Miss Hamster
Miss Hamster's Picture
Miss Hamster, New York City Age and Occupation: 28, Finance Gal Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Finance Guy Engagement Date: March 9, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: The Pierre Hotel About Me: I'm an original Jersey girl living it up in the big NYC! I love baking for others, hosting brunches, and exploring NYC with my mans. Besides Mr. Hamster (of course), I'm attracted to shiny things, bold colors, snacks, matching and coordination, pork and duck fats, miniature versions of things, corny jokes and puns. We are planning a swanky Spring wedding in the heart of NYC, followed by a second reception in Singapore. From one city that never sleeps to another - I can't imagine a more exciting ride!
About Miss Hamster

Lace - A Love Unrequited

November 3rd, 2009 @ 4:17 pm by Miss Hamster

When I first started my gown search, I did as any bride-to-be would – decimated my wedding magazines, ripping out pictures of any and every gown that I was even mildly interested in. Seven magazines, 50 pictures and one ginormous black-and-white cookie later, I evaluated my pics and noticed a few common themes:

1. Fluffly
I know. That is not a word. But Fluffly is how I best describe “Look 1” of my first group of pictures – ruffles fluttering in the wind, light fabrics, perhaps a dramatic look back at the groom (or someone else, apparently!). You know, Fluffly.

Fluffly

Source


2. Lots o’ lace
I surprised myself with the preponderance of lace in my selections. I’m generally not a lacy, frilly type of gal. But there you had it – if it had lace, it was ripped out of my magazines.

lace02

Source

3. Romantical
I know – that’s also not a word. Isn’t it so much more fun to say than “romantic,” though? This theme went hand-in-hand with the previous too. Where there were Fluffles and Lots o’ lace, there was Romantical.

romanti

Source

Or maybe I just liked the look-over-your-shoulder look. I don’t know.

Armed with these themes and my pictures in my hot little hands, I made my first dress appointments. The results were, to put it mildly, less than stellar. To preserve the dignity of these poor dresses, I won’t post full pics here, but I think my reactions say it all:

1. Fluffly

lace03

2. Lots o’ lace

fluffly01

3. Romantical

romanti01

And to prove that I’m capable of making happy faces, please see Exhibit A below – my expression when holding a White Castle milkshake and a Crave Case.

craveca

My goal? To find a gown that would yield the CCF (Crave Case Face).

And the search continued…

Did you wind up with a completely different gown from what you originally pictured?

Tags: |   Link for this post | Share this post: Lace - A Love Unrequited      
Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Miss Hamster
more by Miss Hamster (oldest)
Older blog post by Miss Hamster
advertisement below

33 Responses to “Lace - A Love Unrequited”

1.
Sage
Member
Sage (message)  398 posts, Helper bee

Completely different. I wanted lots of lace too, so I thought ;) I love your inspiration pics, and all this talk of White Castle is making me hungry.

 
2.
krissycake
Member
krissycake (message)  2,083 posts, Buzzing bee

LOL I love that word, fluffly. And I have never had White Castle…..sad face.

 
3.
tea
Member
tea (message)  2,610 posts, Sugar bee

fluffly. i like it!

 
4.
latenitesnackin
Member
latenitesnackin (message)  143 posts, Blushing bee

Your faces are too funny!! I especially like the very pensive “lots o’ lace” face. I’m still searching for dresses and initially pulled ALL full skirted pictures to find that I like them…not so much! I’m hoping my next dress appointment will prove to be more fruitful :)

 
5.
Member Icon
Member
peanutlovespumpkin (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

I loved that first Rivini gown photo too - it was on my “inspiration collage” when I went dress shopping :) Can’t wait to see what you ended up getting!

 
6.
Mrs. French Bulldog
Bee
Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

You and your White Castle Goodness are adorable!

 
7.
MexiPieLove
Member
MexiPieLove (message)  14 posts, Newbee

I just started dress browsing too and my criteria so far includes romantical, lacy and fluffy TOO! I’m curious how it will go when trying these on…are you completely put off some of these styles given your findings so far?

 
8.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss French Fries (message)  732 posts, Busy bee

I must be living under a rock, but I’ve never heard of a “crave case”! It must be amazing, though, judging by the smile on your face. :) Can’t wait to see what you ended up with!

 
9.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  865 posts, Busy bee

Aww, Hamster, you’ll find it! My chosen dress was far different than my inspiration dresses. It was actually funny how wrong I got it. But I eventually figured it out!

 
10.
Bee Icon
Bee
Mrs. Mouse (message)  3,277 posts, Sugar bee

OK, first of all, fluffly is TOTALLY a word. :)
Second, your faces crack me up.
Third, what the hell is in that crave case? And are you going to eat it all by yourself?

 
11.
Guest Icon
Guest
cjm

We use romantical in our relationship, too! :)

 
12.
LatteLove
Hostess
LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

you’re adorable. can’t wait to see the CCF with the perfect dress!

 
13.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Hamster (message)  1,078 posts, Bumble bee

@krissycake: It might be a good thing you’ve never had White Castle. It’s oh so bad for you but oh so good.

@MexiPieLove: I still love these styles, I just looked ridiculous in them! Hope they work out for you; keep us posted!

@Miss French Fries: @Mrs. Mouse: A crave case holds 30 sliders - gross, I know. But yummy! I didn’t eat it by myself - I shared with Mr. Hammy and one of our friends. We were on our way to Harold and Kumar II and wanted to make it a “theme night.” I know that’s just a weak excuse for a crave case!

 
14.
Bennie
Member
Bennie (message)  47 posts, Newbee

aww i love fluffly dresses too :)
cute post!

 
15.
Jenniphyr
Member
Jenniphyr (message)  1,397 posts, Bumble bee

Romantical is so a word! ; )

 
16.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Ramen (message)  255 posts, Helper bee

Yes and no. It has the elements that I was looking for…. but I thought I would have chosen less of a mermaid cut. Oh well! btw - I use romantical ALL the time! Making up your own words is the best! I can’t wait to see what you ended up choosing!

 
17.
Bee Icon
Bee
Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,630 posts, Bumble bee

Hahaha. Look forward to the one that brings you the CCF!!!

 
18.
mandstan
Member
mandstan (message)  11 posts, Newbee

Good luck in your search!

I was surprised by a lot of the dresses I tried on and liked, but ultimately wound up with EXACTLY what I had envisioned for myself.

 
19.
RecessionistaBride
Member
RecessionistaBride (message)  3,104 posts, Sugar bee

lol what a cute post!! Good luck finding “the” dress!

We don’t have White Castle here… what exactly is in a crave case?? 1000 tiny burgers? That box is bigger than you! :)

 
20.
jeaninelovesyou
Member
jeaninelovesyou (message)  71 posts, Worker bee

totally appropriate dress descriptors

 
21.
Guest Icon
Guest
jina of jac

Romantical is the best way to describe romantic!

booo!!! Now I’m scared to go dress shopping especially because I can be really fickle when given too many choices T.T. Can’t wait to see which dress will give you the CCF!!

 
22.
ms.pascua
Member
ms.pascua (message)  194 posts, Blushing bee

Fluffly! Romantical! I’m totally in love with your etymology! As another bride to be in LOVE with Fluffly looks, I’m a fan of your looks. But like you, a rather petite-looking Asian girl, my love for fluffly dresses goes unrequited. I can’t wait to hear your next post (& new words!) & see your final choice! Good Luck!

 
23.
Jessie516
Hostess
Jessie516 (message)  3,976 posts, Honey bee

I love your CCF! :) Yep, my dress was totally different than what I thought I wanted. But I still loved it!!

 
24.
Bee Icon
Bee
Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

Can’t wait to see what you end up with!!

 
25.
HereComesTheSun
Member
HereComesTheSun (message)  16 posts, Newbee

Oooh that first fluffy dress is gorgeous.

I didn’t know what I wanted but I had one dress that I was dead set on trying on. When trying to explain the skirt I said it had “wrinkle poofs” and the bridal store lady found it hard to keep a straight face when she corrected me with “Pick ups!”

I never found the “wrinkle poofs” dress but after traying on like 20-25 dresses (sleeves, sleveless, v-neck, strapless, sweetheart, spaghetti strap, lacy, poofy, trumpet, sheath, etc and etc) I found the dress. And yes. CCF. Total CCF.

I would have never, ever picked the dress out based on the online photos of it.

Good luck with your search. And also darn you for making me crave White Castle! We don’t have them down here!

 
26.
Ms. Mojito
Member
Ms. Mojito (message)  230 posts, Helper bee

Somewhat different…I thought I would get something airy and fluffy, but ended up with a fitted- totally not fluffy gown!

 
27.
pvaulter718
Member
pvaulter718 (message)  1,581 posts, Bumble bee

White Castle - hungryyyyyy!

I tried on some gowns that were stunning in the magazine, but almost made my mom fall over laughing. Glad I was good for some entertainment value!

 
28.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Hamster (message)  1,078 posts, Bumble bee

@RecessionistaBride: A crave case is 30 sliders of awesomeness :)

@HereComesTheSun: LOL wrinkle poofs! I love it! That should totally be entered into a dress-style lexicon.

 
29.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,328 posts, Bumble bee

Ha! I love the measure you’ll be using to find the dress.

 
30.
KMSull
Member
KMSull (message)  2,328 posts, Buzzing bee

Ooooh White Castle! I do love thee so! My parents come from GA to KY to see me, but mostly to get White Castle!

Those are the three themes in my dresses too!

 
31.
alishaneva
Member
alishaneva (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

This post was great - and Romantical should totally be a word. I enjoyed your faces - hopefully the CCF makes an appearance when wearing a white dress soon!!

 
32.
Miss Poodle
Bee
Miss Poodle (message)  3,015 posts, Sugar bee

Your so funny!! I loved the romantic dress! so cute!

 
33.
Guest Icon
Guest
The Search for The Dress: Part 2 | Weddingbee

[...] my last dress post, my exhaustive search for a fluffly, romantical dress with lots o’ lace left me with lots o’… [...]

 


You can also just...

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Miss Hamster
more by Miss Hamster (oldest)
Older blog post by Miss Hamster
Visit our sister sites Project Wedding
Wedding Songs
eHarmony Advice
Dating Advice
JustMommies
Pregnancy Calendar
Fertile Thoughts
Infertility Support
Copyright 2004-2009, eHarmony, Inc., Advertise
 


Sponsors
Miss Hamster
Miss Hamster Miss Hamster, New York City Age and Occupation: 28, Finance Gal Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Finance Guy Engagement Date: March 9, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: The Pierre Hotel About Me: I'm an original Jersey girl living it up in the big NYC! I love baking for others, hosting brunches, and exploring NYC with my mans. Besides Mr. Hamster (of course), I'm attracted to shiny things, bold colors, snacks, matching and coordination, pork and duck fats, miniature versions of things, corny jokes and puns. We are planning a swanky Spring wedding in the heart of NYC, followed by a second reception in Singapore. From one city that never sleeps to another - I can't imagine a more exciting ride!
Weddingbee PRO
 
Boards
 
Classifieds
 

Blog Calendar
November 2009
SunMonTueWedThuFriSat
1234567
891011121314
15161718192021
22232425262728
2930

Weddingbee Bios
Wiki
More