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Miss Pudding, Greater Toronto Area/Vermont Age and Occupation: 26, High School Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: August 2008 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception About Me: Quite literally a citizen of the world, I was born in Poland, grew up in Canada, and now live in the beautiful state of Vermont. I love reading historical biographies, multi-tasking, teasing my hair, and, despite my height, wearing high heeled shoes. I am the ultimate klutz with an uncanny ability to put on a graceful front. Mr. Pudding and I have been dating for over six years, and are very excited to finally merge our (very large) families. We are planning a traditional Polish-Catholic wedding that is anything but predictable.
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How Sweet It Is…

November 6th, 2009 @ 1:09 pm by Miss Pudding

Well, it goes without saying that I am absolutely thrilled and humbled to be here. I was home alone when I got the email from Pengy, and did the only thing I could think of to celebrate – I cleaned the bathroom. Now, usually I’m not the one to clean for fun, but I just had all of this energy that I needed to burn! Of course, when it came time to write my introduction post, all of that energy mysteriously disappeared. The pressure to write the perfect introduction overwhelmed me. After all, I have big shoes to fill!

I am a High School English and History teacher who absolutely loves her job. I particularly enjoy teaching Shakespeare because, well, his dirty jokes make me giggle. I am slowly adjusting to my new life in Vermont with Mr. Pudding, although I am still fiercely patriotic when it comes to my adopted home land of Canada (think Robin Scherbatsky). Mr. Pudding and I met in college, and had a long distance relationship that lasted for two years after school ended. We are so happy to have that part of our lives behind us.

Our wedding will be heavily influenced by our common Polish heritage. When you come from a Polish-Catholic family, there are some conventions that you do not break. I kid you not, when I mentioned colourful (yes, the “u” is Canadian) shoes to Mama Pudding, she said: “That’s a wonderful idea, how about a nice gold or silver?” We are trying to incorporate unique and special details into the wedding without giving Mama Pudding a heart attack.

I leave you with my fave picture of Mr. Pudding and me. The English teacher in me likes to think of this photo as a metaphor for our situation right now: Mr. Pudding plunging into our life together with great excitement, and me learning to rely on him and enjoying the ride.

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52 Responses to “How Sweet It Is…”

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caszos
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caszos (message)  209 posts, Helper bee

Yea for the Pollocks! I cannot wait to hear about the fun traditions that you have. My grandfather is from Polland and loves to have lots of traditions. Welcome!

 
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caszos
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caszos (message)  209 posts, Helper bee

Yea for the Polocks! I cannot wait to hear about the fun traditions that you have. My grandfather is from Poland and loves to have lots of traditions. Welcome!

 
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misscalico
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misscalico (message)  113 posts, Blushing bee

Welcome Miss Pudding! Can’t wait to hear about Polish wedding traditions and how you’ll work around Mama Puddings wishes! And three cheers for Canada from another half-Canadian bride (dual citizenship!) :)

 
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Jelly_Bean25
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Jelly_Bean25 (message)  339 posts, Helper bee

Welcome! Excellent post. Well done.

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,328 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome, love that picture of you being more trusting than I could be.

 
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Maestro
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Maestro (message)  188 posts, Blushing bee

Welcome again. I love the picture of you two, and looking forward to your additions to the ‘hive.

 
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Valhalla
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Valhalla (message)  267 posts, Helper bee

Welcome!! I am excited to have a Canadian Bee blogging away on this site :) Good luck adjusting to your new home in Vermont with Mr. Pudding!

 
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gibbysgirl21
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gibbysgirl21 (message)  123 posts, Blushing bee

Great pic! Welcome–

 
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Mrs. Star (message)  1,275 posts, Bumble bee

Great first post! Love the picture and welcome! I love dirty Shakespearean jokes, too ;)

 
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marquettemonv15 (message)  94 posts, Worker bee

Just an fyi, but many Polish people view the term “Polack” as very offensive and equivalent to the n-word.

 
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marquettemonv15 (message)  94 posts, Worker bee

Sorry, I’m meant to have that previous comment be a reply to caszos, not as a general comment.

Can’t wait to hear about your wedding, Miss Pudding!

 
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Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  865 posts, Busy bee

So sweet! We’re so glad to have you here! Great first post, can’t wait to see more!

 
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MrsCox2B
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MrsCox2B (message)  149 posts, Blushing bee

Welcome!
your first post is great! your doing just fine ;)

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  1,073 posts, Bumble bee

Yay, great intro post and adorable pic!

 
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IA_Snowflake
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IA_Snowflake (message)  1,608 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome!

 
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Mrs. Deviled Egg
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Mrs. Deviled Egg (message)  892 posts, Busy bee

You too look like a fun couple! Looking forward to reading about your plans!

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,198 posts, Honey bee

Welcome again, looking forward to reading about your wedding!

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  1,078 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome! I love that picture of you two! Looking forward to hearing all about your wedding planning!

 
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alvina
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alvina (message)  298 posts, Helper bee

Cute picture! Welcome!! :-D

 
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pmerr
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pmerr (message)  1,170 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome! Can’t wait to hear about everything

 
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LoriLori
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LoriLori (message)  234 posts, Helper bee

Welcome!

 
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HelloStargazer (message)  14 posts, Newbee

Robin Scherbatsky makes me want to be Canadian! lol

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

Mr. Avo’s grandma didn’t speak to me when I showed up at her house (in Poland! I flew all the way to Poland to see her and the family!) chewing gum with hands in my pockets. It’s not surprising that she also hated my black bmaid dresses.

Happy planning, and welcome to the ‘bee!

 
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Mrs. Sprinkle (message)  175 posts, Blushing bee

welcome!

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  240 posts, Helper bee

@Mrs. Avocado:

Haha….Mrs. Avo you really broke some major Polish-Grandma commandments there! Luckily, Babcia’s are pretty forgiving (especially when they become Great Grandmothers) :P

 
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BenJerrysBride
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BenJerrysBride (message)  106 posts, Blushing bee

Horray another Vermont bride! Welcome and can’t wait to hear about your adventures! Vermont is a wonderful place to wed and despite its smallness and whatnot the vendors and the people are awesome. Congrats on bee-ing!

 
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Ms. Min Pin
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Ms. Min Pin (message)  104 posts, Blushing bee

welcome! looking forward to seeing which polish traditions you will incorporate into your wedding (i am full blooded polish myself)

 
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Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,630 posts, Bumble bee

Very sweet metaphor…WELCOME!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

eep! Cute picture and metaphor. Love that you love Shakespeare! Hope you incorporate some love of lit in your posts :-)
Welcome!!

 
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KMSull
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KMSull (message)  2,326 posts, Buzzing bee

Wow, I already LOVE you! So excited to see what your planning is like, and I love your metaphor because I totally understand it. I’m just hanging on for the ride right now too.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,596 posts, Sugar bee

I love the metaphor! :) Mr. Taffy and I are going to Canada tonight for a few days, I will say hello for you! ;)

 
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Mrs. Flamingo (message)  1,267 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome! Yay for another Canadian bee :)

 
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Mrs. Flamingo (message)  1,267 posts, Bumble bee

or should i say half/canadian :P

 
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Ms Potato Chips (message)  308 posts, Helper bee

Love the HIMYM reference and hurrah to dirty Shakespeare jokes!! Welcome!

 
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naangel55
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naangel55 (message)  1,555 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome! I love the pic of you two :)

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  240 posts, Helper bee

@LatteLove: Don’t worry. There are lot’s of literary references to come!

@KMSull: It can be so scary to completely rely on another person, but I think that in a good relationship, you have to be willing to give your partner that kind of trust. It’s scary, but also exhilarating!@Mrs. Taffy: Please do! Where are you going? Do you need any recommendations?

@Mrs. Flamingo: I don’t even know what I am anymore….Polish/Canadian/American….a real mutt!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

Welcome Miss Puddling! I can’t wait to hear more about your wedding :)
and I LOVE that picture/metaphor!

 
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JeniRae
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JeniRae (message)  318 posts, Helper bee

Welcome to Weddingbee!

Na zdrowie!

(I just attended a VERY Polish-American polka dance wedding and hear this a LOT!) If your wedding is as fun as that one… we’re in for a treat! :)

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,015 posts, Sugar bee

Welcome Miss Pudding!!! :)

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  240 posts, Helper bee

@JeniRae: It wouldn’t be a polish wedding without polka and lot’s of alcohol!

 
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llc2011
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llc2011 (message)  458 posts, Helper bee

Welcome!! Can’t wait to hear about your Polish wedding!

 
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froggy518
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froggy518 (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

Pudding, cleaning, and Shakespeare - I’m in! :D Congratulations on becoming a bee!

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  3,262 posts, Sugar bee

Welcome, welcome, Miss Pudding! You guys are adorable! I’m excited to hear more.

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,610 posts, Sugar bee

that’s such a cute picture of you two! welcome to the hive miss pudding!

 
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roxymarie
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roxymarie (message)  98 posts, Worker bee

I love you already just from your How I Met Your Mother reference! Plus I also have a love for the Toronto area (the man’s sister lives out there and we love to visit). I can’t wait to hear more from you and congrats on your Beedom!

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  240 posts, Helper bee

Thanks for all of the love ladies!

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  3,976 posts, Honey bee

Welcome, Miss Pudding! Great to have you here!

 
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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,529 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome Miss Pudding! Can’t wait to hear all about your wedding planning!

 
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KatieBug3017
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KatieBug3017 (message)  1,418 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome! :) Ahhh another How I Met Your Mother fan? I like… :)

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  582 posts, Busy bee

Welcome, Miss Pudding! I love your sweet icon!

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  3,104 posts, Sugar bee

Yay!! Welcome Miss Pudding! I am so happy that Canada’s being represented! Woo :)

I look forward to hearing lots more from you!

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  1,524 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome, welcome, welcome! That photo is great!

 


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