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Mrs. Cola, Mountain View, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Product Communications and Promotions Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Managing Partner and Senior Designer Engagement Date: March 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA About Me: I’m a Washington State native, enjoying life in Silicon Valley California with my fiancé, our three kitties and one leopard gecko. I like reading wedding blogs, Photoshopping wedding design mock ups, making lists, and planning, planning, planning! I’m a bit of an anomaly, on one side I’m a very girlie girl, I collect shoes, I lay out my outfits 4-6 weeks in advance, and I’d never leave the house without my hair curled and makeup on. But on the other side, I’m a total tomboy, I love to go camping and hiking, play drinking games (hey, I’m Irish!) and most of my closest friends are guys. My fiancé and I are planning a DIY-focused wedding with a balance between easygoing (what he wants) and chic and stylish (what I want), and are tying it all together with elements in lavender, sage, butter cream and chocolate.
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Inviting Our Wedding Party

November 18th, 2009 @ 10:54 am by Mrs. Cola

After selecting our venue and setting up our custom wedding website (more on that later), the next most important thing was asking our wedding party if, well, they’d be in our wedding party!

For Mr. Cola it was an easy choice. His brother would be his best man, and his 3 best friends from high school and college would be his groomsmen. Done, easy as pie.

However, considering that most of my friends are guys, and I’d had to disown my best girlfriend last January (long story), I was at first not looking forward to picking my girls. Obviously my sister would be my MOH, there was no question about that, but I didn’t want to ask anyone to be a bridesmaid that I wasn’t that close with, and make someone feel obligated because they were asked. So I ended up picking bridesmaid H, who I’ve become friends with over the past 3 years (and who is now conveniently married to one of the groomsmen!), and bridesmaid A, who is my future sister in law.

So we’ll be having uneven numbers, with 4 on Mr. Cola’s side and 3 on mine. But it wasn’t a big deal to me, so I moved on to making the fun little “will you be in our wedding party” cards!

I had ordered paper samples from Paper and More, to find the perfect shade of lavender paper, as well as samples from LCI Paper for the perfect textured green card stock. Using these samples, I double sided printed two cards per sheet on the lavender 65lb card stock. I tried to use chocolate brown ink, but it turned out a dark purple when printed. I then cut the one sheet of green card stock into 7 strips, and glued them around the cards as thin belly bands, tying brown satin ribbon over the green for an extra pop of texture.

I did this all very on-the-fly, without actually sitting down and plotting out my exact measurements and steps before implementing. I won’t be doing that for bigger projects, but fur just a quick and small paper project, I did pretty OK without a plan of action laid out.

Here is the final result, the wedding party invite with the belly band on:Inviting Our Wedding Party :  wedding bridesmaid gift diy stationery Img 19101  The invite with the belly band off: Inviting Our Wedding Party :  wedding bridesmaid gift diy stationery Img 19102  Invite open: Inviting Our Wedding Party :  wedding bridesmaid gift diy stationery Img 19103  {All pics taken by me}

The cost:

  • 4 sheets of orchid paper - $2.00 ($0.50 for each sample)
  • 7 A7 envelopes in orchid - $3.50 ($0.50 for each sample)
  • 1 sheet of green card stock - $1.00 (sample price)
  • About 6.5 feet of ribbon - $1.99 (3 yards for $1.99)

= ~$1.21 each + stamp

Not bad for making invites out of paper samples!

Did you have trouble picking who would be in your wedding party? And once you picked, did you send them a cute card?

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16 Responses to “Inviting Our Wedding Party”

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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

They turned out really cute! I’m impressed that you’ve already got your color scheme figured out and that you’re working it in wherever you can!

 
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JoJo7483
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JoJo7483 (message)  96 posts, Worker bee

We have an uneven number in our wedding party too. I have 7 and he has 8. I refused to ask somebody that I didn’t care that much about or wasn’t that close to just to equal his 8. It was an issue with him at first but he eventually got over it :)

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

Awww those are so cute! I can’t wait to make bridesmaids cards!

 
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fromcharleston (message)  651 posts, Busy bee

if most of your close friends are guys, why not ask a bridesman?

 
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redherring
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redherring (message)  1,969 posts, Buzzing bee

Eh - I just asked one of my male friends to be on my side. He’ll be an awesome bridesman. My fiance also has a groomswoman on his side. Yay for mixed-gender wedding parties!

 
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Miss French Fries
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,217 posts, Buzzing bee

Very cute!!!

We’re not having even numbers for our wedding party, either. People are somewhat shocked when I tell them this, and I usually reply, “We’re not going to prom. It’s a wedding.” They usually don’t know what to say after that. :)

 
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Miss Cola (message)  2,868 posts, Sugar bee

@ fromcharleston and redherring - I did seriously consider asking my guy friends to be in the wedding….but they just don’t have the legs for purple sundresses! LOL. But no, really, we didn’t want them to have to pick sides, because they’re also friends with my hubby, and they’re actually much more excited to have a less center-of-attention role in planning my bachelorette party.

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

Those are lovely. We’ve got uneven numbers too. sigh

 
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bunnylovesbear
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bunnylovesbear (message)  1,726 posts, Bumble bee

These are very nice. I like how the band of ribbon hides the question, “Will you be in our wedding party?” What a fun surprise to unwrap!!

 
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marci_607
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marci_607 (message)  531 posts, Busy bee

I am glad that you posted this! My fiance is much more social than me. I have a couple of close friends, but beyond those, it would have been awkward for me to ask acquaintances to be my bridesmaids! My fiance on the other hand has a whole group of guy buddies. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one! Your cards were very cute, too! :-)

 
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elaineathon
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elaineathon (message)  349 posts, Helper bee

Miss Cola - we are wedding twins! Mine is also June 12, 2010. :) Btw, I had a similar dilemma with picking my BMs, which I wrote about in response to another post. Basically I picked my MOH not because she is my best friend (I don’t think I have a single best gf) but because she is a good friend who is reliable and accessible. I wasn’t as motivated as you with the cute cards though - I just gave them each a phone call!

 
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pmerr
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pmerr (message)  2,518 posts, Sugar bee

I love paper and more! Those turned out great!

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  1,180 posts, Bumble bee

Beautiful cards, Cola!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

cute cards! they turned out wonderfully! i’ll probably just ask my girls. they already know they’re it but it’d still be fun to ask them formally

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,387 posts, Sugar bee

Really cute Miss Cola

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

so cute!!!! i totally want to make cards like these!!

 

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Mrs. Cola
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Mrs. Cola, Mountain View, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Product Communications and Promotions Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Managing Partner and Senior Designer Engagement Date: March 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA About Me: I’m a Washington State native, enjoying life in Silicon Valley California with my fiancé, our three kitties and one leopard gecko. I like reading wedding blogs, Photoshopping wedding design mock ups, making lists, and planning, planning, planning! I’m a bit of an anomaly, on one side I’m a very girlie girl, I collect shoes, I lay out my outfits 4-6 weeks in advance, and I’d never leave the house without my hair curled and makeup on. But on the other side, I’m a total tomboy, I love to go camping and hiking, play drinking games (hey, I’m Irish!) and most of my closest friends are guys. My fiancé and I are planning a DIY-focused wedding with a balance between easygoing (what he wants) and chic and stylish (what I want), and are tying it all together with elements in lavender, sage, butter cream and chocolate.

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