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A Wedding Band Dilemma

November 22nd, 2009 @ 4:10 pm by Mrs. Trail Mix

In case you’re confused, I’m not talking about the kind of band that plays music but the kind that is all sparkly and pretty on my hand! Yes, I’ve been stalking wedding bands and I’m not ashamed to admit it. It’s way more fun than when I was stalking engagement rings because I don’t have to be all sneaky and not tell Mr Trail Mix what I’m doing (yes, I was totally that girl).

Anyways, I’ve got a lot of different ideas for a wedding band. Let’s take a look at how my decision-making process evolved, and afterwards, I’m going to ask all you readers for your input, if ya don’t mind.

First off, just for fun, you all remember my ring, right?

Well, in case you’ve forgotten what it looks like, here’s a refresher:

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Round center stone, smaller diamonds that I believe are set in a shared prong setting. The band is about 2 millimeters wide. So the easiest and most obvious choice would be a matching band of the same width. Classic and (I like to think :) beautiful.

Something like this…

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This one is a full eternity 2 millimeter band from BlueNile. I love it but it is not cheap and not the most original choice ever. Still, a top contender.

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This 2 TCW (that’s total carat weight in case you didn’t know… oh, who am I kidding, any Weddingbee girl knows that) :) is my total dream and Mr Trail Mix would totally laugh in my face if I showed it to him. A 3 grand + ring is not in the wedding budget. Maybe this one is good for a push present later (hint, hint, Mr TM…).

While I was looking at matching bands on BlueNile, I found this pretty 5-stone ring and started picturing it against my ring. I liked the idea, but again, it was still too expensive, so I turned to vintage wedding bands… let le fun begin!

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Lord knows I love me some vintage (fashion and recycling!).

It’s hard to tell if this ring would look as yellow in real life as it does in the picture… I actually like the idea of mixed metals, so I am hoping it’s yellow gold. (I emailed the jeweler, and am waiting to hear back.)

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Once I started looking at vintage wedding bands, there was no stopping me. I decided I like the look of a band that would not create some sort of gap between my engagement ring and not have the band sit flush. I think this one’s so pretty.

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This next one’s sort of an awesome combo of several ideas. Yellow gold, significant bling bling, and would not sit directly against my ring. But it is on the expensive side. I’m reluctantly considering it…

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I got excited when I saw this eternity band for within my budget but alas, the website says it cannot be resized and it is more than a full size too large. Sadness.

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I’ve also always loved bezel-set stones. I heart.

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I also looked at a few diamond and sapphire rings but ultimately nixed the idea. I want someone else to get this band… maybe if you had a sapphire engagement ring?

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This is the last contender… My friend has the white gold one and it is thin, delicate and stunning on its own. But, I would probably go rose gold. I really love mixed metals and this one is just… dreamy.

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So, dear bees, which band should I choose? Let’s poll it out...


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Many thanks!

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38 Responses to “A Wedding Band Dilemma”

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Miss Spaniel (message)  6,809 posts, Busy Beekeeper

I like C and E. I can’t decide which I actually like better, but I voted for E. :)

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow, that’s a really huge jump between first place and second place!

 
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Miss Pretzel
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,899 posts, Buzzing bee

I love the idea of mixing metal colors too! The rose color would be beautiful.

 
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Valhalla (message)  1,425 posts, Bumble bee

I love C - so much you have inspired me!!

 
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amour toujour
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amour toujour (message)  121 posts, Blushing bee

I chose A because I love the matchy-matchy look! My e-ring is very similar to yours and I have a band like A, except mine are not full eternity. Personally I think the larger stones and other designs might take away from your e-ring too much, unless you wore them on different hands, but that’s just my opinion and it’s a bit hard to judge without seeing them together. I really love the look of the intertwined bands though! Gorgeous!

Also, if budget is an issue maybe you could consider going with less than a full eternity, but still enough diamonds that you can’t tell from the top.

 
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lallison

i LOVE the rose gold choice. it is gorgeous and would stand out from your engagement ring, but different enough that it wouldn’t detract from the e-ring’s amazingness. LOVE!!

 
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bluebook
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bluebook (message)  206 posts, Helper bee

I think we have the same ring! I’m going traditional: a matching band, though not eternity because I know I’ll get the bottom diamonds all messed up (and diamonds are brittle! even if they’re hard).

 
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Kippie (message)  107 posts, Blushing bee

I chose A, because I think it will really complement your beautiful e-ring.
My personal favorite is B, because that honey looks just like my future wedding band. I think my stones aren’t that big… But when the ring is on my finger all you can see is bling. And I love me some sparkle! :D

Being a really big sparkle lover I would also be very interested in knowing the specifications of the stones (clean cut, colour, etc)

 
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S-berry

Just a note - please check with your jeweller that it is OK to choose a different metal for your wedding band from what you have in your e-ring. You need to match the hardness of your e-ring (so same metal, same carat), otherwise one of the rings will wear down.

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Busy Beekeeper

I love the first one. :)

 
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Miss Rainbow (message)  1,535 posts, Bumble bee

I love love love c!

 
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bumble Beekeeper

I like the first one - I’m a sucker for eternity bands!

 
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,210 posts, Bee Keeper

I like the first one, but a close second would be option C.

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,821 posts, Bee Keeper

I really like the super-thin ones, and rose gold would be gorgeous!

 
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Ms Potato Chips (message)  1,193 posts, Bumble bee

I love the last one!

 
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Bridebella (message)  368 posts, Helper bee

I love the thin rose gold one! So delicate and pretty!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

i like the intertwined one…so pretty!

 
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adewey15 (message)  35 posts, Newbee

I think my ring is similar to yours as well! My fiance had already purchased my wedding band when he proposed, it is very similar to option A, however, we are going to purchase another one. So there will be 2 bands on both sides of my e-ring!

 
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msgirard (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

I have a ring very similar to yours and I have two matching eternity bands along with a simple plain band. I love the versatility it gives me in terms of the different orders I can wear all my rings. The great thing is I plan to add colored bands on our major anniversary milestones.

 
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sweetlovely
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sweetlovely (message)  140 posts, Blushing bee

We have similar e-rings except mine is a cushion cut. I think A or E would be gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix, New York Age and Occupation: 26, PE Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, MBA Student Engagement Date: March 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Tannery Pond at the Darrow School About Me: I'm a country girl who somehow found herself living in the Big Apple and loving every minute of it. I'm planning a rustic, country-chic wedding in my hometown in upstate New York and it's going to be a Party with a capital P. White wine, flea markets and running keep me happy and my friends, family and fiance are my world. I'm a little bit crafty, a little bit crazy but mostly just crazy in love.

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