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Mrs. Trail Mix, New York Age and Occupation: 26, PE Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, MBA Student Engagement Date: March 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Tannery Pond at the Darrow School About Me: I'm a country girl who somehow found herself living in the Big Apple and loving every minute of it. I'm planning a rustic, country-chic wedding in my hometown in upstate New York and it's going to be a Party with a capital P. White wine, flea markets and running keep me happy and my friends, family and fiance are my world. I'm a little bit crafty, a little bit crazy but mostly just crazy in love.
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Oh, J.Crew, how I love thee. I could easily rhapsody for hours about their sweet jersey dresses or their comfortable, embellished tees. I love the clothes but hate how much money I spend there! I think the vast majority of my wardrobe has been furnished by the Prepsters of Preppy Goodness. So it’s no surprise to me that a lot of my wedding attire has been made possible by the fabulous Ja Crue!

For example, my bridesmaids’ dresses are all from JC, remember?

Why I Love (and Sometimes Hate) J.Crew :  wedding bridesmaid dress Jcrew02 JCrew02

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Now, today I made another important purchase, thanks to their great sales section that I follow stalk (seriously, it’s a problem, I’m on the sale site at least once a day, if not more…). Today I bought my (dum dum dum, serious intro music needed for this announcement)… wedding shoes!

Or at least, I bought my first pair of wedding shoes. (OK, fine, they’re my second! But the other ones were definitely not right and I bought them during the summer for $40 so I’m not going to count them… they were also from J.Crew. I’m serious, I have a problem!)

Anyways, here’s what inspired me to commit to such an important (I’m dead serious when it comes to shoes) purchase. Last weekend, while treating myself to a little birthday shopping from my hallowed mecca, I came across some beautiful, glittery, gold peep toe shoes… in a size 7… on sale for $79.99…

They looked like these, only with a peep toe instead of a closed toe:

Why I Love (and Sometimes Hate) J.Crew :  wedding bridesmaid dress 13 1

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So gorgeous, right? I know, I know, you’re thinking in your head, ‘Trail Mix, you idiot, why didn’t you snatch these pretties up when you had the opportunity?!?!’ At least, that’s what I am thinking in my head now. Alas, I had a vision of yellow shoes for our wedding day and even though this gold is pretty damn close to yellow, I wasn’t able to commit to a new vision on such short notice (these are major major decisions, people, it’s not sensible to make them on the fly in the J.Crew store while surrounded by beautiful merchandise and crying babies!).

I called my mom then and there, talked it over and decided to hold off on purchasing the shoes. Fast forward to a week later and I was seriously regretting my decision. Luckily, J.Crew has the best customer service EVER and when I called, first they checked all the stores to see if any had my size in stock (no dice) and then they offered to put me on their wish list in case someone returns a pair! Excellent. I have until February 1 to hope and pray that someone with a size 7 foot decides these shoes were not meant for them and returns ’em…

However, that got my shoe cravings going and when I spotted these babies in the sale section at J.Crew this morning. I didn’t waste a second.

Here is the pair I actually (hopefully, fingers crossed) managed to purchase:

Why I Love (and Sometimes Hate) J.Crew :  wedding bridesmaid dress 21 2

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They are like a more subdued version of the originals (the Diet Coke of the originals, if you will…). For $80.00, I’m happy. The heel isn’t too high so I’ll be able to dance the night away but still high enough to give me the few extra inches we short girls tend to crave. They are a bit plain and little more bridal than I had originally envisioned so I’m thinking of jazzing them up with some cool shoe clips, like these ones that I found on TwistedCrystal’s shop on Etsy.

Why I Love (and Sometimes Hate) J.Crew :  wedding bridesmaid dress Etsysh Etsy+Sh

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Wouldn’t those be perfect? I’m waiting for the shoes to come in before I make a decision on the clips though…

Oh J.Crew, how I heart you…

But just like any seemingly-perfect relationship, there have been times when the ‘Crew and I have been on rocky ground (hence the hate part in our love-hate relationship). Case in point: Two weeks ago, I found these seriously cute satin, yellow clutches in the sale section (I wasn’t lying when I said I was OBSESSED!) and at $20 a pop, quickly put 4 in my shopping bag for my bridesmaids. I placed my order and went on my merry way, so happy to have found such a bargain as part of my gift to my girls…

Well, three days later, I got a form email from J Crew very glibly apologizing for having “run out of stock before completing my order”. And guess, dear readers, just GUESS what they had run out of stock of… yup, my pretty and cheap and basically perfect satin clutches. The bastards. When I called to complain, the woman was very polite and agreed that this was not an ideal situation and offered to give me a 20% discount on any other clutch they had in stock, which was nice, but not helpful, since none of the other clutches were A) yellow or B) even remotely close to the fabulous price of $20. J.Crew FAIL!

But overall, I have to say that this encounter has not stopped me from stalking the sale section at JC and I think it’s safe to say that my shoes will certainly not be the last wedding purchase I make from them…

Are you into the ‘Crew the way that I am or do you think it’s over-hyped and overpriced?

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Boddy (message)  145 posts, Blushing bee

I have to agree with your love-hate relationship with J.Crew. While I love their style, I don’t particularly love their prices. However, I also stalk their sales section and that’s how I scored my $115 wedding dress and my BMs dresses. Keep searching, and you’ll be able to find those shoes. Love them!

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

I love J. Crew. But sometimes even their sale stuff is a bit $$$ for me! But I do love them so, so much!

 
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Ms Potato Chips (message)  1,193 posts, Bumble bee

Haha, I love that we both posted about the ‘Crew. Great minds, my friend!

 
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amariem25

I’ve never liked JCrew. I always think their items are too expensive for the quality. But that’s just me!

 
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flbeachbride
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flbeachbride (message)  497 posts, Helper bee

I think it’s over-hyped and overpriced, but I know a lot of people feel like you do :)

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I see the appeal of J. Crew, and I applaud your valiant bargain shopper efforts! That said, I can’t get into shopping there. I love love the gold shoes, but even if you don’t end up wearing them, the yellow ones will look great with those shoe clips!

 
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Jenn R

I bought my wedding dress from J. Crew during one of their special 20% of everything sales - plus free shipping! Not so shabby! Plus, it came in a week - unlike traditional wedding dresses that can take up to 6 months to come in.

 
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skibobrown (message)  1,902 posts, Buzzing bee

Oh J. Crew. I’m totally with you as a fellow J. Crew stalker. It is taking all of my energy to keep myself from buying more J.Crew stuff for my wedding. Well… there’s already the bridesmaid dresses of course, and then my shoes are from J. Crew as well. Now I’m totally obsessed with one of their pairs of earrings. Do not click “put in shopping cart”! Do not! Ugh.

 
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Miss Snow (message)  916 posts, Busy bee

I am sooo with you trail mix (says the person with three clearance J Crew wedding dresses that can’t be returned). Sadly, I ordered a 4th (actually it was the first) and it was pretty amazing, but they sent me the wrong one, and were sold out of the one I wanted…Grr.

But so much of my wardrobe comes from the clearance section! I just can’t give it up!

(I love those clips!)

 
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Miss Nachos (message)  1,733 posts, Bumble bee

J. Crew is a little too preppy for me, I’m more of a Hollister/Forever 21/Wet Seal kinda gal, but your bridesmaid dress is too cute!

 
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LatteLove (message)  5,587 posts, Bee Keeper

i have to say those shoe clips are incredible!! Certainly nothing like i found when I was looking for mine!!!

 
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amyrose (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Hi, my name is Amy and I am a J.Crew-aholic. I am totally with you Trail Mix, with the hole love hate relationship with JC! I unfortunately had a total hate moment this past weekend, when i found out that the Felted Wool Bistro Mini skirt (i’m totally in love with it) is on backorder until mid FEBRUARY! Boo.

 
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amyrose (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Also…i just noticed Mr. Trail Mix is a student - do you take advantage of their student discount? My husband is in law school, and if we show them his student id when we check out, we get 15% off our purchase!

 
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lemondrop (message)  1,193 posts, Bumble bee

I only buy when their things are on sale. Yup, I’ve run into the same problem with them running out of stock on my wedding shoes, then I scored a pair that had been returned.

 
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,217 posts, Buzzing bee

Those shoes are awesome! :) But the clutch snafu? Umm..totally annoying.

 
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alvina
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alvina (message)  807 posts, Busy bee

I like the second pair! So elegent! And definitely, you can embellish so it’s not like you’re settling for less (than JCrew) :)

 
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Miss Cheeseburger (message)  1,020 posts, Bumble bee

I actually love the diet coke shoes! And picturing with the shoe clips… I’m dying! TOO CUTE, must do it :)

 
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peachesandtulips
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peachesandtulips (message)  408 posts, Helper bee

I used to work at JCrew, and my bridesmaids’ dresses are from there also! But I definitely feel you on the love-hate regarding ANY sales, because everything is gone so quickly and I’m a very indecisive person! Ugh.

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

i’m not that into j.crew. even the stuff in the outlet is too spendy for me.

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  882 posts, Busy bee

I love it, but seriously overpriced. But seriously great sales, too, so it balances out!

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix, New York Age and Occupation: 26, PE Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, MBA Student Engagement Date: March 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Tannery Pond at the Darrow School About Me: I'm a country girl who somehow found herself living in the Big Apple and loving every minute of it. I'm planning a rustic, country-chic wedding in my hometown in upstate New York and it's going to be a Party with a capital P. White wine, flea markets and running keep me happy and my friends, family and fiance are my world. I'm a little bit crafty, a little bit crazy but mostly just crazy in love.

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