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Miss Pudding, Greater Toronto Area/Vermont Age and Occupation: 26, High School Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: August 2008 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception About Me: Quite literally a citizen of the world, I was born in Poland, grew up in Canada, and now live in the beautiful state of Vermont. I love reading historical biographies, multi-tasking, teasing my hair, and, despite my height, wearing high heeled shoes. I am the ultimate klutz with an uncanny ability to put on a graceful front. Mr. Pudding and I have been dating for over six years, and are very excited to finally merge our (very large) families. We are planning a traditional Polish-Catholic wedding that is anything but predictable.
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Addressing the Dress: Narrowing the Search

November 30th, 2009 @ 9:11 am by Miss Pudding

I have talked about the crazy reasons for not wanting to reveal the identity of my dress on the world wide web. But that doesn’t mean that I can’t write about our dress buying adventures, does it? Oh, and just to make it fun, I will be posting random pictures of me in dresses that I didn’t buy throughout this post.

(all photos taken by Sister Pudding)


Sister Pudding and I spent a lot of time narrowing down the search for dresses. After an extensive search in the Toronto area, we visited some boutiques in Kitchener and Waterloo. We were very pleasantly surprised by the amount of bridal salons that are found in these tiny cities just west of Toronto. The prices of the dresses were also significantly lower than what we were able to find elsewhere.

We knew that I’d never be able to pick a dress without Mama Pudding present, so we made a mental note to bring her back to the stores we visited. We returned to the area shortly before our trip to Poland this summer. Mama Pudding was going to Poland with Mr. P and me, and she was planning on staying for a couple of months, so it was kind of crunch time. We visited our favorite of the Kitchener stores, and found the dress that we felt was “the one”. It was a San Patrick gown that my mom swears was “made for me”. We went to a couple of other stores, but found nothing that even compared to the San Patrick.

Upon returning to the original store and trying the dress on again, we were sold. But this isn’t where the adventure ends. We also began to have a little bit of cold feet.

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The dress was on the expensive side of what we were looking at and the standard length was too long (at my height, this is a surprise) and would need to be ordered in a custom length which was an extra fee. I asked the saleswomen to measure me so that they would have the information on file, and told them that we would sleep on it and call them in the morning. We didn’t want to drive all the way back to Kitchener (about an hour’s drive), but the staff assured us that we could put in the order over the phone.

When we got home, Mama Pudding and I decided to visit just one more bridal salon. We had recently moved, and there was a bridal store just down the street. We walked in, and the saleslady put me in a beautiful, fit and flare, tulle gown. The dress fit me like a glove, and they were having a sample sale. I could have this dress for about 1/4th of the cost of my original pick. We asked the staff to put the dress on hold, and we went home with a big decision to make…

Did you pick a more expensive dream dress or a stunning bargain dress?

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19 Responses to “Addressing the Dress: Narrowing the Search”

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Shayna

Really pretty dresses!

 
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amariem25
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amariem25 (message)  1,197 posts, Bumble bee

I went with a more expensive dress!

 
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krissycake
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krissycake (message)  3,555 posts, Sugar bee

i love that last one a LOT!

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,958 posts, Buzzing bee

Ehhhhh I can’t wait to see what dress you chose, I had the same decision to make. Gorgeous Vera that was going to be almost twice my budget, or budget friendly DB… I went with the DB and was super happy, I just couldn’t valdiate Vera..

 
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Mrs. Star (message)  1,577 posts, Bumble bee

Welllll everyone knows how I decided…I can’t believe how long we have to wait to see yours! ;)

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  780 posts, Busy bee

@pvaulter718: I am a firm believer that the dress does not dictate how you feel on the day (see my post on my “engagement” dress). I think that you did the right thing….I didn’t even dare to dream about Vera :P

@Mrs. Star: Don’t worry, I’m planning on letting you have a little sneak peek :P

 
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fyrefox
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fyrefox (message)  52 posts, Worker bee

went with the stunning bargain dress (it was a consignment) and had it altered a little into my dream dress. Its now hollywood gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Moonbeam (message)  1,470 posts, Bumble bee

you look great in all of those.

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,171 posts, Bee Keeper

I love the way that first dress fits you! I’m so excited to see what you picked, but I guess we have a long time to wait!

 
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KMSull
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KMSull (message)  6,140 posts, Bee Keeper

That last one looks AMAZING! And I keep wishing and hoping that every single dress is THE ONE for you! You are so, so cute.

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  1,867 posts, Buzzing bee

They all look awesome on you - can’t wait to see what you end up with!

 
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lauralou852
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lauralou852 (message)  415 posts, Helper bee

I LOVE that last dress! Excited to see which one you chose!

 
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Miss Cola (message)  1,502 posts, Bumble bee

All of those dresses are so gorgeous on you, I’m sure whichever one you picked will be beautiful!

 
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amanda.lynn
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amanda.lynn (message)  4,068 posts, Honey bee

Those are all sooo pretty on you!!! I’m super curious about what you actually ended up with!

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  4,232 posts, Honey bee

You look so sassy in the last dress! You rocked all these dresses- so I imagine the one you chose is just uh-maze-ing! :)

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  1,074 posts, Bumble bee

I love the light airiness of that last one. You can’t have made a bad choice—you look beautiful in all of them, Pudding!

 
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MrsWoohoo
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MrsWoohoo (message)  525 posts, Busy bee

Sounds like a win-win situation to me! :)

Personally, since I was planning a 5k wedding, I would choose the stunning steal.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,729 posts, Sugar bee

Beautiful!

 
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Miss Buttons (message)  2,658 posts, Sugar bee

So pretty! I want to see the real one! Can’t wait!

 


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