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Mrs. Spaniel, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 28, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Psychologist Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Calamigos Ranch About Me: I'm a third-year law student trying to balance graduating with starting my career, keeping up a relationship, and, oh yeah, planning an Old World, multi-cultural, "mountain lodge" wedding for 180 guests! A South Asian Jewish girl getting ready to marry my handsome Catholic Dane, I'm hoping to blend our cultures in our wedding just a bit more gently than by providing samosas as appetizers and offering æbleskiver for dessert. (Although that would also be awesome.)
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Outfitting the Mister

December 1st, 2009 @ 2:11 pm by Mrs. Spaniel

For the longest time (okay, for the last few months, and only since deciding I wanted to be a hennaed bride, really), I’ve had a fascination with all things paisley:

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Since paisley on my dress is obviously not an option, I got the bright idea that we should incorporate it into the men’s attire. (And maybe the cake, but I digress.) I mentioned it to Mr. Spaniel, who seemed receptive, but “couldn’t imagine what it would look like.”

I had in mind an ivory tie with a gold and silver paisley pattern. I actually had a very clear visualization of it; so clear that I absolutely knew that I would be able to find it, and, if not, find someone to make it: this tie, which may or may not already exist, was exactly the tie that Mr. Spaniel needed to be wearing. A quick search on Google (”ivory+gold+paisley+tie”) yielded this:

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Paul Malone Silk Tie Set: Golden Paisleys, $29.90 at Tie Drake

It couldn’t have been more perfect if a tie designer extracted my thoughts and wove a tie based on them. Especially because that would have been very creepy.

Mr. Spaniel is on board, so we’ll be ordering the set (tie, handkerchief and cufflinks) shortly (and hoping it goes with the black tie/ivory shirt combo I also have in mind). I wish I could find a perfectly matching vest, but maybe it’s not necessary. The groomsmen will probably be in ivory-on-ivory paisley accessories, but there is plenty of time for that decision to be made.

One groomsmen-related that is certain: the men will be in awesome socks.

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I’m excited to try to keep the men’s attire as interesting as the ladies’. Have you seen anything unusual that has caught your eye for the guys? Other than just the hotness of men in tuxes? ;)

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23 Responses to “Outfitting the Mister”

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Gilneas
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Gilneas (message)  1,393 posts, Bumble bee

I looooove paisley, and I think the tie is a subtle and elegant way to incorporate it.

 
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Miss Locket
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Miss Locket (message)  2,837 posts, Sugar bee

Love the paisley!! I convinced the FI to purchase two paisley ties a couple months ago and they have become his favorites and he loves that he is always complimented when he wears them.

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  1,180 posts, Bumble bee

You can’t really tell in the pictures, but Mr. Pudding pretty much wore that exact tie for our “engagement party”. Mr. P looked great, and I’m sure that Mr. Spaniel will look awesome, too!

 
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Miss Cardigan
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

Love that tie!

 
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MsButterfly
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MsButterfly (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Thanks for the website link. I saw a set that my FH might like and goes along with our paisley theme too.

 
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sf_carrie
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sf_carrie (message)  463 posts, Helper bee

I love me some paisley but Mr. Big is a stripes guy.

 
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Miss French Fries
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,218 posts, Buzzing bee

That’s a great tie! I like paisley, but Mr. FF isn’t a huge fan of it…I’ve tried to pick out work ties for him in the print, and he won’t have it!

 
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Mrs. Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

What a great motif. Paisley is so pretty.

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,387 posts, Sugar bee

That’s such a cool way to incorporate paisley :)

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  5,018 posts, Bee Keeper

That’s a great tie! My FI has a pink paisley tie… I heart it!

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I love the tie! It’s so elegant.

 
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soniasays (message)  82 posts, Worker bee

There are black on black paisley ties that look so good! My best guy friend has one and I recently bought my brother one too. They’re classy and amazing and might be a great option for your groomsmen : )

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,288 posts, Bee Keeper

that tie is really nice. the colors look super rich

 
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stlginkgo
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stlginkgo (message)  1,091 posts, Bumble bee

My parents got married in the 70’s and he and his groomsmen had paisley tuxes! Your ties are much more elegant!

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  1,046 posts, Bumble bee

I’ve been obsessed with paisley for such a long time, and I love those sconces. I really want to find a white on white paisley tie for the Mr. I really like the one you found too, just not for us.

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  882 posts, Busy bee

Well! Since you mentioned it, my FI is wearing a Tallia 3 pc suit that has a paisley lining!

 
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Miss Pretzel
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,893 posts, Buzzing bee

Chucks! custom dyed chucks! I love the tie- it’s amazing I’m realizing I also have an obsession with cuff links- good think Mr P does too cause I keep buying him fun and funny cuff links… oh my

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Bee Keeper

@Miss Pretzel: We’re doing custom chucks too! And I’m going to make my fiance’s cufflinks. Hardcore. :p

Love love love bright/funky socks. Doing those too.

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

Spaniel, I think you and I are soulmates! Mr. KM and I BOTH love paisley! He has about 5 paisley ties, and they are all awesome. I even got him a quasi-paisley bow tie for Christmas (cause that’s what he wanted). So fun!

 
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Miss Cola (message)  2,868 posts, Sugar bee

That tie set is hot! And I love guys in bright socks…still looking for the perfect ones for our groomsmen!

 
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Mrs. Spaniel, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 28, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Psychologist Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Calamigos Ranch About Me: I'm a third-year law student trying to balance graduating with starting my career, keeping up a relationship, and, oh yeah, planning an Old World, multi-cultural, "mountain lodge" wedding for 180 guests! A South Asian Jewish girl getting ready to marry my handsome Catholic Dane, I'm hoping to blend our cultures in our wedding just a bit more gently than by providing samosas as appetizers and offering æbleskiver for dessert. (Although that would also be awesome.)

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