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Mrs. Cola, Mountain View, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Product Communications and Promotions Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Managing Partner and Senior Designer Engagement Date: March 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA About Me: I’m a Washington State native, enjoying life in Silicon Valley California with my fiancé, our three kitties and one leopard gecko. I like reading wedding blogs, Photoshopping wedding design mock ups, making lists, and planning, planning, planning! I’m a bit of an anomaly, on one side I’m a very girlie girl, I collect shoes, I lay out my outfits 4-6 weeks in advance, and I’d never leave the house without my hair curled and makeup on. But on the other side, I’m a total tomboy, I love to go camping and hiking, play drinking games (hey, I’m Irish!) and most of my closest friends are guys. My fiancé and I are planning a DIY-focused wedding with a balance between easygoing (what he wants) and chic and stylish (what I want), and are tying it all together with elements in lavender, sage, butter cream and chocolate.
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After the ladies stole the dress I was going to get as my rehearsal dinner dress, I had to find a back up. Finding my rehearsal dinner and after party dresses were so much easier than finding my wedding gown! And where did I turn, but Nordstrom.com! I love the extensive online selection they have, and it’s so easy to search by the particular color you’re looking for. In this case, I decided to go with white, instead of purple. How many times in your life do you get the excuse to wear a white dress, after all?

After narrowing it down to several choices (which I sadly can’t share because they’re no longer available), this is the one I picked, for $98:

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It has a similar cut to the bodice as the bridesmaids’ dresses, especially with the twisted straps, and I love the little pleats on the skirt!

And check out these hot Chinese Laundry heels I got to go with it, for only $35 from Endless.com! Miss Cheeseburger looked at these as well in her search for purple wedding shoes.

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The multiple straps on the heels go nicely with the waist detail on the dress, and they’re the perfect shade of purple, too!

After that, I moved on to my search for a reception dress.

Since I didn’t want to have to wear my wedding dress all night, especially during the debauchery that’s sure to go down at our after party (and it’s an excuse to buy yet another cute outfit!), I decided I’d do a change after the wedding reception.

Our after party will be taking place in adjoining Loft Suites back at the San Mateo Marriott (I’ll post more extensively about the after party later). It will probably be about 25 of our closest friends and family members, who, uh, like to drink. We’re shelling out a huge load of money for an open bar at the reception, but as the hosts, I don’t feel like we can really take advantage of it. So, we’re opting for a small-ish gathering after the big event, where we can get down and PAR-TAY!

So, I needed a comfortable, but still cute and wedding-ish dress, and here is the beauty I bought, for $138 from Nordstrom.

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It’s a bit more formal than Mr. Cola’s after party outfit, but I love that it is light gold, with some sparkle to the material, and think it will be a great follow up to my beautiful wedding dress. Now the problem is finding the right shoes.

I ordered, but returned these shoes from Endless.com. The color of the bow on the back of the heel just wasn’t the right color for the dress. It actually looked MUCH darker/more orange in person than it does in this picture.
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Next, I decided to do a survey on the boards to help me narrow down my selection from these five that I was considering (click the link on any of these for the source/product page):

Chinese Laundry Women’s Mezanine Sandal:

Dresses and More Dresses: My Rehearsal Dinner Dress, After Party Dress and Shoe Options :  wedding dress shoes Chinese01

Nine West Women’s Mushu Dress Sandal:

Dresses and More Dresses: My Rehearsal Dinner Dress, After Party Dress and Shoe Options :  wedding dress shoes Goldsh

Touch Ups Women’s Alana Sandal:

Dresses and More Dresses: My Rehearsal Dinner Dress, After Party Dress and Shoe Options :  wedding dress shoes Goldsh01

Touch Ups Women’s Jillian Sandal:

Dresses and More Dresses: My Rehearsal Dinner Dress, After Party Dress and Shoe Options :  wedding dress shoes Goldsh02

Touch Ups Women’s Kendall Sandal:

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In the Weddingbee survey, the Alana (3rd pair) won, followed by the second pair, and the first pair came in third. I’m thinking I might just order all three, to see which color really goes best with my dress in real life. Also, comfort will be a factor, because by the end of the day I’m sure my feet will be pretty tired.

What do you think, which of these shoes do you like best with my after party dress? Do you have any suggestions for even cuter shoes?

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15 Responses to “Dresses and More Dresses: My Rehearsal Dinner Dress, After Party Dress and Shoe Options”

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Miss Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

LOVE the purple heels with that white dress… and I love the afterparty dress! I was going to buy the black version for the rehearsal dinner, but it sold out in my size by the time I made up my mind. :( Maybe it’s back? ;) I like the 9West heels with it best… and I tend to find their heels pretty comfy.

 
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littlemissmoo
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littlemissmoo (message)  3,006 posts, Sugar bee

Ooh, I love that 2nd dress! Actually I’d love for my MOH to wear that dress…. *wanders off to email…*

 
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Nexus-6
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Nexus-6 (message)  864 posts, Busy bee

I almost bought your after-party dress as my wedding dress! Good choice :)

 
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Miss Pug
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Miss Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

yay for all the party outfits! as for the shoes, i also like the alana, as well as the jillian.

 
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Goldilocks1107
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Goldilocks1107 (message)  2,602 posts, Sugar bee

I love the Alanas - the cute little flowers. I may have to do some shoe shopping today!

 
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elisterine
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elisterine (message)  235 posts, Helper bee

I love that you’re having an after-party!!! I’ve seen people trying on/ buying the Mushu’s and they look GREAT on!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

I love both those dresses :) Great finds.

 
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avhill
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avhill (message)  33 posts, Newbee

I’m actually going to wear the same dress as my after party dress! I specifically chose it to go with my shoes that I got from http://www.shopheylady.com The champagne goggles work perfectly with it!

 
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Miss Cola (message)  2,870 posts, Sugar bee

@avhill - those champagne goggles shoes are SO CUTE! Grrrr, why do they have to be so expensive!!!

 
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Miss Buttons
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Miss Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

mmmm LOVE the second dress! I haven’t even started shopping for some of this stuff yet…I really should get on it!

 
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august15bride
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august15bride (message)  1,667 posts, Bumble bee

Oooh! I wore that first dress to my rehearsal! I LOVED (and still love!) it!

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  2,116 posts, Buzzing bee

I love those purple shoes. They’re awesome! Now can I find a post-wedding excuse to purchase them… hmm…

 
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Miss Nachos
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Miss Nachos (message)  1,734 posts, Bumble bee

Ok, first let me say, I looooooourve those dresses. And second, I like the 3rd pair of shoes the best, too. I say get them all then return the ones you don’t want. It’s so hard picking shoes that you don’t get to try on first!

 
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Miss Cheeseburger (message)  1,020 posts, Bumble bee

dude your after party dress is, um, TO DIE FOR. I want. And I loooove the shoes :) You’re going to be a bangin bride

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I love your after party dress!!

 

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Mrs. Cola, Mountain View, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Product Communications and Promotions Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Managing Partner and Senior Designer Engagement Date: March 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: The Mountain Terrace, Woodside, CA About Me: I’m a Washington State native, enjoying life in Silicon Valley California with my fiancé, our three kitties and one leopard gecko. I like reading wedding blogs, Photoshopping wedding design mock ups, making lists, and planning, planning, planning! I’m a bit of an anomaly, on one side I’m a very girlie girl, I collect shoes, I lay out my outfits 4-6 weeks in advance, and I’d never leave the house without my hair curled and makeup on. But on the other side, I’m a total tomboy, I love to go camping and hiking, play drinking games (hey, I’m Irish!) and most of my closest friends are guys. My fiancé and I are planning a DIY-focused wedding with a balance between easygoing (what he wants) and chic and stylish (what I want), and are tying it all together with elements in lavender, sage, butter cream and chocolate.

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