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(Read Part I)

This two-part post is called Runaway Bride, but at this point in the story, I looked more like this:

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than like this…

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I was standing in Mr. Bunny’s living room with tears streaming down my face, ready to break up with him.

I’d practiced my speech, but I was unable to say anything. All I could do was cry and hold out the engagement ring.

He sat up, confused. He was, as I recall, gentle.

“What’s wrong, honey? Tell me what’s wrong?”

He wouldn’t take the ring. He tried to make me put it back on, but I wouldn’t. I set it on the coffee table.

Together, we went outside and sat on his front porch. At some point, I wrested control of my emotions enough to explain the story.

Mr. B sat silently and listened to my tale — how I sat in church waiting and waiting for him as the pastor preached about being a man of God… and he wasn’t there to stand up.

As I spoke, I saw Mr. Bunny’s face soften.

“I’m sorry, hon. I can only imagine how that must have felt. To be waiting for me while the pastor said those things. And I was at home asleep.”

He said he wanted to be that man standing up at the front of the church. And that he’d gone to bed early so that he would wake up in time to meet me, only he didn’t wake up. I could see that he felt awful about what happened.

It wasn’t enough, of course, for him to say that. I kissed him and told him I loved him, but I wouldn’t put that ring back on. Not yet.

I didn’t want to face the questions from friends and family, so together we made a plan that we’d say he needed to take my engagement ring to be engraved (that actually was our original plan, since my wedding band is 3/4 open work). Instead, I wore my wedding band while Mr. Bunny and I talked and prayed about whether getting married was the right thing to do. I’m so sorry I lied to you, hive, but at the time, I couldn’t live up to what was really going on.

Four days later he got down on one knee (for the first time, by the way ) and asked again. And I said yes … again.

I’d remembered what it was that drew me to Mr. B in the first place — not that he was the perfect man that I always thought I would marry, but that he longs to be that man. He’s a person who loves me, and who wants to walk through life with me, striving together to be the people that God wants us BOTH to be.

Because in spite of all the tears, all the indecision, all the times he thought I was going to cut off contact with him for good, Mr. Bunny never stopped loving me in all the best ways. He was never mean, never impatient, never once raised his voice at me, or told me I was being ridiculous, or acted angry for keeping him in limbo. I knew he was the right man because of these things, not because he shows up for church on Sundays.

And that’s why I married Mr. B. He is the perfect husband for me, and I will kick your booty if you try to tell me otherwise.

photo by Julian Allen

Previously, on the Bunny Bridal Countdown:

The Showers (30+ days)
Dress disaster (28 days)
Dress decision (25 days)
Bunny goes Playboy (23 days)
Cake-speriments, Part I (23 days)
Cake-speriments, Part II
Hoppin’ to my hairdo
The part where everything went wrong
Runaway Bride, Part I