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… to encourage you with what could be a New Year’s resolution! Do you remember this post? Probably not - but it made a huge difference in my life!

This is what I looked like when I began training with Robert. In fact, that’s a week or two in, so imagine me larger than that. In fact, imagine me 20-30 pounds heavier like I was in England - but I’m not showing that picture.
Then, after two months of 3x weekly sweat sessions with Robert and my cousin Rachel, plus a pretty clean, mostly vegetarian diet (okay, I admit it, it wasn’t that clean—I stress ate way too often), and extra running/Jillian Michaels sessions I came to look like this:

In case you’re a numbers person that looks a bit like this:
7/2/09 —> 8/27/09
Some of my caliper measurements
7/2/09 —> 8/3/09
(I was running a tight schedule the day before the wedding and ran out of time to do them on 8/27)
Finding a personal trainer was one of the best things I did for the wedding. In fact, I’d say it was the best. I had gained A LOT of weight in the past few years and didn’t really feel like myself. Working out with Robert and my cousin Rachel allowed me to win back my strength and that was such an amazing mental and physical gift that I can’t imagine not having on my wedding day. I literally cried on my last day because I was so thankful for the experience.
I’m sure I could have worked harder, and my result would have been even more impressive. But I did what I could at the time within the time frame, and I’m pleased enough with the result. I *may* have backslid a bit and gained a few newlywed/newly-tied-to-a-desk pounds but I’ll be starting with Robert once a week to keep me accountable to my personal goals. I’ll let you know how my war with the newlywed weight proceeds. ![]()
So, if fitness is a New Year’s resolution for you, I can’t recommend finding a personal trainer fast enough. Find one you really enjoy spending time with, one that will make you laugh, but will also push you until you cry (sometimes).
Is improving your fitness a resolution of yours?
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