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Mrs. Parfait, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Senior Online Consultant Engagement Date: February 14, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2010 Venue: Signature Events About Me: I have a soft spot for all things sweet and romantic. Desserts, love songs, sappy movies? Yes, yes, and ohh yes. My fiance and I enjoy singing to our dogs, creating crazy ice cream sundaes, and generally being lovey dovey cuddle bunnies. We also do socially acceptable things like dancing, throwing Frisbees, playing high stakes board games, and taking unreasonably fun road-trips. We're planning a Korean/Serbian wedding with plenty of playful, personal touches!
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A Dress for Each Lady

January 19th, 2010 @ 5:16 pm by Mrs. Parfait

My bridesmaids and I started our dress-search with some dreamy ideas about floor-length, flattering, altogether fabulous gowns. We went to a shop and tried on three hours’ worth of dresses. We pondered our choices for weeks, and I started to feel like we’d never come to a final decision. Just as time was running out, we made a last-minute trip to my bridal shop. We started another round of dress-up (and pass-the-dress), and much to our relief, everyone found The One for them! Which means I can finally show you The Look for my bridesmaids!

The Dresses: I wanted the girls to choose dresses they liked, within the “pink and floor-length” parameters. We ended up with four different styles in five shades of pink. I can totally see each lady’s personality in her dress—my BFFs loved the same strapless ruched dress, but my more outgoing bud chose a brighter hue, while my strawberry-blond bud tried on a million pink dresses before we found a shade that looked perfect against her skin tone and hair. My always-elegant SIL chose the goddess-like, one-shoulder gown in the middle. My future SIL is the youngest, and her dress actually looks the most innocent and sweet. The last dress is sassy and bright, exactly what Mr. P’s tomboyish SIL wanted for a night of dress-up! All of the colors look different in person, but this gives you a general idea:

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Fourth dress; All other dresses


The Shoes: Early on, a few of the girls suggested silver shoes, which sounded good to me. There are tons of options in stores, online, and hopefully in their own closets! I put together some cute examples for a visual:

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Shoes

The Hair and Makeup: While chatting with my bridesmaids today, I realized that no one in my bridal party knows the first thing about styling hair or applying makeup. I’ll attribute that to low maintenance and natural beauty. :) We might enlist the help of a friendor for our updos and formal-but-fresh makeup looks.

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The Accessories: You all know I’m not much of a jewelry person, so I have no requests in this area. If they already own something they want to wear, they’re welcome to wear it. And if they want to use this as an excuse to buy some new baubles, they can feel free!

The Look: Fancy. Fresh. Feminine. And a little saucy, thanks to the heels!

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How would you describe The Look for your bridesmaids?

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future Mrs.M (message)  126 posts, Blushing bee

I am thinking about doing different shades of purple and different styles of dresses for my girls.
are the dresses all the same material? or the same designer? or did they just go out and find whatever dress they liked?
They look great!!

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,312 posts, Bee Keeper

CUTE!!!!

 
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Mrs. Kitten (message)  868 posts, Busy bee

I love the different shades of pink! And those gorgeous hairdos!

 
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Miss Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

I agree, different shades of the same color will look great!

 
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Miss Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

that’s going to be lovely!

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I love all of it! The colors, the boho, flowy long gowns, the funky different-shades-of-silver shoes, and the hair-inspiration.

 
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

i really like this! your bms will look fabulous!

 
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Cole B (message)  1,362 posts, Bumble bee

I’m thinking the same thing for my maids but in purple. I love your updo inspiration!

 
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Miss Snow (message)  916 posts, Busy bee

I love your color palette!

 
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Miss Ribbons (message)  2,018 posts, Buzzing bee

I’m very into the different shades. It’s going to look so striking in photos.

 
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mimi06d (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

They’re going to look great!

 
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

I love this! I think it’s such a great look to have the same color in different shades - they’re going to look amazing together!

 
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Miss Pencils (message)  1,027 posts, Bumble bee

Mmm. I love those classy hairstyles. good choices!

 
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angelicduckie (message)  155 posts, Blushing bee

i love the hairstyles! Love the pink dresses. My bridesmaids are going to wear fuchsia dress with silver strappy shoes. :)

 
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Miss Argyle (message)  2,516 posts, Sugar bee

I love the idea of the girls picking their dress or color of dress. I chose the color for my girls, but they get to pick their shoes. A bit of a trade-off, but the dress I chose is definitely re-wearable.

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  1,755 posts, Buzzing bee

@future Mrs.M: Thanks! The fabric and designer didn’t matter to us–they just tried on a ton of dresses and chose their favorites!

@Miss Ribbons: That’s what I’m hoping! We took a few test photos in the bridal shop, and they were lookin’ good. : )

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

We’re doing the exact same thing (letting them pick out their own dresses) with both the groomsmen and the bridesmaids but I have yet to figure out the shoe situation.

 
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,217 posts, Buzzing bee

Love it!!! (Everyone knows of my affinity toward pink.) Your girls are going to look great — and the silver shoes will be just the right amount of pop!

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  4,045 posts, Honey bee

Wonderful! Your bridesmaids will look so pretty! I love those dresses.

 
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Miss Nachos (message)  1,733 posts, Bumble bee

I think the pink is gonna look awesome with the silver shoes! And I can relate to your red-headed girl, I could never find a pink that looked good on me when I was growing up. But the paler pink is perfect!

 
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Mrs. Parfait, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Senior Online Consultant Engagement Date: February 14, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2010 Venue: Signature Events About Me: I have a soft spot for all things sweet and romantic. Desserts, love songs, sappy movies? Yes, yes, and ohh yes. My fiance and I enjoy singing to our dogs, creating crazy ice cream sundaes, and generally being lovey dovey cuddle bunnies. We also do socially acceptable things like dancing, throwing Frisbees, playing high stakes board games, and taking unreasonably fun road-trips. We're planning a Korean/Serbian wedding with plenty of playful, personal touches!

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