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Mrs. Buttons, Clearwater, FL Age and Occupation: 24, "Working on it" Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Services Engagement Date: June 13, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Carlouel Yacht Club About Me: I'm a self proclaimed perfectionist and a professional nomad (seriously, I've lived in TX, WI, MI, FL, NC, and now VA!). I love wine, cooking, curling up with a good book (nerd alert!), spoiling the furbaby, and of course, the wonderful Mr. Buttons! We are planning a lighthearted and whimsical wedding (with a good deal of DIY projects) in Clearwater, Florida, but from a distance of 800 miles away! We are looking forward to sharing our day with our family and friends, and most importantly, starting our lives together as husband and wife!
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Save the Dates: What I Learned

January 22nd, 2010 @ 10:07 am by Mrs. Buttons

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I promise, this is the final post about our Save the Dates!

I know that I already lamented about our printer problems, but there are a few things that we learned with our Save the Date process that I’d like to mention… because if I could do it all over again, I would change a few things! Perhaps you will be smarter than me, and potentially learn from my mistakes?

  • First, make sure you are using a computer that isn’t going to freak out on you when you’re printing. Unfortunately, Mr. Buttons and I are the not-so-proud owners of a very basic, very slow, and very dumb printer. And yes, we printed each of the envelopes one by one. I know some of you are probably screaming at the computer saying “Miss Buttons, why in the WORLD would you not use mail merge? Really now… you are so silly!” Sadly, when I downloaded the free font that I used, I didn’t realize that the font did not include every single character (there was no apostrophe, comma, etc.), and when I tried to merge, the font did not apply to everything as I wanted. So, it was either do a mail merge, then go through and fix each address individually, or just type them all one at a time and hit print. I figured that it would take the same amount of time… so, this leads me to the next point:
  • If you are downloading a font to use, make sure all of the characters you want to use are included! Oooops.

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  • Third, I would make sure that our magnets/Save the Dates included the city where the wedding is taking place. Since our current address is in Virginia, and the wedding is in Florida, I didn’t realize that it would cause confusion! Someone called my parents and asked if the wedding is in California! I am really not sure why they thought that… perhaps the VA on our return address looked like CA to them???
  • Next, I would be certain that we sign both our first and last names in the cards for guests who don’t know us well! This wasn’t a problem for most of our guests, as most of the guests were aware they were receiving a card in the first place, but there were a few of my dad’s coworkers who had no clue who we were based on first names alone. D’oh! I felt incredibly dumb.

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  • Last, but not least, we would make sure my mom checked the glue dot package strength before sticking them to the magnets/cards. As we were doing it, I thought to myself that the glue dots felt pretty strong, but we kept going anyway. When I got home over Thanksgiving, I asked my mom if she still had the package the dots came in (she has just given me the roll). Sure enough, on the package the box was not marked “low tack” ,or “medium tack”, but SUPER HIGH TACK! Well, no wonder people were having a hard time taking the magnet off of the card… sorry everyone!

All in all, I’m glad that we were able to see what problems arose while creating our Save the Dates. I’m thinking of it as a practice run for the invites, and I am hoping that we won’t run into similar problems with those!

Did you learn some important things while creating your invites/Save the Dates? Do you have any good tips to share to keep people sane?

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20 Responses to “Save the Dates: What I Learned”

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Miss Pencils (message)  1,027 posts, Bumble bee

These are great lessons! I know for sure some of our guests would have been confused if we hadn’t listed our location! And you’re so right about mail merge- I had to do the “fix individual addresses” thing. boy was that fun!

 
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Miss Splash (message)  148 posts, Blushing bee

I didn’t include a location — I made Christmas cards with shutterfly and included the STD information. I should have included the location (as the wedding is in NY and my fiance is from South Dakota but we now live in Washington, DC). But — it has people calling and asking for information, and it’s been a way for me to interact and figure out (a little bit) who is able/unable to come to the wedding (premature head counting).

 
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orecookie (message)  43 posts, Newbee

The NAME!!! that is a great lesson, i forgot to print FH name and just put my name in it, ppl are wondering who is this, till they saw our picture lol

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Bee Keeper

Thanks for these lessons. Right now I don’t have our last names on the save the dates, because it makes them look icky, but maybe there’s a way to sneak them in there.

 
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Miss Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

thanks for sharing these tips, i’m sure they will help a lot of people out. i myself could have used your tip in providing last names on our save the dates, and a little more information. regardless, these things do not take away from the fabulousness of your save the dates!

 
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Miss French Fries
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,217 posts, Buzzing bee

Yeah, I forgot to put our full names on ours, too. I *think* everyone that we’re inviting knows who we are, but I guess you never know!

 
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Miss Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@Miss Pencils: Well, I guess we mistakenly assumed everyone would figure “Florida” since we’ve only been in VA for a few months! Oops…

@orecookie: Yep…people were confused! I had to laugh at it…it was only a few guests that were unsure of who we were!!!

@Miss Scissors: Yeah, I really thought it looked weird, so I kind of didn’t do it…and then I just realized that I would include the last name on only the cards who might need the “tip”

 
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

Ahh thanks for sharing the tips - I totally would have forgot location. And we should try to include full names too!

 
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cfitz621 (message)  169 posts, Blushing bee

Hmmm . . . no full names on ours either. Gah.

I even just ordered return labels (like an hour ago) and our last names aren’t on that either! Uh-oh.

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

This is all very good advice! I had no idea that glue dots came in different strengths!

 
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Miss Chicken Wing
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Miss Chicken Wing (message)  1,225 posts, Bumble bee

Great lessons, Miss Buttons! Like Mrs. Mouse, I had no idea they had different strengths! All of these are great to know! Thanks for sharing!

 
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Miss Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@Mrs. Mouse: @Miss Chicken Wing: Yep…I had no idea either! You pretty much can’t detach the glue dot from our magnets/cards unless you use a knife or something! Whooooops! Lesson learned the hard way (well, for our guests I guess!)….

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

these are great tips for the rest of us!

 
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Miss Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

great tips! esp. on the font! I had to throw a couple out because of that same reason!

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

The last name thing is going to be SO important to us, since we’re not including a picture in it!

 
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Miss Buttons
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Miss Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@Miss Sewing: Yeah, sadly I realized this too late in the process and just worked around it!

 
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mimi06d
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mimi06d (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

great tips!

 
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Miss Nachos
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Miss Nachos (message)  1,733 posts, Bumble bee

I initially almost forgot to put our last names on the invitations, too. My helpful tip that I learned was to hire someone to make them for us!

 
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Miss Buttons
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Miss Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@Miss Nachos: Brilliant ;) Delegating tasks to others is a good idea…lol

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  5,018 posts, Bee Keeper

lol thanks for the advice!! I definitely went back & forth with the whole first name/last name thing. My FI goes by his middlename NICKNAME, but I always call him his full middlename… so if even putting his full middle name on the invites would have thrown people. Sigh. Decisions, decisions! I guess you can’t always make the right one…

 

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Mrs. Buttons, Clearwater, FL Age and Occupation: 24, "Working on it" Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Services Engagement Date: June 13, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Carlouel Yacht Club About Me: I'm a self proclaimed perfectionist and a professional nomad (seriously, I've lived in TX, WI, MI, FL, NC, and now VA!). I love wine, cooking, curling up with a good book (nerd alert!), spoiling the furbaby, and of course, the wonderful Mr. Buttons! We are planning a lighthearted and whimsical wedding (with a good deal of DIY projects) in Clearwater, Florida, but from a distance of 800 miles away! We are looking forward to sharing our day with our family and friends, and most importantly, starting our lives together as husband and wife!

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