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Truth be told, we were having so much fun dancing and talking with all of our guests that we forgot about the cake. That is, until we saw this little guy already digging into one of the red velvet cupcakes.
So we scurried our fancy butts on over to the dessert table and started to cut the cake. We never planned on having a cake. We were content with the cupcakes, caramel apples, and cheesecake and just figured we’d feed each other half a cupcake. But on the morning of our wedding, our cupcake caterer surprised us with a mini cake for us to cut. Loved our vendors!
Mr. Espresso showing off as we tried to cut the cake that had started to freeze from the weather: 
Almost there…
Seriously… cutting one tiny cake with two different hands is more difficult that you would think!
There we go…
Wait… what’s this face of Mr. Espresso’s?
Nevermind, I’m starting to look a little mischievous myself
We had already talked pre-wedding that we wouldn’t be smashing the cake in each other’s faces. I understand that some people love it, but we decided on just going the “feeding nicely” route…
until half the bite dropped down my dress, that is.
Oh, the feeling of having smooshed red velvet between your boobs, in front of all your family and friends, and not being able to do one tiny thing about it…
We laughed it off and kissed. I had red velvet all over my hands and didn’t want to get my hands on his shirt…
But then I remembered that it was already in my dress, it was our Wedding Day, and I LOVE this man! Screw the Red Velvet stains—now we matched! 
Will you be feeding nicely or caking smashing on your wedding day?
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Weekend Mountain Wedding: Cheers!
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Weekend Mountain Wedding: an Abandoned House and an Open Field
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Bridge, Part 2
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Bridge, Part 1
Weekend Mountain Wedding: It’s All Relative
Weekend Mountain Wedding: A Whole Lot of Love
Weekend Mountain Wedding: We Say I Do!!!
Weekend Mountain Wedding: A Walk Beneath the Pines
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Procession of Little Black Dresses
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Clock Strikes Two
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Dress Comes On
Weekend Mountain Wedding: Fancy Men at Dreamland
Weekend Mountain Wedding: Time to Get Beautified
Weekend Mountain Wedding: Morning Time
Weekend Mountain Wedding: Fancy vs. Not Fancy at the Rehearsal
Weekend Mountain Wedding: The Day Before
Weekend Mountain Wedding: Proof That It Did In Fact Happen
All photos by the amazingly talented Sandra Salisbury
I’m hoping to feed nicely, but I have a feeling the Mr has different ideas!
Nicely, for sure! Um cupcakes, caramel apples and cheesecake sound too good to be true ( and are totally along the lines of what I want dessert wise) but F Stripes wants to cut a cake….and how perfect is that little cutting cake??? Yay! What a super solution! Thanks!
Yum! So you have probably already posted about this elsewhere, but where did you get your perfect hair flower?
yum! i definitely want cupcakes too, so i love the idea of a little cake that we can cut!
Ahh, your pictures are amazing. Those last two are incredible!! Oh, and we’re part of the non-smash crowd too.
I love your mini cake! We had the opposite problem, our cake was melting from the heat. We didn’t do a smash–my orders. 
Hahaha, I have mentioned several times to FH that I will be seriously pissed off if he tries to smash the cake in my face…We’ll see tho, he’s just that evil to go and try anyways…
I have given Mr. Library a visual of where on my face he would even be allowed to smoosh cake. It’s a small window so that our red velvet won’t ruin my dress! I cannot wait!
Haha, cute! Maybe we should have stuck with white cake, given our propensity for dropping food, as well. 
Those photos are awesome - you two are such a gorgeous couple! Um, I told FI that I don’t want any smashing and he just grinned mischievously. Looks like I’m outta luck, haha…but, we’re super playful with each other, so it’d be very “us” to smash the cake.
that looks delish. and so sweet of your vendor to surprise you. that last pic is adorable!
awww too freaking cute! now I’m hungry. totally think we are going the red velvet route for our cake
Sweet surprise by your cupcake vendor. very cute mini cake n the red velvet looks delish. The little guy eating his cupcake looks adorable in the pixs as do you guys. Great choice on taking the non-cake smashing route.
Awww, that’s so sweet! I love your cutting cake…and red velvet!
I’m thinking nice, but probably will end up smashing it. haha.
Love the pictures!
No smashing for us! And I can’t even imagine what cake between the boobs feels like.
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Mrs. Espresso, Corona/Big Bear Age and Occupation: 23, Community Services Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 22, Maintenance Technician Engagement Date: December 21, 2007 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 25, 2008 Venue: Outside a rustic b&b in Big Bear Lake About Me: I'm a lover of all things good: coffee, music, travel, rain, and of course- my handsome fiance! I'm a full believer in the "Life is Short," mantra - and therefore, eat lots of dark chocolate. I'm a Geographer by degree and nerd by choice. I cook to the sound of French and Portuguese music even though I speak neither. I love road trips, camping, hiking, and capturing life through the lens of my camera. Take me to Anthropologie and I may never leave. I'm a sucker for pretty packaging, bargain finds, and old movies. Mr. Espresso and I are high school sweethearts and I am so blessed to be this amazing man's future wife.
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