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Miss Snow, Madison, WI/Asheville, NC Age and Occupation: 28, PhD student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Graphic Designer Engagement Date: August 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Claxton Farm About Me: I am true Southern gal displaced in the beautiful and blustery midwest. A true theatre geek at heart, I love any kind of performance and spend most of my time researching old productions in dank library archives. When not in the library, I love music (punk rock, bluegrass, and everything in between), design in all forms, any reality TV show on Bravo (especially those that feature housewives or sharp knives), beer and wine from Oregon, and exploring the outdoors. My fiance and I are true best friends, and he inspires me every day. After a long and happy dating relationship, we’ve decided to tie the knot in the mountains of North Carolina, our home state. We’re planning a long-distance, largely-DIY, eco-conscious hip farm affair that celebrates family, friends, and love.
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First, I’m sorry to delay this post so long, and thank you for sticking with me on the where-in-the-world-will-they-go saga!

OK, so when I last left you, I’d given you some rather hilarious teaser pictures of some seriously gorgeous locations here.

So, what were those places?

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The first picture was from this lovely little (only 90 rooms!) resort called Zoetry Paraiso de la Bonita.

This resort is located in Rivera Maya and boasts “Endless Privileges”.

They pick you up from the airport with champagne and towels, every room is oceanfront, and the “all-inclusive aspect includes everything (from local/organic cuisine and welcome bottle of tequila to spa access and sunset cruises on the resort catamaran). They don’t even have check in or check out times! It also costs a. lot. The most out of all we considered. And it is reportedly kinda quiet (like zero things happening after 11 PM… no bands, clubs, acoustic guitar player, nothing). They also allow children, but there’s literally nothing for them to do there and the website states that:

“Although Zoëtry Wellness & Spa Resorts do allow families with young children, there is a very limited selection of services and amenities available to accommodate them.” Still, this seems to be a major factor in a lot of reviews since the resort is so small.

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Behind cheesy couple picture no. 2: Excellence Playa Mujeres!

Yes, EPM has a real WB following. Mrs. Penguin spent her honeymoon there, as did several other hive members, and Pengy’s post is an amazing review. This resort had almost all the same all-inclusive amenities as Zoetry, but looked a bit more hip and happening. We liked this resort a lot, and it had excellent reviews. Adults-only, too!

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And finally: Royal Hideaway Playacar

This resort had the highest TripAdvisor ratings (92% positive) and was still in our budget. It featured many of the same amenities as Zoetry and EPM, but was located close to the main Cancun area. Mr. Snow really liked this one based on ratings.

So, which did we pick???

*one exhausted, sick-of-honeymoon-researching drum roll please*

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ZOETRY!!

So, how’d we end up with the most expensive location? By stalking travel websites for well over two weeks until we found a deal! In the end, the headaches of research and comparison were worth it, and we found Zoetry on some major 40% sale. In the end we decided there probably wouldn’t be tons of children, and we’d pay more at either of our other top-two resorts for the same amenities we’d get with the most basic room at Zoetry (oceanview, airport transfers, etc.). It’ll probably be a little isolated, but we’re not sure we could accomplish or afford a ton of excursions with 4 days and our smallish budget. And we’ll have to live without the Cancun party scene. :)

More than anything, I think we were just relieved to be done with the research. Don’t get me wrong, we’re really excited now that we’ve decided, but at the time I would have agreed to just about anywhere as long as we didn’t have to look at any more reviews.

Over the past few days, I’ve gotten sucked into reading more reviews of the other two spots we didn’t choose and worrying that we haven’t made the right choice even though we’re very happy with our decision. I think part of my reasoning is that there aren’t as many reviews out there about Zoetry as there are about the other two (if you search for it on Weddingbee, NOTHING comes up! :( ). This honeymoon research has been just about the most stressful part of our wedding planning, if you can believe it…

So, has anyone been to Zoetry? Heard about Zoetry? And did anyone else have honeymoon ambivalence when it was all said and done?

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30 Responses to “Finally… (The Snows Finally Pick a Freakin’ Honeymoon Destination)”

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slicey19 (message)  1,116 posts, Bumble bee

I hear you on the remorse. We booked the smallest Sandals property on St. Lucia even though it was not the cheapest because we liked that it was quiet. Then I started reading reviews on the other 2 properties and it seemed like there were way more reviews of the others. I went as far as asking our travel agent if we could change and then FI stopped me. We made our decision without so much internet research but we were happy with it and I’m sure we’ll love the resort on our honeymoon! I”m sure you will too!

 
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slicey19 (message)  1,116 posts, Bumble bee

Oh and I just Googled Zoetry now because your honeymoon sounds amazing! Why didn’t you post this last month :)

 
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ladyox (message)  178 posts, Blushing bee

We picked Zoetry for our honeymoon too after doing TONS of research but I don’t get married until late May, so I’m guessing I’ll be there just before you are! If I have any tips after I get back, I’ll let you know!

We decided to stay the first two nights in Cancun at a plain old hotel to save a little money and get a taste of the hustle and bustle before we spend our last 5 nights at Zoetry. Our travel agent said that Zoetry is isolated enough to be private and cozy but still close enough to everything to day trip to more hoppin’ places if you want to.

 
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Miss French Fries (message)  1,617 posts, Bumble bee

We considered going to Zoetry!!! :) My boss went there over the Christmas holidays and she reported back that it was awesome — very luxurious and relaxing. Good choice!

 
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One of my bridesmaids cousins will be going to Zoetry on their honeymoon. The mother-of-the-groom is a travel agent so she did all the research/planning…so she should know! I think you can feel pretty safe about your decision.

 
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Danish_Student (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

Dare I ask where you found that 40% off deal?

 
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courkiadams22 (message)  41 posts, Newbee

I’m going to Zoetry!!! But not the same one I don’t think- we are going to Zoetry Agua Punta Cana…we get there day after our wedding. I can’t wait!! I’m anxious to see how these “endless privileges” work out. I’ll let you know how it goes. I STALK the tripadvisor website BIG TIME the more reviews I hear the more I can’t wait to get there.

 
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Miss Snow (message)  628 posts, Busy bee

@Danish_Student: Orbitz!

@courkiadams22: @ladyox: We’ll have to compare notes after we all get back!

@slicey19: Glad to hear I’m not the only feeling honeymoon remorse :)

 
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mrsRtobe (message)  15 posts, Newbee

That sounds excellent! What discount sites did you use?

 
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Ms Potato Chips (message)  1,068 posts, Bumble bee

The first two were also some of our top contenders!! We really wanted to go to Zoetry! It looks amazing!

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,625 posts, Bee Keeper

I think you guys will have an amazing time. Being isolated with all of those amenities sounds so relaxing.

 
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YAY you’re booked! I’ve never heard of it but I followed the link to the website and it looks lovely, you will have a great time! I definitely second guessed our honeymoon plans too, I think it’s impossible not to with so many choices. This looks like a place where you’ll really get to kick back, relax and get romantic;)

 
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Mrs. Mary Jane (message)  1,693 posts, Bumble bee

I must admit, I have been really waiting on this post. Mr. Mary Jane and I have really similar ‘wants’ to yours, and are even considering some of these same places! When are you going….? Maybe we’ll be there together. LOL.

 
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christalynn11 (message)  259 posts, Helper bee

Wow, this place had me at “Bottle of Champagne and Frest Fruit” - AHEM? DAILLLYYYY!?

Lucky girl!

 
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Miss Snow (message)  628 posts, Busy bee

@Mrs. Mary Jane: We’ll be there the third week of June. Bee meet-up in Riviera Maya!!
@christalynn11: I am pretty much a sucker for anything that involves champagne. It is my favorite beverage! (Sometimes dangerously so… :) )

 
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amanda.lynn (message)  5,343 posts, Bee Keeper

Yay!!! That sounds amazing!!!!

 
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Miss Pug (message)  2,081 posts, Buzzing bee

it looks like you made an AWESOME choice.

 
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Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  1,913 posts, Buzzing bee

Yay!! It looks awesome! Great choice!!

 
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Miss Spaniel (message)  5,119 posts, Bee Keeper

Congrats on making a decision! I am sure you’ll have a great time. :)

 
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Miss Cola (message)  1,681 posts, Bumble bee

Looks so beautiful! I wish I was there now…

 
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Lillindy (message)  5,437 posts, Bee Keeper

Can’t wait to hear all about it when you come back, we might make that the place we visit for our anniversary trip this year! :)

 
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chrispygal (message)  7 posts, Newbee

Zoetry would have definitely been my choice. I haven’t been there, but like to stay at high end resorts when I do and I have to admit, this place looks like it really goes above and beyond. Can’t wait to hear all about it when you get back!!!

 
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Miss Pencils (message)  751 posts, Busy bee

yay!!! it looks fantastic!!! I’m so happy for you!

 
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Miss Argyle (message)  1,652 posts, Bumble bee

That place is gorgeous! Mr. A snooped around the site earlier and said it was awesome looking!

 
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KBsquared (message)  229 posts, Helper bee

jealous!!

 
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Perk (message)  142 posts, Blushing bee

Great choice! I would’ve picked the same one. We went to a private island in Fiji- they only have 20 couples at a time and we went off-season with only 4 other couples! It was incredible! It will be a trip of a lifetime!

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,543 posts, Sugar bee

Oh, it will be perfect. So happy for you guys!!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  1,229 posts, Bumble bee

Congrats on booking your honeymoon~ Sounds like you’ll get the royal treatment while you’re there!

 
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You will love it! We were there in November and the place is amazing and the staff is great! Have fun!

 
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Miss Buttons (message)  3,018 posts, Sugar bee

Mr. B and I were looking into Zoetry for a little while on our honeymoon hunt! It looks awesome! Great choice - I can’t wait to hear how it is!

 

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Miss Snow, Madison, WI/Asheville, NC Age and Occupation: 28, PhD student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Graphic Designer Engagement Date: August 5, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Claxton Farm About Me: I am true Southern gal displaced in the beautiful and blustery midwest. A true theatre geek at heart, I love any kind of performance and spend most of my time researching old productions in dank library archives. When not in the library, I love music (punk rock, bluegrass, and everything in between), design in all forms, any reality TV show on Bravo (especially those that feature housewives or sharp knives), beer and wine from Oregon, and exploring the outdoors. My fiance and I are true best friends, and he inspires me every day. After a long and happy dating relationship, we’ve decided to tie the knot in the mountains of North Carolina, our home state. We’re planning a long-distance, largely-DIY, eco-conscious hip farm affair that celebrates family, friends, and love.

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