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Mrs. Spaniel, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 28, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Psychologist Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Calamigos Ranch About Me: I'm a third-year law student trying to balance graduating with starting my career, keeping up a relationship, and, oh yeah, planning an Old World, multi-cultural, "mountain lodge" wedding for 180 guests! A South Asian Jewish girl getting ready to marry my handsome Catholic Dane, I'm hoping to blend our cultures in our wedding just a bit more gently than by providing samosas as appetizers and offering æbleskiver for dessert. (Although that would also be awesome.)
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Dress Stress, Part I: Bridesmaids

February 16th, 2010 @ 10:45 am by Mrs. Spaniel

Aside from a few blips and the natural problems associated with wedding planning while law schooling, not too much has really gotten to me in the planning process. I have never been to a “perfect” wedding—have you?—so I wasn’t really that concerned with throwing one. This made it easy for me to avoid stress about the details and most of the vendors.

Which of course meant that when the dresses came in late, I freaked out completely.

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It all started with the bridesmaids’ dresses, which I ordered from House of Brides back in September because they were at least $25 less expensive per dress than any other retailer I visited. I got notification from them that the dresses would arrive in their warehouse at the end of November. Plenty of time!

And then the end of November came. The dresses did not.

And then the end of December came. The dresses did not.

I was too busy with finals to stay on top of everything at the end of the year, but suddenly it was 2010 and I was in a full on panic, but paralyzed by the start of a new semester and a gazillion other things to do. I sent one meek email (that went unanswered), worried a little more and did nothing, and then, finally, in mid-January I got the notice that my dresses had shipped. Huzzah!

Dress Stress, Part I: Bridesmaids :  wedding bridesmaid dress Bmdress

I promised not to take pictures of the girls in the dresses until they fit!
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They looked fabulous, and since they came early enough, I was super relieved.

Until one of my bridesmaids picked hers up last week and noticed that the sash was missing!!! HOB was a lot more responsive to me this time, and when I sent my ohmygodsodesparatepleasehelpme email, I got an email back within an hour and a promise that another sash would be on its way within two weeks. (This was great news, because I got myself so worked up in those few minutes between the discovery and the response that I swear my blood pressure doubled.) Amazingly, it took only a few days! They may be slow when your wedding is far off, but HOB totally came through when I needed them. Thank goodness; I will live to have my heart attack another day.

As for my dress… that was a different story…

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21 Responses to “Dress Stress, Part I: Bridesmaids”

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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,829 posts, Buzzing bee

glad that everything worked out… i can’t wait to see how the look on your ladies!

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

Your dress? Oh no… that sounds super scary.

 
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AzinAugust
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AzinAugust (message)  1,651 posts, Bumble bee

I agree with @KMSull I am scared about the ominous “As for my dress… that was a different story…”

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  4,045 posts, Honey bee

Phew - glad everything worked out - but nervous about your dress, based on your cliffhanger!

 
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kayakgirl73
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kayakgirl73 (message)  2,124 posts, Buzzing bee

Don’t leave us hanging too long.

 
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Jessie

Are the dresses on this site authentic and made by the actual designer, or are they replicas??

 
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Miss Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

@thefuturemrsjewell: I think they are going to look great!

@KMSull, @AzinAugust, @Miss Hamster &@kayakgirl73: Don’t worry; I think there will be a happy ending! ;)

@Jessie: Yes, they are authentic. HOB has a brick & mortar that is a licensed merchant for the dresses that they sell.

 
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Miss Pug
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Miss Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

that would totally stress me out as well. glad the bridesmaids’ dresses and sashes arrived. oh please let us know what happened with your dress. what a cliffhanger!

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh no! What’s with all the late dresses? I hope your dress situation gets resolved quickly if it hasn’t been already!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

Ugg, so sorry :-/ I know what it’s like to plan your wedding while you’re in school and this stuff does NOT help!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  5,587 posts, Bee Keeper

I was really nervous to work with house of brides as well, but we got ours in time. I love the black lace!

 
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Goldilocks1107
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Goldilocks1107 (message)  2,504 posts, Sugar bee

I’m anxiously waiting for my BM dresses to come in. The final deposit was put down in December. And I wasn’t given an ETA - I may have to give them a call to see when I can expect to receive them. Yes, 7 months is a long way off, but I don’t care. I want those purple dresses in my hands . . . THEN I can relax!

 
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Miss Cardigan
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

Eep! I’d be stressed too! I’m glad it all worked out!

 
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Miss Giraffe
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

Glad to hear it worked out! I’ve been planning to order my BM dresses from HOB!

 
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Bahia Principe Weddings

I would also be stressed. So glad it worked out for you!

 
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VanCountry (message)  24 posts, Newbee

Don’t you just love dress stores!!

Who is the designer/name of your bridesmaids dresses? I love them!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

glad it worked out. the dress is lovely and i can’t wait to see it on your ladies!

 
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Miss Pencils (message)  1,027 posts, Bumble bee

that bmaids dress is gorgeous! i hope part two ends well too! :/

 
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Mrs. Swan (message)  1,046 posts, Bumble bee

That last sentence sounds ominous…uh oh…

Cool looking bridesmaids dresses though.

 
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Miss Argyle
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Miss Argyle (message)  2,516 posts, Sugar bee

Glad it worked out and the sash came fast!

 
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Mrs. Spaniel, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 28, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Psychologist Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Calamigos Ranch About Me: I'm a third-year law student trying to balance graduating with starting my career, keeping up a relationship, and, oh yeah, planning an Old World, multi-cultural, "mountain lodge" wedding for 180 guests! A South Asian Jewish girl getting ready to marry my handsome Catholic Dane, I'm hoping to blend our cultures in our wedding just a bit more gently than by providing samosas as appetizers and offering æbleskiver for dessert. (Although that would also be awesome.)

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