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Suffice it to say, I have a new-found respect for film directors.

Anxious to test out my newly-minted 7 scene script, I wrote out a list of “audience questions” to interview my family with at Thanksgiving dinner.

My brother and Mr. Sew’s brother (who flew in from LA for a few days) helped set up the stage—just a blank wall with a chair on one side and a random painting on the other (off-center composition). We set up the camcorder on a tripod, and went to grab our first interview.

The first surprise of the night - not everyone has seen/heard of “The Office”.

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Seeing as the video is supposed to be a silly sort-of ice breaker, I was planning on going the mockumentary route, with people answering our questions a bit randomly. We needed funny, but still improvised - nothing scripted.

However, this didn’t happen. The first group of interviewees, my father’s side of the family, were just too literal.

Here are the questions we asked, and the typical responses:

What should every husband/wife (depending on who we were asking) be able to do?

Typical response: Cook, help with kids, provide emotional and physical support.

Best response: “Whatever she wants to do, whenever she wants to do it.” (Courtesy of my uncle, bless him)

What is true love?

Typical response: Unconditional love. (Really, that’s the best we can do, no further explanation?)

Best response: “What is love?” *bobs head to invisible soundtrack* (Courtesy of my brother, although it was highly staged..)

If you were stranded on an island, and could only have 3 things, what would you bring?

Typical response: water, food, companionship (see what I said about being too literal?)

No good answers for this one, sadly.

What are three words to describe Miss Sewing

This one didn’t work at all, because silly me was in the room at the time. Of course there wasn’t going to be any honesty. Sewing-Bro realized this and started asking “what are 3 words to describe your mom” instead. It got a few better answers, such as “evil” and “crazy”. I can use that.

Needless to say, I can’t use a lot of the footage from that day. The question list needed revamping.

The next day (Black Friday) we spent time with my mother’s side of the family. We had more questions, and I had high expectations. Several of the family members dabble in acting, and my uncle (who’s a designer) has been on many TV interviews himself.

But I guess when people don’t know what’s coming, and a camera is suddenly pointed in their face, things change. They froze up and started answering literally and seriously, even though we told them to say say whatever came to mind first.

Surprising.

In addition to the questions we asked before, we also tried these out:

If you were a Hallmark card, what would you say?

Describe the perfect date.

What’s the most embarrassing thing that could happen on said date?

Now, because of the problems we were having the day before, I wasn’t allowed to be in the room during this round of filming. Only my brother and Mr. Sew were present, but they assured me that the answers weren’t any better.

So now I’m at a bit of a loss. Where do we go from here? I only have one chance with Mr. Sew’s family before the wedding, so I’ll have to perfect the questions soon. I’m thinking of emailing everyone a clip of “The Office” and a list of the questions. Maybe spontaneity just doesn’t work. I mean, even the TV shows are scripted, right?

How would you answer these questions? Are cameras really that scary?