Ch… Ch… Changes (Self Improvement)

Ch… Ch… Changes (Self Improvement)

February 23rd, 2010 @ 11:05 am by Mrs. Hot Dog
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H. Dawg and I have made a few changes in our life, and in the wedding plans.

First off, we started doing “The Love Dare”. If you’ve never heard of this, please Google it STAT. And check out the movie “Fireproof”. That movie and this book are the best thing to happen to our relationship since Netflix (hello frequent movie-snuggle night!). We’ve come to really appreciate one another and have learned how to better relate to each other. Also, it is very enlightening as to how the opposite sexes communicate differently, and how to find your partner’s specific communication style. It is A.MAZ.ING.

I’ve made some changes personally, too. First, I DYED my naturally blonde hair… CHOCOLATE BROWN! Yes, BROWN. After I did it, everyone was so floored. “Why would you dye your hair?!” “Your blonde hair was so gorgeous”. Frankly, I just needed a change. And I really love it! So does Mr. HD! I think it does wonders for my facial features and complexion, if I do say so myself.

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I’ve also been making an effort to improve my fitness. BM S and my friend Brittany and I all got gym memberships at the YMCA (cue ’80s dance craze!). We do Cardio Kickboxing on Monday and Wednesday (then I stay for Pilates right after, but can’t convince them to stay ). On Tuesdays and Thursday I do about an hour of cardio, usually the treadmill. They’ve also added a yoga class on those days, so I’m for shiz gonna go this week! I also do yoga on Saturday mornings. I can’t tell you what an amazing ritual this has become for me!

I’m already seeing some drastic changes in my body and am SOOOOO excited!!! I haven’t lost any weight, but I just keep telling myself that muscle weighs more than fat… LOL!

Up next, some wedding updates!

Have you done any self improvement lately?

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mkat88 (message) 289 posts, Helper bee

Those are all excellent changes to make and the hair looks awesome!

2/23/10 @ 11:10 am (reply)

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Miss French Fries (message) 2,218 posts, Buzzing bee

Your hair is FABULOUS! I went from blonde-ish (dishwater blonde) to dark brown last fall, so I know what you mean about just needing a change. It looks great!

2/23/10 @ 11:13 am (reply)

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Miss Argyle (message) 2,516 posts, Sugar bee

That’s great news! Love the brown locks!

2/23/10 @ 11:14 am (reply)

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Miss Brooch (message) 1,721 posts, Bumble bee

Wow!! I love the love dare!!! My FH and I love this movie… it IS good!! I never thought about actually buying the book and putting it into play, but that’s an excellent idea. Especially right before getting married, when things seem so hectic!

I love your hair and I know what you’re sayin about Yoga! It works wonders!

I’ve been participating in a Biggest Loser competition at work. I’m in fifth place and probably won’t win, but I’ve been goin to the gym EVERY DAY of the week at lunch with my coworkers. It’s AWESOME!!!!! There’s nothing like fitness to feel gooood.

Thanks for this post. I’m going to talk to my FH about doing the Love Dare now!!

2/23/10 @ 11:20 am (reply)

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sefditz (message) 177 posts, Blushing bee

Love the new hair! I think it looks great! I haven’t seen Fireproof yet, but I did just buy the Love Dare and am anxious to get the FI together to work on it!

2/23/10 @ 11:24 am (reply)

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lilyfaith (message) 5,478 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the hair! I much prefer mine dark, too, although it’s naturally medium blonde.

Glad to hear you’re doing well. Look forward to more updates.

2/23/10 @ 11:26 am (reply)

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EAQ219 (message) 1,448 posts, Bumble bee

Love the hair!! You look a lot like a girl I went to college with, actually. All of those changes sound fabulous Keep up the good work!

2/23/10 @ 11:30 am (reply)

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CorgiTales (message) 9,861 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the hair! I have heard of that book before but don’t know anyone who has used it. Do you think it would be helpful/appropriate for a person who isn’t particularly Christian? I am… but FI is kind of searching and he would not be down for something that he felt was too preachy. Are the dares/advice somewhat secular or is it very God-focused?

2/23/10 @ 11:31 am (reply)

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MrsJKH2be (message) 874 posts, Busy bee

I’m loving that color on you!!!! I have dark blonde hair and last year I dyed it chocolate brown…..I got a lot of hell for it (FI loved it though) cause everyone said I had such naturally gorgeous highlights. Sometimes you just need it!
Never heard of the “Love Dare” though…I’ll google it.

2/23/10 @ 11:32 am (reply)

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Miss Hot Dog (message) 317 posts, Helper bee

@CorgiTales: Mr. Hot Dog and I didn’t find it overly religious. Neither of us is very religious, though we both believe in God. It does have some areas where it talks about prayer and relying on God, but it’s not overbearing. And DEFINITELY not preachy. Mr. HD is the same way as your FH

2/23/10 @ 11:35 am (reply)

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polkadotbridetobe (message) 160 posts, Blushing bee

I love the dark hair on you!! It looks great!!!

My Aunt has started to buy that book for every wedding gift she gives! I might just have to get one before she gives us our gift; I’ve heard great things about it!

2/23/10 @ 11:40 am (reply)

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Miss Trail Mix (message) 6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the brown hair, you’re rockin it!

2/23/10 @ 11:40 am (reply)

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KellyBee (message) 56 posts, Worker bee

Fireproof is an amazing movie!! I definitely think that all married couples or those headed for marriage should see it. It really makes you stop and think. I’m glad to hear the love dare is working out for you. Another book that we found very helpful is”The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. It’s very helpful in understanding your partner and yourself and what the two of you need from each other.

2/23/10 @ 11:43 am (reply)

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alohababy28 (message) 466 posts, Helper bee

Good job! I just dont have time for that much gym time, but I wish I could! Best of luck!

2/23/10 @ 11:55 am (reply)

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verbal_viking (message) 35 posts, Newbee

Love the hair! And good job with your workouts!

2/23/10 @ 12:03 pm (reply)

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KMSull (message) 6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

Glad to see you back! You are so ridiculously cute! No self improvement on my end, though. I’m too lazy

2/23/10 @ 12:47 pm (reply)

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Miss Pug (message) 3,753 posts, Honey bee

your hair looks fabulous! it’s great to have a change like that once in a while–very renewing. as for your workout schedule, hot diggity dog that is intense! good for you!

2/23/10 @ 12:47 pm (reply)

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