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Mrs. Trail Mix, New York Age and Occupation: 26, PE Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, MBA Student Engagement Date: March 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Tannery Pond at the Darrow School About Me: I'm a country girl who somehow found herself living in the Big Apple and loving every minute of it. I'm planning a rustic, country-chic wedding in my hometown in upstate New York and it's going to be a Party with a capital P. White wine, flea markets and running keep me happy and my friends, family and fiance are my world. I'm a little bit crafty, a little bit crazy but mostly just crazy in love.
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A Woman’s Right to Shoes

February 26th, 2010 @ 6:46 pm by Mrs. Trail Mix

Yes, I may have ripped that title right from Sex and the City. (Or on second thought, was it Choos? As in Jimmy? Hmmmm.)

Anyways, a more accurate (albeit longer) title of this post could have been this: Miss Trail Mix vs J.Crew in a battle of the wedding shoes.

Witness my shoe evolution (ridiculous me bought 4 different pairs of shoes for the wedding over the course of 7 months, shhhhhh! And YES, they were all from J.Crew. I have a problem, I know.

First, way back in July, I scored the Caribe Espadrilles on sale for only $40! This was when I was envisioning yellow shoes a la Mrs Joey and more casual feel for our wedding…

A Woman's Right to Shoes :  wedding shoes Firstj First+J

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They came, arrived, fit, and looked beautiful, BUT… the mule style had the back flipping and flapping a bit, which made me nervous. I decided to keep ‘em for the rehearsal dinner and move on with my search.

A quick PSA regarding J.Crew sale items and returns: I’ve found that even though their website states that all final sale items cannot be returned, I’ve had no trouble calling customer service, playing the wedding card and having them make a note of the item on my account, allowing me to return it to a store for a refund. And if that doesn’t work, take the tag off the item, play dumb in the store and at least return it for a credit. It’s better than nothin’!

Alright, we now return to our regularly-scheduled programming…

Next up, the Joley pearlized-patent peep toes (these are still available in a number of sizes and colors for between $70-$80, plus 30% off!):

A Woman's Right to Shoes :  wedding shoes Jcrew J+Crew+

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Super-pretty but missing the “snazz” factor. I considered shoe clips but still wasn’t convinced. Next!

Then I found these lovely, gold Joley patent-pumps:

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Ah hah, getting closer. I loved these and was set on them until a month later, when J.Crew came out with a peep-toe version and it was game over. I exchanged the pump for these:

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Ahhhhhh, me likes sparkly things!!!

In a series of mis-communications with J.Crew, I somehow ended up with two pairs of these babies but was able to return one pair easily (which technically brings my total number of bought shoes to five…ack!).

I’ve managed to not buy any more shoes since then, although I confess that I was seriously tempted by these gold, strappy ones but managed to restrain myself. Oh, fine, just because we all like to look at shoes, I’ll show a picture of those, too…

A Woman's Right to Shoes :  wedding shoes Jcrewg JCrew+G

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FYI, these are also still available in a number of colors and sizes for $100 + %30 off!

I do love my beautiful crackly, gold peep-toe shoes though, and my bridesmaids are going to wear gold shoes, too. They are definitely worth lifting up the hem of my dress to show off. Game, set, match,

And so, dear friends, at the end of this drawn out saga, I think we can safely say that in the battle of Miss Trail Mix versus J.Crew’s shoe sale section, the score is Miss Trail Mix- 1, J.Crew- 0. Success!

Did you have a long, drawn-out shoe saga or was it a quick and dirty decision?

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35 Responses to “A Woman’s Right to Shoes”

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Ms Potato Chips (message)  1,193 posts, Bumble bee

Oooh I love these! I wish JCrew had my size! Stupid small feet!

 
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EMARILU
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EMARILU (message)  322 posts, Helper bee

I♥JCrew designs from clothes, shoes, to accesories. But I’ve never purchased anything from them because of the prices not being within my budget :) someday.

 
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anne

Don’t feel bad about the 4 or 5 pair. I ordered and returned 12 pairs before I found the perfect shoes.

 
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Miss Pretzel
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,893 posts, Buzzing bee

I like the peep toe so much more than the pump! Yay!

 
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Carbon Girl
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Carbon Girl (message)  691 posts, Busy bee

I loved those shoes and considered them for my wedding but I was unable to get them on sale.

 
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Carbon Girl
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Carbon Girl (message)  691 posts, Busy bee

Oh, yeah. I probably went through 5 pairs before I chose my shoes. I still have a pair I need to send back to endless!

 
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Miss Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

gorgeous shoes! love your peep-toe choice!

 
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LittlestBirds
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LittlestBirds (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

Those first ones are similar to a pair that I own, and yeah they flip flap a lot. Peep toes are great.

 
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jduck84
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jduck84 (message)  1,529 posts, Bumble bee

All of those are pretty! I had ordered blue velvet d’orsay pumps from J.Crew, but didn’t like the toe cleavage, and they didn’t fit perfectly anyway. :( I’m still looking… I think I’m going with flat sandals now, though.

 
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amaroo24 (message)  394 posts, Helper bee

very nice!! I wish I could wear heals (darn injuries). My decision was quick and dirty. I’m wearing blue chaco sandals. :-)

 
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Curlysue (message)  1,703 posts, Bumble bee

Oh I love the yellow ones, but agree the flip flap thing would bug me in a wedding dress. Good score on the price! Those gold shoes with little peep toe are amazing! Imagine them afterward with a hot little black dress for a nice evening out….oooh!

 
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Kapperchazka
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Kapperchazka (message)  15 posts, Newbee

I’m currently at 3 pairs and have only been planning for 2 months…I love shoes!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

oooh i likey the strappy gold ones!

 
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Miss Giraffe
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

Love those peep toes! Goof choice!!

 
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MeghanV
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MeghanV (message)  375 posts, Helper bee

Yes! They are haaaawt! I’m wearing the same shoes but in the crackly silvery blue (plus they’re pretty comfortable, right!?). I bought the pumps and the peep toes with every intention of returning the reject, but they were both too great. I wear the pumps all the time now. Yay J Crew shoe department!

 
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Miss Shortstop
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Miss Shortstop (message)  97 posts, Worker bee

Nice SATC reference. And love the shoes!

 
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Kat

I’m stuck on having my shoes be my “something blue,” but FH and I are the same height (actually I’m 1/4″ taller but shh!) I have started looking, and it seems like pretty, dressy blue flats are going to be hard to come by. Good thing we’re still over a year out!

 
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Miss Cardigan
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

LOVE the crinkly gold peep toes! Too cute!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,288 posts, Bee Keeper

i like the peep toe version of the crinkly shoes too. great choice!

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I love your gold crackly shoes so much! I want to buy the pumps for myself!!

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix, New York Age and Occupation: 26, PE Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, MBA Student Engagement Date: March 2009 Wedding Date: June 2010 Venue: Tannery Pond at the Darrow School About Me: I'm a country girl who somehow found herself living in the Big Apple and loving every minute of it. I'm planning a rustic, country-chic wedding in my hometown in upstate New York and it's going to be a Party with a capital P. White wine, flea markets and running keep me happy and my friends, family and fiance are my world. I'm a little bit crafty, a little bit crazy but mostly just crazy in love.

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