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Mrs. Hot Wings, Chicago/San Diego Age and Occupation: 28, Professor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Instructor Engagement Date: December 20, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant About Me: I am a psychology grad student living in Chicago and planning my wedding to a fellow psych grad student. I am a Sunny So-Cal bred gal who trudged across the country to follow her love of psychology and ended up finding a partner in the process. I am overly passionate about anything I involve myself with. I am an activist, a foodie, a reality TV watching junkie, an over-analyzer, a photography obsesser, and am utterly cheesy to the core. This is a story of what happens when a boy and a girl meet, fall in love over academic dorkiness, and a shared love for life. We (mostly I) are planning our semi-destination wedding in my hometown of San Diego. We are excited to bring our families and friends together from across our lifespans to celebrate our future in a grand 400+ person culturally blended affair!
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Seriously, Mr. Hot Wings. This is NOT the post for you. Move along little man.

When we left off, I decided I couldn’t cry over a dress. If I couldn’t cry, maybe Mama Hot Wings could. I waited to get back to San Diego to go dress shopping with her. I really wanted to try on the Allure 8586 dress from my House of Brides session, but I couldn’t find it in San Diego. So, I just started from scratch. Since I had such a nice experience at Bridal & Veil the first time, I decided to try it again.

I told my salesperson that Mama Hot Wings likes the traditional, sparkly dresses but that I wanted a dress that had purposeful beading and that would make me look “womanly”.  She pulled the Casablanca 1936 and said, “this is going to be the one.”

I walked out, looked at Mama Hot Wings and she started crying! It was the first dress on this particular day. And the search was over. Thank goodness! I was beat.

Dress Specs: Diamond White Fitted A-line or Fit and Flare (although on me, I will need some alterations to get the “fit” around my thighs), beaded netting over silky satin

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Look… a woman! with curves and all.

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Mama Hot Wings and me!

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And I realized, even at 28 I still need want my Mama involved.

Have you had any Mama-Daughter realizations during your planning?

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54 Responses to “But What If I Can’t Say “Yes” to the Dress – Saying YES”

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Miss Spaghetti
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Miss Spaghetti (message)  282 posts, Helper bee

yay!!!!!! Absolutely stunning on you Miss Hot Wings! Just goreous..

 
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Miss Sayrah
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Miss Sayrah (message)  112 posts, Blushing bee

It is so beautiful Miss Hot Wings! and of course you had to have Mom there :] I don’t think we are ever too old to need a Mom around lol

 
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Sage
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Sage (message)  728 posts, Busy bee

That dress looks absolutely perfect on you. Congrats on finding it!

 
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Amaryllis
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Amaryllis (message)  4,075 posts, Honey bee

I have been following your saga and I am so excited to see how beautiful you look in your dress. I tried that one on, and it is just gorgeous in person. And it makes your figure look great. Congrats on saying yes!

 
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ariellebride (message)  431 posts, Helper bee

so beautiful! congrats

 
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clane616
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clane616 (message)  674 posts, Busy bee

what an amazing dress!!!!!

 
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Mrs. Beagle (message)  1,380 posts, Bumble bee

Gorgeous! I love the waist line- it makes you look so tall!

 
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EAQ219
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EAQ219 (message)  1,448 posts, Bumble bee

Beautiful! The neckline is really pretty and interesting. Congrats on saying YES!

 
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Miss Pug
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Miss Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

ack! so gorgeous! definitely the dress for you! i’m glad mama hot wings could provide the tears for you. you’re a stunner!

 
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kayakgirl73
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kayakgirl73 (message)  2,124 posts, Buzzing bee

Beautiful dress. I love Casablanca dresses. I wore one. It was the 1906.

 
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Miss Hermit Crab
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Miss Hermit Crab (message)  3,530 posts, Sugar bee

you look stunning in this dress! congrats :)

 
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Miss French Fries (message)  2,217 posts, Buzzing bee

It’s gorgeous, and you look beautiful! :) Congrats on finding your dress!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

1 - You look STUNNING in that dress! LOVE IT!
2 - Mama Hot Wings is so cute :)

 
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alivoo01
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alivoo01 (message)  2,622 posts, Sugar bee

Yay for finding “The One”!!! You look beautiful!

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,312 posts, Bee Keeper

OMG, your dress is absolutely dreamy!!! So glad you found it with yo’ mama!

 
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Miss Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

beautiful dress! you look lovely in it!

 
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Miss Seashell (message)  1,713 posts, Bumble bee

You look beautiful! Congrats on finding the dress!!!

 
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Ella1978
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Ella1978 (message)  2,027 posts, Buzzing bee

So beautiful.. my mom started crying when I tried my dress on. I didn’t get emotional, I just didn’t really want to take it off! You look beauitful in that gown..!

 
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peachesandtulips
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peachesandtulips (message)  408 posts, Helper bee

you. look. STUNNING.

i’m glad you found the perfect gown for you!

 
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yummyducky66
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yummyducky66 (message)  196 posts, Blushing bee

Congrats! gorgeous dress!!!

I always thought I would not cry and Mama Ducky is def not a cryer BUT when we saw THE DRESS on me, after 3 months of fruitless searching, we both shed a tear :)

I think that’s how you know it’s the dress, if it makes you feel something :)

 
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Mrs. Hot Wings, Chicago/San Diego Age and Occupation: 28, Professor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Instructor Engagement Date: December 20, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant About Me: I am a psychology grad student living in Chicago and planning my wedding to a fellow psych grad student. I am a Sunny So-Cal bred gal who trudged across the country to follow her love of psychology and ended up finding a partner in the process. I am overly passionate about anything I involve myself with. I am an activist, a foodie, a reality TV watching junkie, an over-analyzer, a photography obsesser, and am utterly cheesy to the core. This is a story of what happens when a boy and a girl meet, fall in love over academic dorkiness, and a shared love for life. We (mostly I) are planning our semi-destination wedding in my hometown of San Diego. We are excited to bring our families and friends together from across our lifespans to celebrate our future in a grand 400+ person culturally blended affair!

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