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Mrs. Pug, New York City/Half Moon Bay, CA Age and Occupation: 33, Lawyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, ditto Engagement Date: July 2008 Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Ritz-Carlton, Half Moon Bay About Me: The Mr. and I are two 30-somethings who enjoy tasty sweets of all kinds, our neighborhood wine store, and cuddling with our pug. NYC is where we live and the city we love, but we’re doing the deed out in Northern California. We are trying to keep the affair small, intimate, and manageable. Our motto is: the less people, the better! (I’m kidding.)
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So Over It

March 12th, 2010 @ 3:28 pm by Mrs. Pug

Wow, I didn’t realize that so many of you shared my feelings about a train. Which leads us to… Wedding-Related Decision #5466: So my dress is going to spend the whole wedding day in a bustle (minus a pic or two of the full train for prosperity). But what kind of bustle?

Under bustles, aka French bustles, are quite popular now, and for good reason.

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Bam! How’s that for a bustle? Yowza.

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Another yowza, but with a completely different feel.

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Ooh, how’d she do this?

Then there’s the over bustle, or American/English bustle (I really wish they wouldn’t name them after countries—it’s like the whole nationalistic French fries debate all over again).

I gotta be honest, I had a hard time finding pics from real weddings that included an over bustle because of the overwhelming popularity of the under bustle. These few pictures represent hundreds (okay dozens) of weddings that I looked through. I just want you to appreciate that.

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Simple, classic, with a little brooch for an accent

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Hostess LatteLove!!

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That’s cool (I *think* it’s an over bustle; it’s hard to tell from here.)

Before my fitting, I was confident about getting an under bustle. I felt that they looked a little more subtle, and didn’t involve buttons or whatnot on the outside of the dress. I mean, sure I would try the over bustle just to see, but really, come on, I knew it would be the under bustle or bust (I kill me).

So let’s compare, shall we?

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I do love the look of an under bustle. But doesn’t the fabric make it a little too poofy? And the line of buttons kinda looks abruptly chopped off.

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And the over bustle.

To my surprise, the decision was clear (this wasn’t the case with Wedding-Related Decisions #1-5465). Also to my surprise, despite my preconceptions, the over bustle just made a lot more sense with the dress. The under bustle, while usually subtle in my mind, seemed to really stick out on my dress. Like a sore bustle.

So, over bustle it is. Ta-da!

Do you think I made the right decision? If your answer is anything besides “Yes you made the right decision you smarty smarty,” then don’t comment. I know I’ve said this before, but I really mean it this time. Heehee. ;)

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52 Responses to “So Over It”

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bluestuff
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bluestuff (message)  254 posts, Helper bee

Gorgeous. Love the over bustle. Am thinking of doing the same for mine, even though my dress person insists I should go French. Oh, well. I’m the bride :)

 
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moderndaisy (message)  6,982 posts, Busy Beekeeper

Love it!! I usually prefer the under bustle but you def made the right decision here, absolutely gorgeous!!

 
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teaadntoast
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teaadntoast (message)  2,595 posts, Sugar bee

Overbustlers unite! My dress has a very similiar cut, and I didn’t even consider the French option. Figure-hugging sleekness and below-derrier poof just don’t mix well.

 
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Amani
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Amani (message)  792 posts, Busy bee

Perfect choice!

 
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dns567
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dns567 (message)  459 posts, Helper bee

Definitely! The over bustle looks so much better on your dress.

 
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mandM
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mandM (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

Best choice! – this is coming from someone who had an underbustle for her dress

 
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alivoo01
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alivoo01 (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

The overbustle definitely looks smashing on your dress! Good choice.

 
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knapper08
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knapper08 (message)  189 posts, Blushing bee

I think it really depends on the dress, love the over bustle for you!

 
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sapphirebride
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sapphirebride (message)  1,748 posts, Bumble bee

It’s a much more smooth line with the bustle you chose. I like it! And thanks for all the example pictures, I’m still trying to decide which way to go with my dress.

 
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Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  2,600 posts, Sugar bee

Wow, I thought I was a fan of the underbustle too, but on that dress it’s clear that the overbustle was needed. Great choice!

 
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Entangled
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Entangled (message)  2,616 posts, Sugar bee

You’re right – the choice is pretty easy with your dress. It looks great!

 
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gidgett
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gidgett (message)  294 posts, Helper bee

The choice of bustle usually has to do with the cut of the dress…lucky you getting to pick!!

Under bustles have certain perks- they’re more secure and easier to hide. Over bustles require fixtures on the outside (buttons and loops, usually). But they’re so pretty!!

Love your dress…and LOVE your bustle!

 
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Toffee
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Toffee (message)  1,223 posts, Bumble bee

That’s absolutely perfect! I think you made the right choice on that one. Oh, and thanks for explaining the different bustles with pictures, I seriously had no idea what a bustle was and what they looked like.

 
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Ella1978
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Ella1978 (message)  2,043 posts, Buzzing bee

Love it. Mine will be an over too. All of the “flare” on my fit and flare can’t be bustled under. I’m okay with it though. It looks pretty! Congrats on ONE easy decision!

 
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Miss Ribbons (message)  1,992 posts, Buzzing bee

I really like your choice :) It definitely seems to fit the dress more.

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  4,047 posts, Honey bee

Yes, definitely the right choice!

 
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Miss Hot Wings
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Miss Hot Wings (message)  2,199 posts, Buzzing bee

You’re totally right. The choice is blatantly obvious. I love it! Don’t let that train get loose so make sure the bustle is double duty strong to last the whole night through.

 
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Curlysue (message)  1,703 posts, Bumble bee

I love bustles in general and I don’t know which one will look best with my dress, but I think in your case you went with the best one definitely! I’m loving the brooch idea though with an over bustle, hmm, maybe I’ll have to look into that. :)

 
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QuarterNote
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QuarterNote (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Beautiful!!!

 
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IvyClimb
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IvyClimb (message)  2,612 posts, Sugar bee

You made the right choice. Easy. I winced when I saw the photo of your dress with the French bustle; it does not look right. Perfect with the American bustle, very beautiful.

 
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Mrs. Pug, New York City/Half Moon Bay, CA Age and Occupation: 33, Lawyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, ditto Engagement Date: July 2008 Wedding Date: March 2010 Venue: Ritz-Carlton, Half Moon Bay About Me: The Mr. and I are two 30-somethings who enjoy tasty sweets of all kinds, our neighborhood wine store, and cuddling with our pug. NYC is where we live and the city we love, but we’re doing the deed out in Northern California. We are trying to keep the affair small, intimate, and manageable. Our motto is: the less people, the better! (I’m kidding.)

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