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Mrs. Jellyfish, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Air Force Pilot Engagement Date: February 21, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2010 Venue: Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery About Me: In a nutshell, I’m the most optimistic worrywart you’ll ever meet. My family emigrated from Romania to San Jose, CA when I was 8, and I've been a Nor Cal girl ever since! My fiancé is also a Bay Area native, so it’s funny that we met at UCLA, as college freshmen living on the same floor (go Bruins!). Between his career as an Air Force pilot and my path to becoming a lawyer, our relationship has been anything but typical. We currently live together in Berkeley with our puppy Stinson. In addition to spending time with the loves of my life, I enjoy crafting, attempting complicated recipes, environmental law and non-law school reading (Us Weekly, anyone?). Follow along as I plan an elegant 200-person winery wedding, graduate law school, take the Bar exam, get married and get used to the always unpredictable but never boring life of a military spouse!
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Staying Organized and Sane

March 25th, 2010 @ 11:51 am by Mrs. Jellyfish

Throughout this crazy wedding planning process, I’ve found that staying organized has been very important to maintaining my peace of mind. I’m not sure what other brides do, but here is how I’ve organized my wedding inspiration and information:

The binder:

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This wedding planner binder was recommended to me by BM Lauren, who used the same binder when she was planning her wedding. I recalled her raving about it, so I called her the day I got engaged and rushed to the nearest Barnes & Noble to buy it. I’m a dork, I know. It comes with lots of checklists and questions to ask vendors. It’s pretty helpful, but I think you can find most of that stuff online. I’d say the most helpful thing is the vendor questions, and it also has a special card pouch where you can store business cards. The binder has become a repository for all the pages I’ve ripped out of magazines:

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It’s not quite organized at this point. But that’s because I don’t really use it anymore, as I tend to put everything on my computer.

Most of my wedding information and inspiration goes in my “Wedding” file on my Desktop:

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Yeah, it’s pretty intense. I like it that way. Subcategories make me a happier person. I go into each folder now and then and delete things I no longer like. I also have a stand alone “Wedding Ideas” Word document where I type up lists and ideas.

I am a big fan of checklists, so I also use an online checklist tool to keep track of what I need to do. I actually set up checklists on both the Knot and Project Wedding, but I think Project Wedding’s checklist is a little easier on the eyes (and their website uploads more quickly):

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My last organizational tool is a little notebook that goes everywhere with me. I use it to jot down ideas, phone numbers, and questions for potential vendors (the binder pictured above accompanied me to our first vendor meeting… that didn’t last!).

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Source

No, not a Moleskine – I was going to get one of those and then saw the Piccadilly kind for half the price – that’s how I roll.

So there you have it. Those are the main tools I use to stay organized, and for the most part, they work very well. I also try to utilize Google Docs as much as possible – for example, I made a form and sent it to our guests as a way of gathering all their address information. It worked great, and now I have a spreadsheet of all our guests’ addresses that I can access from anywhere! Perhaps I will post a tutorial on that.

How do you or did you stay organized while planning your wedding? What have you found to be most helpful?

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kirabee
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kirabee (message)  1,402 posts, Bumble bee

Do you have an easy way to record the sources for your inspiration photos, like, in case you want to use them in your WB posts? This is where my organization is lacking, haha..

 
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hisbunny
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hisbunny (message)  767 posts, Busy bee

I had a three ring binder that I used to write stuff in and hold all my papers, and then I had the files organized on the computer. But I would say that I used the internet for lists and my dear friends, who helped me remember everything as well.

 
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alivoo01
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alivoo01 (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

I use the same wedding planner/binder (The Bride’s Essential Wedding Planner by Amy Nebens) and love it!! Like you, I found the vendor questions most useful and the divided sections. I quickly outgrew the binder, but thought it was a good investment! Please do a tutorial on the google address thingy - I’m interested!!

 
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KKW (message)  34 posts, Newbee

Sadly, I am not yet organized. I’m in the early stages of planning, when it’s still okay to have random scraps of paper lying around (at least I’m telling myself that it’s okay!). Thanks for the tips! I might actually get around to organizing myself this weekend.

 
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jgoulart
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jgoulart (message)  1,069 posts, Bumble bee

You sound just like me!! I carry around a 16 mb flash drive on my keychain… since I tend to come up with ideas whereever I am (work, home, moms, Fi’s) that way I plug it in and am in planning folder heaven. I too have a small notebook and checklist! I’m using the knot’s checklist and have been pretty happy so far. It’s the only thing I log on to use!

 
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libra5979
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libra5979 (message)  173 posts, Blushing bee

I have the same binder and the same folder on my computer’s desktop. I have found it really helpful to be organized so I can access the information I need immediately. I’ve had a few vendors comment on my organization skills…. I like to think they are impressed, but I think they are a little horrified and worried I may be Bridezilla. Thankfully, I am the opposite :-)

 
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Miss Lace (message)  702 posts, Busy bee

I did the same. I started with a binder and now it’s just where I keep receipts and contracts. :) Everything is on my computer. I have a notebook also where I keep ALL my notes on EVERYTHING. I’d die if I lost it!

 
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labrat
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labrat (message)  473 posts, Helper bee

I wish I could be so organized! I got the same binder a year ago from two of my friends and just now have started to use it. But I have put everything in one of two notebooks (mainly the one future hubby made for me to jot down notes to him while he was stationed thousands of miles away).

 
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Miss Taco
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Miss Taco (message)  950 posts, Busy bee

The wedding binder has saved my life and made me go insane at the same time. I went weeks without touching it after a couple stress-induced freakouts.

But it has helped more than hurt, for sure! We have digital copies of almost everything, but it helps to have all the hard printouts in one organized space I can bring around with me to meetings.

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  4,046 posts, Honey bee

Love it! I’m a sucker for organization.

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  7,946 posts, Bee Keeper

Love this, I did basically the same thing when we organized my wedding. My computer folders, though, were not quite as organized as yours, so I really love yours! :)

 
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Miss Jellyfish
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Miss Jellyfish (message)  1,450 posts, Bumble bee

@kirabee: Yes - I usually re-name the photo files with the source name so I don’t forget it.
@alivoo01: I just used Miss Cowboy Boot’s tutorial! It’s great! I thought about writing one but it would be identical.

 
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Christine

I have a small notebook as well as the huge binder that houses all the contracts, etc. I have a Wedding folder just like yours on my computer. I also use the “Remember the Milk” iPhone app for my Wedding to-do’s. I love RTM so much that I use it for my daily reminders non-wedding related. I think it has helped me out alot with keeping on track.

 
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I use Dropbox - a free online server that you can access anywhere: https://www.dropbox.com/features

Best thing ever!

 
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alohababy28
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alohababy28 (message)  466 posts, Helper bee

My computer and Excel spreadsheets. I haven’t done as good of a job as I imagined staying organized, but not all too bad I guess.

 
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Skywalk (message)  87 posts, Worker bee

You are a bee after my own heart!
I have the exact same wedding planning binder which I have found very useful and a similar little notebook that goes everywhere with me just in case random ideas strike me.
Because I am little Ms. Super Organized, I also have:
- Project folders for sorting my magazine clippings (these things are ingenious! They were $3 for a package of 4 ‘folders’ with an outside folder to keep them together. Super portable, versatile, cheap and cheerful!
- Photo boxes for storing cards, pamphlets etc
- Similar computer Wedding file with subfolders
and finally,
- a Wedding planning software program that was cheap and quite handy
And right about now…I am realizing that I am way too organized! ;o)

 
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Miss Giraffe
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,219 posts, Honey bee

That make you look so organized!

 
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katerrific
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katerrific (message)  218 posts, Helper bee

I have that binder too! And just like you, it is chock full of magazine pages! I couldn’t imagine carrying it all over, but it is a great reference to keep all my ideas together in one place.

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

You are super organized! I have an inspiration photo folder on my computer, divided into subcategories; a documents folder full of wedding docs; an outlook folder for all my wedding emails; and a binder for hardcopies of contracts.

 
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Mrs. Jellyfish, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Air Force Pilot Engagement Date: February 21, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2010 Venue: Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery About Me: In a nutshell, I’m the most optimistic worrywart you’ll ever meet. My family emigrated from Romania to San Jose, CA when I was 8, and I've been a Nor Cal girl ever since! My fiancé is also a Bay Area native, so it’s funny that we met at UCLA, as college freshmen living on the same floor (go Bruins!). Between his career as an Air Force pilot and my path to becoming a lawyer, our relationship has been anything but typical. We currently live together in Berkeley with our puppy Stinson. In addition to spending time with the loves of my life, I enjoy crafting, attempting complicated recipes, environmental law and non-law school reading (Us Weekly, anyone?). Follow along as I plan an elegant 200-person winery wedding, graduate law school, take the Bar exam, get married and get used to the always unpredictable but never boring life of a military spouse!

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