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Mrs. Oyster, Dallas Age and Occupation: 30, Music Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 46, Art Teacher Engagement Date: January 9, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: The Tower Club About Me: I'm a Texa-Californian with a penchant for sparkly things and a tendency to think a lot. I've been known to sing random songs or dance when there is no music on. My fiance and I love world culture, we love to travel, and we have an incredibly eclectic taste in music. We’re thrilled to have the opportunity to celebrate our marriage with our family & closest friends. We're planning an “urban black-tie” wedding and hope to incorporate our personalities and some of our own interests. We look forward to a life of love, laughter, good music, beautiful art, and to creating our home together with our four (!) cats.
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Shopping with the Moms

April 8th, 2010 @ 9:24 am by Mrs. Oyster

After I decided to have my dress made, and after meeting two unsuitable seamstresses, I was lucky enough to discover the resource that is Fabrique! Fabrics. I went there this summer, met the owner, and was sold! The problem was that I wasn’t quite ready to decide what dress I wanted to wear.

Fast forward to this past fall, when my mother and grandmother visited me from out-of-state. True, I would never have that “trying-on-dresses” feeling with my mother there, but this turned out to be even more fun.

My mother is a third generation sewing enthusiast. She learned the craft from my great-grandmother, with whom she spent her summers as a little girl. My mother made many of the clothes I wore as a kid. I remember old Christmas ornaments, many of my baby clothes, a quilt, and a Christmas dress being made from patterns my mom cut out of paper bags. Eventually, we moved too many times and my mother remarked that buying clothes became cheaper than sewing, so I haven’t seen her pull out her old Bernina in quite a while.

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But I have many great memories of sewing with my mom. The picture shows the sewing machine my mom used, a Bernina 830 (circa 1979 or so — the photo is from the manual). She’ll be happy to emphasize to you that it. “still works, thank you very much!”

When I told her about Fabrique, and that it was a couture fabric store that had an entire section dedicated to bridal fabrics, she was so excited! So I made sure to take her and my grandmother, and I felt like I had two experts on hand to help me in this first stage of bridal dress shopping.

The store has a good selection of bridal fabrics; almost any bridal dress fabric you’ve heard of is there: silk satin, silk dupioni, shantung, mikado, and even a few high quality poly-satins if I remember correctly. Here’s my mom checking them all out:

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And here’s my beautiful grandmother, looking on (and surrounded by trim):

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But my favorite is the lace. Lace!!! I don’t want an all-over beaded lace dress (although I think they’re beautiful), but I want to incorporate lace in some way. The laces at Fabrique range from $50 to over $400 per yard. Some are domestic, some are imported, but every one of them is stunning. Here, the store owner shows a hand-beaded lace, with crystals attached. You just have to click these to see the beautiful lace up close!

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Yep, you read the price tag correctly. Moving on…

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And this is the one I bought!

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I bought some trim, and the beads happen to be nearly identical to this lace. Perfect!

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My grandmother’s hands rest next to my iPod. I bring that thing everywhere — it’s so helpful to be able to show vendors exactly what I want. I even have some runway videos on my iPod; it’s indispensable. If you look carefully, you can see one of my sketches in the foreground.

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Also in this picture, my grandmother is wearing her original wedding set. I wish I’d taken a better picture. She recently found this after it had been packed away. The set is over 50 years old, as it was given to her by my late grandfather when they married. How sweet!

Despite wanting to wear a matte fabric like silk dupioni or radzimir (if I could ever find it), I ended up choosing a smooth, lustrous silk satin. Silk satin is responsible for beautiful gowns like these (click the source links to see the gowns in motion):

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Along with the fabric, I chose the beaded lace, and the matching trim. My grandmother decided to buy the dress fabric for me as a birthday present! I am so humbled by this and hope the dress is as beautiful as we envision it.

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15 Responses to “Shopping with the Moms”

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Christine

Your mom and grandmother are so pretty! What a great family legacy.

And what amazing fabric! What part of the dress are you going to have covered in the lace? I’m very excited for what you come up with!

 
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CorgiTales (message)  9,861 posts, Bee Keeper

Love what you chose!!

Also I have to say… my grandma is a seamstress and I’ve been sewing since before I could read or write. And old machines ARE better. My machine is from the 60s and it still works great, and I think it will continue to work great as long as I maintain it! The new ones are all plastic and electronic… just more to break in my opinion. Mine weighs like 30 pounds and it is RELIABLE :)

 
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Violachap (message)  677 posts, Busy bee

I cannot wait to see your dress :) Glad you were able to find a great fabrics store, I know I wouldn’t be able to have my dress made locally as we don’t have any selection other than Jo-Ann’s.

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

So much fun to be able to choose your own fabric, lace and trimmings, that’s awesome! And you got in include your mom and grandma even though you didn’t do the traditional dress shopping route!

 
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Miss Hamster (message)  4,046 posts, Honey bee

Love that you took your mom and grandmother along on this trip - what a great bonding experience :)

 
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alivoo01 (message)  2,622 posts, Sugar bee

I can’t wait for more visuals and grandparents are totally awesome! yay for progress on the dress.

 
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

I’m so excited, I can’t wait to see how your dress turns out!

 
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Mrs. Ballet Flat (message)  770 posts, Busy bee

That lace is gorgeous!! :)

 
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

The fabric is amazing! I am so excited to see your dress!

 
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,893 posts, Buzzing bee

Ohhh Jealous! I want a fabric store like that! For my dress, I purchased the fabric from Olivia Luca and actually never saw/felt it until the dress arrived. For my accent fabrics I picked those out with my FMIL over Christmas. As a fellow “having my dress made Bee” I cannot wait to see how yours comes out.

 
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tea (message)  7,288 posts, Bee Keeper

i think this was a fabulous experience to share with your mom and grandmother. i can’t wait to see how your dress turns out!

 
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

that’s awesome! i had my dress custom-made by a tiny hole-in-the-wall tailor, and i was SHOCKED by the prices of fabric. i’m glad that he gave me an awesome price so i managed to have a dress made of duchess satin overlaid with Alencon lace at an amazing price.

i am really excited to see how your dress turns out!

 
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

That’s so nice of your grandma!

 
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Mrs. Oyster
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Mrs. Oyster, Dallas Age and Occupation: 30, Music Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 46, Art Teacher Engagement Date: January 9, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: The Tower Club About Me: I'm a Texa-Californian with a penchant for sparkly things and a tendency to think a lot. I've been known to sing random songs or dance when there is no music on. My fiance and I love world culture, we love to travel, and we have an incredibly eclectic taste in music. We’re thrilled to have the opportunity to celebrate our marriage with our family & closest friends. We're planning an “urban black-tie” wedding and hope to incorporate our personalities and some of our own interests. We look forward to a life of love, laughter, good music, beautiful art, and to creating our home together with our four (!) cats.

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