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Mrs. Oyster, Dallas Age and Occupation: 30, Music Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 46, Art Teacher Engagement Date: January 9, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: The Tower Club About Me: I'm a Texa-Californian with a penchant for sparkly things and a tendency to think a lot. I've been known to sing random songs or dance when there is no music on. My fiance and I love world culture, we love to travel, and we have an incredibly eclectic taste in music. We’re thrilled to have the opportunity to celebrate our marriage with our family & closest friends. We're planning an “urban black-tie” wedding and hope to incorporate our personalities and some of our own interests. We look forward to a life of love, laughter, good music, beautiful art, and to creating our home together with our four (!) cats.
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DIY and the Dead Fly

April 14th, 2010 @ 8:42 am by Mrs. Oyster

Despite my insistence that I’m not a DIY type of girl, I find myself doing a lot of things for this wedding myself. Among my projects is the Martha Stewart flower pillow.

I love this pillow, and from the moment I saw it I knew I wanted one for my wedding! I have a little sewing experience and this seemed like a project I could do.

For inspiration, I studied carefully the diagrams and tutorial over at Martha Stewart, which boasts this beautiful example:

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Then I also read the more explicit tutorial of Mrs. Perfume, whose mother helped her with this beautiful one:

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I picked up some remnant fabric at Jo-Ann’s to practice with, and set to work with my little sewing kit. Here was some of my inspiration while I worked:

Didn’t you know? Michael provides the perfect sewing music.

First, I cut out those ovals just as Martha described: ovals with straight sides. Mr. Oyster pointed out that they look a lot like my little mouse, so I put them side by side. Twins!

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Then, I got my sewing kit and went to work, following all the directions. I cut my little ovals out, and instead of pinching them with wire, I stitched them through the middle.

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Then I started sewing them together. But I noticed something odd. Where the directions said there should be no gaps, there were plenty. And this didn’t look like a flower at all! It was a weird, floppy thing. I tossed it onto my keyboard and noticed that it looked… like a dead fly!

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Mr. Oyster came over to see, and when I described it to him he immediately began whizzing it through the air, buzzing around with it. Guys!

Anyway, I quickly saw what my problem was: the ovals were too straight and too long. They really need to be more like circles. Why doesn’t Martha say this? Wait, who am I kidding?! It wouldn’t be a Martha project without some frustration.

So I cut out some new ovals.

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These were quite a bit smaller (and the flower tends to get smaller as you add petals to it), so it was harder to sew. Still, there was an instant improvement.

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And for good measure, we checked — it’s cat-approved!

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Anyone else need multiple attempts at your DIY projects before you were satisfied with them?

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21 Responses to “DIY and the Dead Fly”

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Mrs. Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

Yeah, wide ovals! Shorter ones for the top of the flower. I figured that one out myself. Does Martha say to make shorter ones for the top?

Great job, I can’t wait to see the final product!

 
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Ms. Library
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Ms. Library (message)  1,251 posts, Bumble bee

Your cat is adorable! I love that face!

 
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Miss Oyster (message)  879 posts, Busy bee

Oh! I guess my code got cut out somehow. The song I worked with is Michael Jackson’s “PYT”, my favorite! :) It is great sewing music.

@MrsPerfume: Martha totally does not say how to size the flowers.

 
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Miss Oyster (message)  879 posts, Busy bee

Oh, they fixed it! Never mind.

 
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sunnydebs
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sunnydebs (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

Maybe you could just buy a fake flower at a craft store, disassemble it and remove the plastic pieces, and stitch together the petals. (sort of like several bees have done to make hair flowers, but buy a big fake gardenia or something large). Then add it to a pillow! Making your own flower seems like it would be frustrating to get right!

 
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Miss Stargazer (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

Your kitty does not look pleased ;)

 
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

love that you used pyt for background music. glad you kept at it! that last pic is so, so cute.

 
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Miss Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

lol, that last pic with your kitty is adorable! everything is trial and error with me too, for sure. can’t wait to see the finished project!

 
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Maggie Mae
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Maggie Mae (message)  649 posts, Busy bee

So cute! I love your kitty. Is she a Savannah? Looks like it with her pretty facial markings.

Love your blog and always enjoy reading your posts!!!

 
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alivoo01
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alivoo01 (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

That’s so funny about Mr. O buzzing around the “dead fly”. Way to stick to it. Can’t wait to see the completed ring pillow!!

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

I think the kitty likes its hat. :)

 
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ErinMarieMack
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ErinMarieMack (message)  728 posts, Busy bee

Can’t wait to see the final project! Loved the flower on your kitty:)

 
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yoori
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yoori (message)  231 posts, Helper bee

Yes Martha’s DIYs drive me crazy sometimes! I need step-by-step-by-step tutorials with accompanying pictures! It looks like it’s coming together well though, I love that flower ring pillow too. :) Can’t wait to see the final product!

 
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Miss Dolphin
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Miss Dolphin (message)  503 posts, Busy bee

Oh I LOVE cat-approved projects! Dolphin Kitty approves all of our projects!!!!

 
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Mrs. Labrador
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Mrs. Labrador (message)  1,805 posts, Buzzing bee

Seriously, I really think I’m the only one here that doesn’t know how to sew! Someone please come teach me!

 
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Miss Pretzel
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,893 posts, Buzzing bee

ohhh cute kitty! :)

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,295 posts, Bee Keeper

what a pretty kitty!

 
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cnuptain
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cnuptain (message)  330 posts, Helper bee

Love the cat approval. Too cute! I make my puppy wear my engagement ring on his head all the time because I love them both so much!

 
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And a Flower in Her Hair | Weddingbee

[...] this, I used my own variation of the Martha Stewart Fabric Flower method, which I have previously attempted. This one was a little more successful (and there have been several practice flowers in between). [...]

 
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Meet the Oystercats [Yours, Mine, Ours] | Weddingbee

[...] He helped us make the first DIY Flower. [...]

 
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Mrs. Oyster, Dallas Age and Occupation: 30, Music Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 46, Art Teacher Engagement Date: January 9, 2009 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: The Tower Club About Me: I'm a Texa-Californian with a penchant for sparkly things and a tendency to think a lot. I've been known to sing random songs or dance when there is no music on. My fiance and I love world culture, we love to travel, and we have an incredibly eclectic taste in music. We’re thrilled to have the opportunity to celebrate our marriage with our family & closest friends. We're planning an “urban black-tie” wedding and hope to incorporate our personalities and some of our own interests. We look forward to a life of love, laughter, good music, beautiful art, and to creating our home together with our four (!) cats.

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