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When choosing our florist, I tried not to be super specific about every type of flower we use. I know it can help to be a little flexible, especially when you are on a budget.

I did my research and I learned that hydrangeas are in season in October, which is perfect because they are one of my favorite flowers. I also like the classic feel of roses, which happen to be in season, too. Other than the two main flowers, I didn’t want to be too picky with the types of flowers. Instead, I took the advice of Nancy Liu Chin of Nancy Liu Chin Designs. She recommends describing characteristics of what you want the flowers to look like. I told the final two florists we were deciding between that I like white, soft, romantic, and classic flowers. I then created a checklist of the flowers we need. We aren’t doing floral centerpieces, so this trimmed the list a bit.

Personal Flowers

• Bridal Bouquet
• 7 Bridesmaids’ Bouquets
• Groom’s boutonniere
• 7 Groomsmen’s and Fathers’ boutonnieres
• Flower Girl Item
• Corsages or Pins for the Readers
• Items for the Mothers of the Bride and Groom

Ceremony Flowers

• 2 Altar Pieces

Reception Flowers

• Transferring the Ceremony Flowers to the Reception Site
  

We originally told the florists we weren’t doing anything for the ceremony, since we are on a budget, we think the church is beautiful on its own, and they have strict decoration requirements. But Starfish Mom loves flowers and felt we needed something. We decided to do statement pieces that will work for the alter and the reception’s cocktail area.

Other than giving the florists the two flower types, description words, a list of needs and showing them a few photos, there wasn’t much else I conveyed. I didn’t show them exact bouquets to make, but I did show inspiration pictures. I feel like it’s a creative industry and since you don’t tell an artist to copy someone else’s painting, I didn’t want to tell the florist to copy another’s.

The two final florists were given the same information, but one definitely stood out above the other. I actually really enjoyed the meeting with our first florist. She was extremely nice and was willing to work with all of our ideas. She was little out of our budget, but because we really liked her enthusiasm, I kept her in the running.

All photos from The Knot

At our second meeting, we again gave the same information, but the florist explained things I wouldn’t have know about my inspiration pictures. He explained why some things may not work, and gave suggestions of alternatives. I may not have agreed with everything he said (Sister Starfish and Starfish Mom did… it was things they already told me), but I did respect his honesty and professionalism. He did say he would do whatever I like, as I am the client, but wanted to give me a better understanding of things. He also wanted to include florals with our centerpieces. We are doing hurricane vases with candles, sand and starfish, with votives all around. He said he would throw in rose petals to surround our centerpieces to add to the look, so this was an extra perk and we a still are coming in at our budget.

We chose the florist who was more creative, honest and willing to work in our budget!

Did you go to your floral appointments with a specific look in mind? Were you open to suggestions?