Weddingbee Blog

Hands down, ABC’s Modern Family is one of the best shows on TV. At least Mr. Seashell and I think so. If you’re not watching, you’re missing out. It’s HILARIOUS!

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Perhaps I enjoy the show because I can relate to having a family that’s less than conventional. Where should I start? Let’s see, circa 1975 my parents were married: Dad Seashell an upper class African American man and Mama Seashell a working class Italian American woman. After years of trying to (unsuccessfully) conceive I was adopted, and then my sister came along four years later. Soon after my sister was born, we came to learn that she was mentally disabled.

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So, I introduce to you my family in all our black, white, adopted, and disabled glory! Aren’t we cute?

As a bride to be, having a unique family truly comes to life. Day to day, we are who we are, but at life’s milestones it seems remarkably special to remember the adversity my parents overcame to celebrate their own wedding day as well as integrate our cultures and traditions. For example, we are working to infuse our wedding with elements from Mama Seashell’s Italian culture, Dad Seashell’s family history on St. Thomas, and adapt pieces of the day to my sister’s abilities. (And I haven’t even gotten started on ways we’ll include Mr. Seashell’s family!)

What sets your family apart? How have you worked to embrace this on your wedding day?