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Mrs. Pudding, Greater Toronto Area/Vermont Age and Occupation: 26, High School Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: August 2008 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception About Me: Quite literally a citizen of the world, I was born in Poland, grew up in Canada, and now live in the beautiful state of Vermont. I love reading historical biographies, multi-tasking, teasing my hair, and, despite my height, wearing high heeled shoes. I am the ultimate klutz with an uncanny ability to put on a graceful front. Mr. Pudding and I have been dating for over six years, and are very excited to finally merge our (very large) families. We are planning a traditional Polish-Catholic wedding that is anything but predictable.
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The bread and salt tradition is a Slavic custom that dates back to the 17th century. It is basically a greeting ceremony, and it is practiced in many eastern European nations including Poland, Russia, Serbia, Bulgaria, and others. In simple terms, the host and/or hostess of a household or event will welcome important guests by presenting them with a loaf of bread and some salt. The guest will then take a piece of bread, dip it in the salt, and eat it. This is supposed to be a symbol of great hospitality, as well as an expression of hope that the guest will never know the pains of hunger.

This custom is not limited to weddings. Many Slavic governments use this tradition when greeting diplomats and people of political importance. Joe Biden even got a taste of it on a recent trip to Ukraine.

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At a wedding, this custom can take one of two forms. On the one hand, the hosts of the event (usually the parents of the bride and/or groom) can welcome the newly wed couple with bread and salt upon their entrance to the reception.

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The other option is for the hosts of the event to stand outside of the reception space, and welcome each individual guest by extending the bread and salt to them. This is the version that the Puddings will most likely be incorporating.

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This is by far my favorite Polish wedding tradition, and it is an easy one to incorporate into a wedding reception if you are looking for a nod to your Slavic heritage. :)

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23 Responses to “Polish Wedding Traditions - “Bread and Salt””

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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

Thank you so much for sharing these! We’re attending a wedding in Poland soon and are intrigued by the customs!

 
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Miss Seashell (message)  1,713 posts, Bumble bee

Very nice! And definitely a do-able tradition!

 
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Mrs. Pug
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

i love that idea–so that your guest will never go hungry. cool!

 
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Miss Jellyfish
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Miss Jellyfish (message)  1,450 posts, Bumble bee

I love hearing about the Polish wedding traditions! I’m Romanian and our traditions are not the same, but it’s still fun! Plus your embroidery looks so similar (as in the first photo).

 
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Miss Cali Girl in NJ
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Miss Cali Girl in NJ (message)  147 posts, Blushing bee

I LOVE hearing about EE traditions. I’ve heard that in Bulgaria the do the bread tradition too. I have been wondering how/if to incorporate. I have never seen in person.

 
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Miss Hot Wings
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Miss Hot Wings (message)  2,213 posts, Buzzing bee

That’s beautiful symbolism!! I love it. I was thinking of including something similar to represent Mr. HW’s Lithuanian roots.

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  972 posts, Busy bee

This was my favorite Polish tradition that we did at our wedding too. Well ok, this and the vodka/water shot to determine the head of the household (which was hilarious!). Are you thinking of doing that part also?

 
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lolo7835 (message)  558 posts, Busy bee

Oh boy, I’ve got to hide this one from the FI. He would totally be into this idea, but our ceremony is already starting to turn into the UN of wedding traditions. :D

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,329 posts, Bee Keeper

This is a really nice tradition, I love it and the symbolism behind it!

 
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Miss Stargazer (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

That is really nice. I love that you are incorporating so many traditional things. I think it makes your memories timeless and can make you feel close to loved ones who have participated in the same traditions.

 
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ktisthatbees (message)  2,742 posts, Sugar bee

I love learning about various wedding customs that other cultures incorporate. It is such an eye opener to see the unique ways that make a wedding special!

 
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Cornhusker
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Cornhusker (message)  274 posts, Helper bee

what a very cool idea, and such a great way to incorporate your heritage.

 
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alivoo01 (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

I love the symbolism behind this tradition!

 
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kayakgirl73
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kayakgirl73 (message)  2,158 posts, Buzzing bee

We did this at my wedding. Our parents welcomed us, the bride and groom to our reception. This is also a Lithuianian custom, although they add wine. My hubands parents were oth born in Lithuiania. His mom actually lived there until age 18.

 
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winter
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winter (message)  1,333 posts, Bumble bee

i love these customs. keep them coming!

 
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litlcloud
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litlcloud (message)  14 posts, Newbee

Love this tradition! We did it at my wedding, i’m from Ukraine. My parents welcomed us into the reception with bread and salt presented on a ryshnik (just like in your first photo!).
The second part of the tradition is the bride and groom must break the bread and whoever breaks off a larger piece will be the head of the household!

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

This is awesome!

 
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Miss Pudding (message)  1,180 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Sea Breeze: The first time that I heard of the water/wodka tradition was when I was reading your recaps! It just goes to show that so many of these things are regional. It does look like so much fun though, so I am going to try to squeeze that in somewhere :P

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

i love hearing all these traditions!! FI is polish and my new last name is VERY POLISH and it would be nice to nod that!

 
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cnuptain
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cnuptain (message)  330 posts, Helper bee

Very cool!

 
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Mrs. Pudding, Greater Toronto Area/Vermont Age and Occupation: 26, High School Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: August 2008 Wedding Date: July 2010 Venue: Catholic Ceremony, Cultural Hall Reception About Me: Quite literally a citizen of the world, I was born in Poland, grew up in Canada, and now live in the beautiful state of Vermont. I love reading historical biographies, multi-tasking, teasing my hair, and, despite my height, wearing high heeled shoes. I am the ultimate klutz with an uncanny ability to put on a graceful front. Mr. Pudding and I have been dating for over six years, and are very excited to finally merge our (very large) families. We are planning a traditional Polish-Catholic wedding that is anything but predictable.

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