Wedding Dream #2: The Blackout

Wedding Dream #2: The Blackout

May 9th, 2010 @ 3:20 pm by Mrs. Taco
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The title makes it sound a lot more rock star than it actually was.

I finally had another wedding dream. Unlike the first noteworthy one, it didn’t involve pretty dresses or making the most of a problem sitch. Rather, it involved blacking out during the entire event. Not like a drunken haze where everything is blurry. More like I wasn’t even there, and it somehow happened without me realizing it.

Things I remember:

Asking Mr. Taco (incredulously) who went. I specifically asked if David and Sonia went; we just went to their wedding.
Feeling disappointed, but commenting that “at least there were photos.” You know, because I missed the whole thing. What? Dream Me sucks, man; she missed her whole wedding and that’s the first thing she says? I guess it’s what I thought to say, but anyway…
Mr. Taco telling me about something he and his brother were doing before the ceremony. Grabbing a bite, maybe?

I don’t really assign big time important meanings to dreams, especially since mine boringly center on things I’m worried about at the time. But I’ll try to remember this one; perhaps a subconscious reminder to actually enjoy my wedding, the fun things we have in store, and the dear friends and family from near and far.

I should note that I’m sure the wedding binder, various paper/craft stores, contracts, and swatches have made appearances in dreams. I thankfully don’t remember any of those, and it would be such crap if I did.

Any similar wedding dreams out there? Any lessons learned from your pesky subconscious? Anyone have as much enjoyment FAIL as my Dream Me?

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14 Responses to “Wedding Dream #2: The Blackout”

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chrispygal (message) 1,198 posts, Bumble bee

I had a similar dream too! In my dream I made it to the point where I was with my dad ready to walk down the aisle and then next thing I know, it was the next morning. I, too was horrified that I missed everything and wondered about the dancing and the food, and how the decorations came out. I too thought about pictures, and was thankfull for them, but was disapointed that I didn’t have a video because I was sad that I missed the cermony. Interestingly enough, I also think it was a message to myself to slow down and ENJOY every bit of this.

5/9/10 @ 3:30 pm (reply)

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BrianneG (message) 940 posts, Busy bee

I’ve had that dream. It’s the night of the wedding but everything happened and I don’t remember it. Then I go home and all my favors are still there, nobody remembered to pass anything out.

5/9/10 @ 3:48 pm (reply)

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sjones724 (message) 590 posts, Busy bee

I had the same dream!!! It happened and i couldnt even remember being there! It was like i has slept through it! I was so sad i couldnt remember his face when i walked down the aisle.

5/9/10 @ 3:51 pm (reply)

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Miss Socks (message) 1,323 posts, Bumble bee

Haven’t had this dream but it sounds awful!! Usually mine are all about forgetting something though. Usually the flowers, candles, my dress, shoes, or anything for that matter!!

5/9/10 @ 4:28 pm (reply)

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Miss Hermit Crab (message) 3,566 posts, Sugar bee

ah the wedding dream…I am not stranger to them, although I think they were more frequent when I was further out…weird!

5/9/10 @ 4:36 pm (reply)

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jillianleigh (message) 196 posts, Blushing bee

I have that dream so many times! It really upsets me when I wake up because it’s happened so many times!

5/9/10 @ 9:07 pm (reply)

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Mrs. Pug (message) 3,753 posts, Honey bee

definitely had bad wedding dreams. in one of them, i didn’t get to wear my wedding dress. that pissed me off.

5/9/10 @ 9:30 pm (reply)

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DizzyDaffodil (message) 386 posts, Helper bee

I have the waking up on my wedding day dreams and some how time just flew by and I hadn’t even picked a dress or anything or just forgotten to and nothing else had been done and it is the day of my wedding… totally freaks me out!

5/9/10 @ 9:35 pm (reply)

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alivoo01 (message) 2,625 posts, Sugar bee

I’ve had wedding dreams/nightmares, and like you, they’re usually based on something that was worrying me all day.

5/10/10 @ 11:17 am (reply)

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kamydoo (message) 161 posts, Blushing bee

I hate wedding nightmares! They always happen as if we had our wedding right at the stage of planning we’re currently in without the other details coming together — so they’re always very frantic/stressful!

In one, we had to stop at the mall on the way to the church because I didn’t have any shoes! Then in another I had later, we had forgotten to order food, so my dad starting making breakfast food (like eggs and waffles…) to feed everyone waiting — what??!!

5/10/10 @ 12:30 pm (reply)

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winter (message) 1,333 posts, Bumble bee

oh yes I have had that wedding nightmare before. dont stress to much and dont worry, i know it’s hard to take in but the day will be wonderful!

5/10/10 @ 1:49 pm (reply)

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Mrs. Nachos (message) 1,734 posts, Bumble bee

I had a ton of wedding nightmares, usually about one of us not going through with the wedding the day of. And even 2 weeks after the wedding, I just had another a few nights ago where the diamond in my ring crumbled to pieces and I was devastated. Hopefully these dreams will stop eventually!

5/10/10 @ 4:00 pm (reply)

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