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Mrs. Hot Wings, Chicago/San Diego Age and Occupation: 28, Professor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Instructor Engagement Date: December 20, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant About Me: I am a psychology grad student living in Chicago and planning my wedding to a fellow psych grad student. I am a Sunny So-Cal bred gal who trudged across the country to follow her love of psychology and ended up finding a partner in the process. I am overly passionate about anything I involve myself with. I am an activist, a foodie, a reality TV watching junkie, an over-analyzer, a photography obsesser, and am utterly cheesy to the core. This is a story of what happens when a boy and a girl meet, fall in love over academic dorkiness, and a shared love for life. We (mostly I) are planning our semi-destination wedding in my hometown of San Diego. We are excited to bring our families and friends together from across our lifespans to celebrate our future in a grand 400+ person culturally blended affair!
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What a gigantic relief! The invitations that we have labored over for the last year are finally starting to leave our hands. Thank the wedding crafting goddesses!

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Our invitations required 78 cents in stamps. As soon as she haerd they were wedding invitations, the post office clerk pulled out the LOVE stamps.

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Sure, these purple pansies are pretty. No, they aren’t part of our color scheme at all, but that’s OK. What’s definitely NOT OK is trying to tell me that I should just put 2 LOVE stamps on each envelop at a cost of 88 cents. Seriously woman? That’s an extra 10 cents an envelope. Apparently, she didn’t see that I’m a poor, just out of school bride with a freaking huge guest list!

Lucky for me, I came prepared. I had written down all the stamps that I thought were decent looking and their respective denomination. She wouldn’t show me her binder of stamps, so I just started asking if she had the dolphin stamp or the Smokey mountain stamp. I ended up insisting that she check for the Zion National Park Stamp because it’s a 79 cent stamp. Thank goodness she found it.

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It’s not the prettiest in the world, but I think it actually matches our invitations pretty well. It’s kind of like a sun, right? Gold and blue—I can’t complain. It matches our “Coastal Chic” affair fine. At that point, I just didn’t care anymore. I wanted these things gone.

And how about a quick side story…

Remember how Mr. Hot Wings and I donated his car? Instead of driving, Mr. Hot Wings and I went for a lovely bike ride to the post office. Not only did we pay the price in biking energy and stamps, a bird decided to literally crap on my happiness…

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Do you see it? Don’t look at where I’m pointing, because apparently I’m not a very accurate pointer.

What stamp(s) did you use or are you hoping to use on your invitations? Does it matter?

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24 Responses to “Sending Out Invitations in the City”

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Jo

Supposedly a bird crapping on you is good luck? So the bird was blessing your wedding and marriage!

 
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Miss Hot Dog (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

Poor thing! And that postal lady seems like a real crabby pants if she wouldn’t let you flip through her book :P My mom works for the post office and she’s scoping out sweet stamps right now!

 
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sunnydebs (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

I used the pansy love stamps, but I only needed 44 cents. I wouldn’t waste an extra 10 cents on stamps per invitation. That could really add up!

 
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Miss Stargazer (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

Jo is right! In the Italian culture a bird pooping on you is considered very good luck!

 
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Mrs. Ballet Flat (message)  770 posts, Busy bee

Ahh bird crap is the WORST!

 
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Miss Seashell (message)  1,713 posts, Bumble bee

Sorry you got pooped on! But yay for your invitations going out!

 
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LisaM (message)  160 posts, Blushing bee

That was funny. I also experienced it once and I do not want to have another bird pooping on me again…

 
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Miss Spaghetti (message)  282 posts, Helper bee

Oh no! But that’s good luck though (so I heard!). We had to use $1.05 in stamps so we didn’t have a choice really and used $1 Zeus like stamps and .05 tea kettle looking stamp. Not attractive but oh well!

 
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Grits (message)  36 posts, Newbee

We weighed ours ($1.05) and then added some more paper to the design, so I went with the more is better mentality. We used 2 of the 61 cent wedding cake stamps. Probably overkill but they were heavy!

I was hoping for that Smokey Mountains stamp too!

 
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Miss Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

ahh, bird poo! glad you got the invites out though!

 
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Mrs. Frozen Yogurt (message)  2,685 posts, Sugar bee

Aww, I’m so sorry!! But I like the stamps you got!

 
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Miss Frog (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

Loving that you stood strong on your stamps, Hot Wings! And that last pic of you…priceless. Do I hear wedding slideshow anyone? :)

 
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Miss Hot Wings (message)  2,213 posts, Buzzing bee

@Jo: Wow! That’s awesome! I had no idea. I’ll take good luck any day. Thanks.

@Miss Frog: wedding slideshow, yes. bird poop picture in slideshow, maybe :P heehee

 
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jmax (message)  104 posts, Blushing bee

Great preparations on your stamps - I wanted the king and queen of hearts stamps, and was almost a little disappointed when it turned out I only needed one stamp per envelope! It still looked cute though, so when I reminded myself I was spending half of what I thought, I felt much better : )

 
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Mrs. Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

Our stamps were random and hideous, I think! I like your story. I’m not sure if you feel totally negative about the bird, but it’s memorable and funny, and like Jo said, it’s good luck!

 
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Miss Paisley (message)  243 posts, Helper bee

I just went with the wedding cake stamps they had in the post office ;)
Glad your invites are on their way to the guests. That’s always a load off!

 
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

we ended up using one king of heart (or queen) and…a polar bear stamp! it was a masterpiece. go mt. zion! and yes, bird poop is good luck.

 
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

you are so cute!! glad you did your stamp research!

 
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Ms. Bunny

Yay for sending out invitations! I’m sorry that postal service lady tried to scam you but good for you for being on top of your stamp research. And I don’t think it matters which stamps you use. Very, very few people will notice them.

 
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Miss Turtle (message)  782 posts, Busy bee

I’m totally about to do a post on stamps. I ended up over-thinking them, but hopefully a few people noticed! Congratulations on getting your invitations out! That’s huge!

 
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Mrs. Hot Wings, Chicago/San Diego Age and Occupation: 28, Professor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Instructor Engagement Date: December 20, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant About Me: I am a psychology grad student living in Chicago and planning my wedding to a fellow psych grad student. I am a Sunny So-Cal bred gal who trudged across the country to follow her love of psychology and ended up finding a partner in the process. I am overly passionate about anything I involve myself with. I am an activist, a foodie, a reality TV watching junkie, an over-analyzer, a photography obsesser, and am utterly cheesy to the core. This is a story of what happens when a boy and a girl meet, fall in love over academic dorkiness, and a shared love for life. We (mostly I) are planning our semi-destination wedding in my hometown of San Diego. We are excited to bring our families and friends together from across our lifespans to celebrate our future in a grand 400+ person culturally blended affair!

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