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Mrs. Thimble, NYC/Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 26, Actress & Costume Designer (+ day job) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lawyer & Techie Wiz Engagement Date: August 22, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: The Pearl S. Buck House About Me: I’m an easily inspired over-thinker delighted with the process of designing, building, directing and {dare I say} co-starring in the early-autumn affair I’ve been dreaming up. I’m a sucker for trendied-up comfort foods and old family anecdotes; I have an affinity for adjectives, alliteration, eyelet and earl grey; and I live for quality time with family and friends. I never guessed I’d marry my “high school sweetheart", but when it turned out to be my funny, techie, loyal Mr. Thimble I was committed for life. We’re both mid-career transition and ready to move back to small-townish TBD, PA in a pre-wedding flurry of all-good life changes.
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In other words: Our DIY wrap-around labels.

But first I’d better reveal what our save the dates look like and how they came to be, no?

I’ve had an ever-growing obsession with letterpress since I started researching wedding stationery. I wanted to have it, design it, learn how to print it. I was impatient by the time we were nearing the reasonable window of time to send save the dates. Perusing the Weddingbee classifieds for some ideas and supplies, I came upon Janie Liu of We Heart Paper’s post offering a fantastic deal on custom letterpress. I emailed her right away, and I’m very happy I did:

Save the Dates!: I Mailed Them, People Got Them, How'd I Do It? :  wedding diy philadelphia save the dates stationery Savethe1 savethe

{photos from We Heart Paper - they were prettier than my personal photos}

The design process was a blast - zillions of emails back and forth, several beautiful drafts, and late night Gmail chat brainstorms. The border was my mom’s suggestion, enhanced to a cross-stich effect by Janie; and the little dots on the wings are one of my many favorite details. She listened and delivered.

I had somewhat arbitrarily chosen Valentine’s Day as my deadline to have our save the dates in the mail - ideally in the hands of our potential guests. I decided the heart theme would be cute and appropriate, and it was within the 6-8 months-out window of time to send save the dates per wedding books and websites. However, the universe and Martha Stewart had another plan in store for my little paper pretties.

I tried printing directly onto the envelope per the paper store’s claim that it could be done. The inkjet results were smudgey at best. I tried typing up traditional labels and they looked not good enough. There’s no better way to say it. This is where Martha comes in and gets the blame, because I found these wrap-around labels when searching MarthaStewart.com for labeling etiquette.

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{Martha}

I knew they would spruce up my kraft paper envelopes and make them look perfectly put together. I had to have them! Martha offered a template to make your own labels, plus instructions for how to make paper into stickers with a… sticker machine. This was climbing over my head and out of my budget. And the big kicker was that you had to hand-type all the addresses into their template and print each page one at a time! I had over 100 save the dates to send out… I was going to make technology my slave, not the other way around. The final important piece of information about this template is that you cannot customize the font or color as far at I can tell. You’re stuck with Times New Roman, italicized, in black. So here’s what I did:

Mr. Thimble and I hunted down the quirky-cute font on our save the dates on My Fonts, and purchased Little Lord Fontleroy for 10 bucks. (They have a forum where you can upload a picture of a font and people can tell you what it is! Super cool.)

I then opened up Word, chose a DVD Spine label template, and moved all the margins all over the place until I was happy with the size (about 9 per page). I formatted the placeholders for my mail-merge with the fonts I liked, and I trial-and-errored for several nights with “graphics” for the back side of the wrap around label until I gave in and just typed our return address. Then I merged my masterpiece with my Excel spreadsheet and got… drum roll please… 2-3 pages of the same address repeated before switching to the next resulting in a 154 page document. No dice. Remember how I didn’t want to be technology’s slave? I spent {at least} 2 weeks wrestling with these Word and Excel documents until I gave up and could have hand-typed them all by then. Instead, I copy-pasted each formatted label into a fresh document to create these:

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I thought it was only fair to show off my kick-ass work station of organization. In the background is a duvet cover I bought off of our own registry because it was on sale, a hair comb that doubled as a ruler, and a poor attempt at writing with a calligraphy pen.

I printed the labels on full-sheet label paper from Staples (the $25 was steep, but not as steep as a Xyron). And I cut most of them at work (after hours, of course…) on our paper cutter. But I got impatient for this last batch, so I used a paper-cutting pen like device - the Scotch Precision Cutter, my hair comb, and an old Modern Bride.

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the whole package, coming together

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return address on the back

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lovely wrapped up edges

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$1 Rockefeller Center stamps to cover postage to Ireland. I struggled with the aesthetics until I realized the Rock might be cool to the Irish cousins.

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my fave whimsical, color palette-coordinating love stamps. With hearts!

This last batch of missing and erroneous addresses finally went out in early April. A good while past my Valentine’s deadline. (Though the first and biggest batch went out in early March, I swear!)

Fortunately, the beauty in the details was worth it to me.

For all the many blog posts I read by the bees and on other brides’ blogs about the mind-numbing unexpected complications that addressing invitations and save the dates brings with it, I still had the gall to think I had it under control. Like they’d never heard of mail-merge. Silly me. :)

What have your experiences with new to the scene deal-wielding vendors been like? AND have any unexpected projects given you trouble? Was it worth it in the end?

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13 Responses to “Save the Dates!: I Mailed Them, People Got Them, How’d I Do It?”

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Mrs. Hamster (message)  4,046 posts, Honey bee

Wow, sounds like quite a bit of effort, but the result came out really great!!! :)

 
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alivoo01
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alivoo01 (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

Those look great! Way to stick to it!

 
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froggy518
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froggy518 (message)  268 posts, Helper bee

OMG! Those are your save the dates?! I saw them on the We Heart Paper blog a few weeks back, and I bookmarked them because they were so pretty! They are absolutely adorable, and I think they look great with the kraft envelopes and wrap around labels.

 
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Miss Sweet Tea
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Miss Sweet Tea (message)  289 posts, Helper bee

I love these!!!

 
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Mrs. Parfait (message)  1,755 posts, Buzzing bee

Those cards are goooorgeous! And the packaging is sweet—the stamps work so perfectly with envelopes. You have some lucky guests. : )

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

Adorable save the dates!

 
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JessersLA
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JessersLA (message)  50 posts, Worker bee

Wow- those are fantastic!!! So pretty!!!

I am right now in the throes of using the MS wrap around labels for my invites so it makes me smile to see someone else struggling with them as well! We imported the template into Photoshop to change the font and add a cute graphic. And we actually did buy a Xyron to make them- but it was only $23 at Michael’s with our 40% off coupon! We can only do 2 at a time so it takes a while, but we’re almost done! :)

 
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MOHmama (message)  404 posts, Helper bee

they look great!

 
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Miss Cardigan
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

I love those! Gorgeous!

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

o i love these! great work!

 
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winter
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winter (message)  1,333 posts, Bumble bee

those look great and letterpress is always a winner

 
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Hana

These look amazing. Love the attention to detail and appreciate the time and hard work that took!

 
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Mrs. Thimble, NYC/Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 26, Actress & Costume Designer (+ day job) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lawyer & Techie Wiz Engagement Date: August 22, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: The Pearl S. Buck House About Me: I’m an easily inspired over-thinker delighted with the process of designing, building, directing and {dare I say} co-starring in the early-autumn affair I’ve been dreaming up. I’m a sucker for trendied-up comfort foods and old family anecdotes; I have an affinity for adjectives, alliteration, eyelet and earl grey; and I live for quality time with family and friends. I never guessed I’d marry my “high school sweetheart", but when it turned out to be my funny, techie, loyal Mr. Thimble I was committed for life. We’re both mid-career transition and ready to move back to small-townish TBD, PA in a pre-wedding flurry of all-good life changes.

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