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Mrs. Socks, Southern NJ/Philadelphia, PA Age and Occupation: 23, Web Developer/Marketing Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Systems Engineer Engagement Date: September 7, 2009 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: Ladder 15 Restaurant About Me: I am originally from the Midwest, but I love being an East Coast transplant! Mr. Socks and I are foodies and winos to the core---give us a hunk of cheese, some charcuterie and a glass of wine and we could die happy. We have two mischievous Wire Fox Terriers with completely opposite personalities but with a shared love of uprooting anything in our garden. Our backyard garden includes everything from tomatoes and peppers to a fig tree, blueberries, blackberries and raspberries! I love cooking, indie music, and spending time in our wedding city of choice---Philly!
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When I left off, Sister Socks and I had both picked out our engagement rings (and matching wedding bands).

Here’s how the proposals went down:

Mr. Socks and I were going on vacation a few weeks after I picked out my ring. I knew we wouldn’t have the ring in time, but we had discussed getting engaged anyway without the ring, since our Europe trip would probably be rife with picture-perfect proposal spots.

*Warning–completely gratuitous vacation photos ahead*

Maybe he would propose on the first day when we got to Switzerland? Perhaps at the top of the hill in Gruyere?

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal Gruyere


Or maybe later that day in a vineyard in Lavaux?

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal Lavaux

Or maybe he would pop the question in Geneva by the Jet d’Eau?

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The suspense was driving me crazy. On the morning of our third day, we were packing up to leave our hotel in Geneva to travel through Chamonix, France, on our way to Milan and Lake Como. Since I thought we’d be in the car most of the day, I threw on jeans and a purple t-shirt. Mr. Socks looked at me when I got dressed and said, “are you going to wear THAT?”

Well, needless to say, that shocked me! I was too pissed to think of the motive behind him suggesting I might want to wear something nicer (I kept the jeans and threw on a yellow collared shirt).

So we drove out of Geneva and stopped in Chamonix, France for lunch. It was an adorable ski town, but wasn’t too busy since it was early September. We walked around, and decided to take a lift up to the top of Mont Blanc, the tallest mountain in Europe.

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal Mt Blan

When we got all the way up, the views and the altitude were breathtaking. Mr. Socks and I made our way up to one of the platforms, and asked a nice German couple to take our photo, they obliged, and then left the platform.

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal Way Hig

It was almost time for the last cable car of the evening to go back to Chamonix, and we found ourselves alone at the top of the mountain.

It suddenly occurred to me: This is IT. I could tell by Mr. Socks’ face that he was struggling to find the appropriate words, so I waited patiently. My patience paid off.

He got on one knee and pulled out a stand-in ring. My dad had apparently slipped him an old ring that my mom never wore that would fit me while we waited for my pretty pretty ring to arrive. It was sterling silver with a cloudy white topaz in the center, but I was still blown away.

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal One Kne

We exchanged loving words, and I said yes (of course!). We spent the rest of the vacation in engagement bliss!

My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals :  wedding philadelphia proposal Accept

Three months later, on Christmas Eve in front of both families (Mr. Socks and I were the only ones not there––we were at his family’s), BIL Socks proposed to Sister Socks. It’s amazing all of the love they had around them that evening––I just love these pictures!

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Haha I love how everyone on BIL Socks’ side of the family is taking pictures while Momma Socks is snapping pics!

So we were both engaged. And Sister Socks had always wanted a June wedding. I always wanted an October wedding… and well… it just happened.

But my parents are thrilled about adding TWO family members to the Sock clan this year, anyway. They’ve been wonderfully supportive of both of us during our planning process, and since Sister Socks and I are complete opposites in every way, at least we won’t have similar weddings even though they are only four months apart!

Did you get engaged/married at the same time as a sibling? Were you excited about it?

*All photos are personal photos

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27 Responses to “My Poor Parents, Part II: The Proposals”

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mcnetn3
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mcnetn3 (message)  1,675 posts, Bumble bee

My SO and I are going to Eruope in September, and I’m really hoping it will happen then. We are going to Interlaken, Lake Como, and Garmisch. His grandfather proposed to his grandmother in Interlaken, so it’s just too perfect…. your post gives me hope :)

 
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Millyha

I think I mentioned in your last post that my sister and I are getting married 7 days apart. We were engaged 17 days apart and both wanted summer weddings. Neither of us wanted to wait until 2011, so we thought it would be most convenient for the guests involved if we did it at the same time.

We’ve very different and other than our weddings being weddings, they will be very different.

 
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ArwenBride
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ArwenBride (message)  783 posts, Busy bee

I’m SO glad that someone else is getting married at the same time as their sister.

My sister is getting married in September and I’m getting married in December.

It’s definitely interesting, but there have been a lot of fun points.

Great story. :)

 
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jgoulart
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jgoulart (message)  1,069 posts, Bumble bee

Congrats to both engaged couples! Yay for LOVE!

 
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Miss Cardigan
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

Such a sweet story! I like vacation proposals :) And I really think it’s awesome that you and your sister are getting to plan your weddings together!

 
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Hola13 (message)  52 posts, Worker bee

I got engaged in May, decided on a 15 month engagement and are getting marriend this August. My fi’s bro proposed to his gf a few weeks after us and they decided on a 6 month engagement and got married in December. I wish I could say that it has been a blast but it hasn’t. I think if it had been MY sister it would have been a different story. There was no reason for them to get engaged right after us or rush to get married before us. Everything that was wedidng related they have drawn out becuase they know they rushed it. I always put on a smile while going to her shower or not being invited to her bach party. It’s shame because my shower was the last place she wanted to be and she made it known. She had her time a few months ago, now it’s my time! I’m happy that you and your sister can plan this together. After seeing what my sis has done for me as my maid of honor makes me want her to get engaged asap so I can plan all these fun things for her!!

 
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stephbolt (message)  204 posts, Helper bee

Awww such sweet proposals! I got engaged last March and married this April. My sister got engaged last November and will get married in September. It’s been so much fun planning together! But lots of people do say “your poor father” whenever they hear about it.

 
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Vermont Weddings

The engagement time was soo cute…I don’t know what would I feel if my boyfriend would propose me…ehehe

 
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sammerz
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sammerz (message)  113 posts, Blushing bee

Love your pics!!

My brother is getting married in Sept after being engaged for (i think) 2 years. I’m getting married just less than a month later, after being engaged since Xmas Eve.. Bro wasn’t too happy about it but I’ve always wanted an October wedding too, and a short(ish) engagement. My poor parents are on wedding overload! And to top it off, FI and I bought a house and then so did Bro and FSIL!

 
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Violet Violet
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Violet Violet (message)  985 posts, Busy bee

That’s so sweet!! (And what an amazing trip to Europe!) I got engaged just a month after my cousin, who is like a sister to me. It’s been fun so far! And thankfully, we’ve planned 7 months between the two weddings.

 
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Miss Pinot Grigio
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Miss Pinot Grigio (message)  1,410 posts, Bumble bee

My two sisters and I were all married in within an 11-month span. It was so much fun sharing the wedding planning process with them! Good thing we love weddings, showers, and parties. =)

 
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deannab1 (message)  32 posts, Newbee

It’s so fun to plan your wedding with your sister. My poor parents had my little sisters wedding in July, my wedding in November, my older sister had a baby in February, and my little brother is getting married in August. So 3 weddings and a baby in a 12 months and two weeks. My dad says it’s crazy and chaotic so why not get it all over with at once? :) My sister, future SIL and I all LOVED being able to plan together and bounce ideas of one another.

 
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ellie rose (message)  44 posts, Newbee

Two weddings in one year for this bride-to-be too! My FI’s sister is getting married next June and we’ll be getting married next fall. future SIL and her FI dated for 8 years before they got engaged…we dated 8 months before we got engaged!

I have a feeling wedding planning is going to help me get to know her better because it’s something we can do as a team! :) 2011 will be an exciting year!

 
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Miss Pretzel
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Miss Pretzel (message)  1,893 posts, Buzzing bee

Mr pretzel’s brother got married in may and we get married in July. His sister got married last July and had a baby in may- just weeks before his brothers wedding. It has been a crazy year.

 
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cecullaton
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cecullaton (message)  627 posts, Busy bee

We are getting married very close to FI’s brother. They are getting married in July, and we are in October… and it’s a bit overwhelming trying to make sure nothing overlaps at times, but still lots of fun

 
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Miss Locket
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Miss Locket (message)  2,837 posts, Sugar bee

didn’t get married or engaged around the same time as any of my siblings, but it coincided with a time where two of them were going through breakups…it was tough because I didn’t want to gloat in my happiness while in their presence, but that’s life…you never know what to expect.

 
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Swiss Miss to Bee
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Swiss Miss to Bee (message)  1,004 posts, Bumble bee

Aw too bad he didn’t do it in Geneva! Haha just kidding! What a great story! Next time you’re in Switzerland….come visit! Well, once I actually get there :) And I’m a South Jersey girl too!

Awesome pics by the way!!!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,295 posts, Bee Keeper

this is going to be one crazy year for the socks family! wow, two family weddings. that’s great!

 
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Miss Socks (message)  1,323 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, I feel so much better that others have gotten engaged/married at the same time as siblings! Neither of us wanted to steal each others’ thunder, but since it just happened that way…well, it just happened!

 
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Mrs. Cowboy Boot
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Mrs. Cowboy Boot (message)  434 posts, Helper bee

We got engaged on Capri in Italy. It’s so dreamy when I think back on that vacation–I’m not sure another vacation could top that (and I’m even including our honeymoon in that statement, even though it was fab too!). We also took a chairlift up a mountain the day we got engaged. We, however, were definitely NOT alone at the top of the mountain so I’m rather glad Mr. CB didn’t decide that was the best spot to propose. Really adorable story! Congrats!

 
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Mrs. Socks, Southern NJ/Philadelphia, PA Age and Occupation: 23, Web Developer/Marketing Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Systems Engineer Engagement Date: September 7, 2009 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: Ladder 15 Restaurant About Me: I am originally from the Midwest, but I love being an East Coast transplant! Mr. Socks and I are foodies and winos to the core---give us a hunk of cheese, some charcuterie and a glass of wine and we could die happy. We have two mischievous Wire Fox Terriers with completely opposite personalities but with a shared love of uprooting anything in our garden. Our backyard garden includes everything from tomatoes and peppers to a fig tree, blueberries, blackberries and raspberries! I love cooking, indie music, and spending time in our wedding city of choice---Philly!

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