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Mrs. Lobster, Brooklyn Age and Occupation: 29, Finance Girl Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Finance Boy Engagement Date: July 25, 2009 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Stage 6 Steiner Studios About Me: I'm a New York-born, Virginia-bred girl who's found her way back to the big city. Mr. Lobster and I met in grad school and have been together ever since. I'm clueless about DIY but am an avid online shopper and love all things polka dots, stripes, and ruffles! When I'm not making wedding lists, you can find me looking for snacks, watching Gilmore Girls, or hanging out with Mr. Lobster and our new puppy Buddy! We are planning a fancy-pantsy Brooklyn wedding for a hot New York summer night which is sure to be a misadventure in the making.
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I’m almost done with the invites. I promise! Until then… the paper details. When I was researching for invitations and first started reading Weddingbee, I was so overwhelmed with paper terminology and types.

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overwhelmed with invitation details

Here are ourinvitation details - hopefully to help someone out there!

Sizing

I used a standard A7 (5″x7″) size for the main invite and 4bar (3-1/2″ x 4-7/8″) for the reception and RSVP cards. This made it easier to find pre-made envelopes.

Weight

Mrs. Pug did a nice series on paper here. I also found this reference guide from Paper and More very helpful. I recommend around 110# to have that invitation “feel”. For the envelope liner, go as thin as you can cut for two reasons 1) it’s easier to cut and fold thin liners and 2) saves on postage.

Paper

Envelope Liner: Print Icon 24# Text in Silver Dot

Main Invite (A7 size), Reception, and RSVP (4bar) Cards: Crane Lettra 110# in Fluorescent White

Card backing: Paper Presentation Classic Linen 80# cover in Charcoal

  • The Crane and Linen papers have very nice texture. The Lettra is made for letterpress but if you use digital or offset printing, your printer person might recommend a less textured/less soft paper so that the print stays crisp and doesn’t bleed.

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Envelopes

Outer A7.5: Paper Presentation Classic Crest in Solar White

RSVP / Reception card 4bar: Paper Presentation Classic Crest in Solar White

Inner A7: Print Icon Vellum in White

Twine: Divine Twine in Oyster and Lemon

  • Originally, I sent my envelopes to a printer to do the addresses. The professional sized machine warped the envelopes and the heat sealed them shut. I ended up printing them on my home printer (came free with my Mac). I did have some creases but I’m blaming that on USPS.
  • Tip: Buy EXTRA envelopes if you’re printing at home. You’ll run into snafus like printing on the wrong side or upside down, etc. Or test print on some envelope-sized papers.
  • Printing on vellum? Change your print settings to draft or transparent to lessen the ink used. Allow enough time for the ink to DRY completely for no surprise smudging.

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Twine tying options

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First attempt at printing envelope - creased with rando dashes

Postage

The invitation ended up weighing in at 81 cents and that’s because of the twine tie adding the “package surcharge”. Be sure to bring it in to ask your friendly USPS rep and don’t say you want to mail it “regular mail” because it doesn’t exist. It’s called First Class mail and Mr. Lobster learned that the hard way. LOL.

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a king and a queen for my 81 cents

Lobster Lesson: start putting together your details WAY ahead of time. I procrastinated because of indecision and didn’t account for snafus that ended up adding a couple of weeks. Now I’m pushing the envelope (HAHAHA - is that an invitation pun? I hope so.) on the proper RSVP window time for my guests. And please. For the love of invitations. Proofread. A LOT.

Did invitations take much longer than you expected? What kind of obstacles did you run into?

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NoneOfYourBeeswax (message)  146 posts, Blushing bee

I <3 your invitation liners. Gorgeous!

 
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menobride (message)  1,669 posts, Bumble bee

I want that doggie. LOL

 
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Lindsy (message)  237 posts, Helper bee

Your dog is so cute. I love westies!!

 
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xLailax (message)  414 posts, Helper bee

Hi Miss L, did you pick out your envelope/sizing first and then figure the rest out?

 
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Miss Argyle (message)  2,516 posts, Sugar bee

Our invites are sitting on our kitchen table. I still need for our map to get finished, then I’ll start thinking about how we’ll assemble them. Love the twine!

 
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ccranetobe (message)  3,692 posts, Sugar bee

I had to do my invitations twice… yup first design was so pretty then I went to put the details on and the glue i used was dodgy.. everything peeled off and warped.. had to start again from scratch! as i didnt have enough of the paper that had all warped. So had to start again. needless to say.. dissapointing but Im glad i didnt leave it till the last minute!

 
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jaimbar (message)  16 posts, Newbee

Can I just say that you’re my fav Bee b/c you have a Westie, and an adorable one at that. :)

 
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hrev2010 (message)  416 posts, Helper bee

Yes the king and queen stamps! I completely agree with doing the invites way in advance. Also good to do that incase there are any mishaps :S

 
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Mrs. Pencils (message)  1,027 posts, Bumble bee

Even with the snafus, they clearly turned out well! Love the deets!

 
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Miss Hermit Crab (message)  3,530 posts, Sugar bee

Good advice - we planned and planned and still sent them out right on our (self-imposed) deadline!

 
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Miss Lobster (message)  668 posts, Busy bee

@xLailax: I did pick envelope sizes first from the advice of previous bees. It’s easier to have your paper custom cut or to find them in the standard size rather than finding the envelope to fit your paper.
@menobride: @Lindsy: @jaimbar: Aw, thanks! I’ll pass along the sweet comments to buddy.

 
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Miss Cardigan (message)  8,645 posts, Bee Keeper

Thanks so much for sharing the details of what you used - I bookmarked this page! Very helpful! :)

 
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

aw buddy. buddy buddy buddy. i love all the details, and can’t wait to see the whole invitation suite!

 
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winter (message)  1,333 posts, Bumble bee

beautiful invites and the twine is so nice

 
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Mrs. Hamster (message)  4,045 posts, Honey bee

Very helpful post! Looking forward to the full invitation reveal! :)

 
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

Your dog is so adorable! Love him!

 
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sweetpeaj (message)  42 posts, Newbee

Thank you so much for this post! I have already finished my STDs but all the paper information out there is still so frustrating and overwhelming!

I have a question about these - Main Invite (A7 size), Reception, and RSVP (4bar) Cards: Crane Lettra 110# in Fluorescent White — did you actually get these pieces letterpressed or have them printed somewhere or print them yourself? Sorry if this is part of your next post but I would love for our main invite and maybe RSVP card to be on letterpress quality paper even if letterpress itself is not in the budget.

Thanks!

 
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Miss Lobster (message)  668 posts, Busy bee

@sweetpeaj: I did have my invites letterpressed. Some bees have Gocco’d on letterpress paper with beautiful results. I think it depends on your printer’s recommendation. If you are printing at home, order some samples to test it out before buying the paper…the paper might be too absorbent and you might find a less soft paper to have better results. Hope this helps!

 
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Hi Miss Lobster! I was wondering if you could tell me more about the extra postage you had to pay because of your twine. Did they call that a “nonmachinable surcharge,” or was it something different?

(In case you’re curious, I ask because my Save the Dates are square, so I’m already going to pay this surcharge - I figure if I’m paying it already, I might as well throw in some lemon Divine Twine! Man, I love that stuff.)

Thanks SO much for the help!

 
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Mrs. Lobster, Brooklyn Age and Occupation: 29, Finance Girl Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Finance Boy Engagement Date: July 25, 2009 Wedding Date: August 2010 Venue: Stage 6 Steiner Studios About Me: I'm a New York-born, Virginia-bred girl who's found her way back to the big city. Mr. Lobster and I met in grad school and have been together ever since. I'm clueless about DIY but am an avid online shopper and love all things polka dots, stripes, and ruffles! When I'm not making wedding lists, you can find me looking for snacks, watching Gilmore Girls, or hanging out with Mr. Lobster and our new puppy Buddy! We are planning a fancy-pantsy Brooklyn wedding for a hot New York summer night which is sure to be a misadventure in the making.

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