Weddingbee Blog

Mr. Starfish just ordered our wedding bands! We went to pick them out last weekend, but had to wait for a quote on the rings. My choice was easy. I knew I wanted a band that matched my engagement ring. There were two options in the store, one was too thick, the other to,o thin. The associate looked up my ring, since we bought it in the same location and found out that the exact match is no longer in stock, and it just happened to be right in between the size of the other two. So I ordered the one that is hopefully just right.

Mr. Starfish’s choice was also pretty easy. He walked up to the counter, found a style he liked and tried a few on, then picked the two he liked best. We got a quote for the two and then made his decision. Super easy.

The one thing we were both surprised about during the process was cost.

Prior to our band shopping experience I had no clue how much a metal choice can impact the cost of a ring. Sure, I know platinum is pricier than silver, but I didn’t really know about the metals in between. Common ones include silver, yellow gold, white gold, platinum, palladium, tungsten, tungsten carbide, and titanium.

I didn’t really have a choice in my band’s metal, as I knew I wanted a matching set and that includes metal. I’ve heard different metals wear differently, so I wanted my wedding band metal to be the same as the engagement ring. When we first put together our wedding budget, I did some online research on my matching wedding band and budgeted a little over that amount in case anything changed over the next year (remember, we had a long engagement).

Mr. Starfish was dead set on not spending a lot of money on his ring. BILS found a ring, I believe it is tungsten carbide, at T.J. Maxx for about $26.00 and purchased it for his wedding band. Mr. Starfish thought this was great and decided he wanted to do the same. The problem is that he has a larger finger size, which wasn’t as easy to find. I figured it would be tough to find a deal like this, so I budgeted a bit more for Mr. Starfish. We came up with dollar amounts and put it in the budget.

Like many of our wedding plans, other than the big things, we put this off until the checklist told us we should really be doing it. We went to the closest Descenza’s and looked at wedding bands. I tried mine on and asked for a quote. Mr. Starfish tried his on and asked for a quote for two rings, but asked to get quotes for different metals.

A few days later I got a call. My ring ended up being about 2/3 of the price I had budgeted! My ring is palladium and the rings I saw online must have been platinum. I had no idea a metal could vary the price this greatly. I’m super happy Mr. Starfish opted for a more practical metal. This savings is definitely helping at a much needed time.

This also worked out great, because Mr. Starfish opted to go with white gold as opposed to his original idea of going with tungsten carbide. He was surprised at the cost of the white gold ring, because in the store the price tag was much higher—again, I’m assuming this must have been based on a platinum ring or other costlier metal. We hadn’t budgeted enough for the white gold, but after the savings from my ring, we were able to get both of our top choice rings with a bit of money to spare.

Our rings should arrive in within 6 weeks, and I’ll post photos once we get them.

Did metal type have an impact on your ring decision? Were you surprised by the difference in metals prices?