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Mrs. Buttons, Clearwater, FL Age and Occupation: 24, "Working on it" Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Services Engagement Date: June 13, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Carlouel Yacht Club About Me: I'm a self proclaimed perfectionist and a professional nomad (seriously, I've lived in TX, WI, MI, FL, NC, and now VA!). I love wine, cooking, curling up with a good book (nerd alert!), spoiling the furbaby, and of course, the wonderful Mr. Buttons! We are planning a lighthearted and whimsical wedding (with a good deal of DIY projects) in Clearwater, Florida, but from a distance of 800 miles away! We are looking forward to sharing our day with our family and friends, and most importantly, starting our lives together as husband and wife!
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I already alluded to the fact that when BM L, A, and I drove past the rehearsal dinner location, I thought something looked strange. At that moment, I put it out of my mind, but nevertheless, it kept bugging me.

When we returned to the beach house, my cell phone rang. It was Mommy Buttons, and she had some interesting news. MIL Buttons had arranged with the rehearsal dinner restaurant to drop off the centerpieces on Friday morning so she wouldn’t have to worry about them on Saturday. She had arrived at the restaurant that morning to discover the doors were closed, chained, and padlocked! She had spoken with the manager that Tuesday, only 3 days earlier… and there seemed to be nothing wrong at that time. However, at some point between Tuesday and Friday, the restaurant had closed. And, of course… they hadn’t informed MIL Buttons of this.

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So… there we were… without a rehearsal dinner location for the following evening. If it was a small dinner, I might not have been concerned. However, our rehearsal dinner was scheduled for 60 guests, and it was being held on a Saturday night… on a holiday weekend. As soon as Mommy Buttons told me the news about our original restaurant closing, I could feel my heart (and stomach) drop down to my toes. This… was… not… good!

Now, I’m going to pause the story for a moment. During my planning process, I constantly was hearing how there really is no way to avoid at least one thing from going wrong in relation to your wedding day. I wholeheartedly agree with this statement. Something IS going to go wrong at SOME point during your wedding festivities. But, you know what? Things have a way of working themselves out. Breathe in… breathe out…

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At first, I thought that our rehearsal dinner was going to be a catastrophe. How in the world were we going to resolve this problem in less than 24 hours? I figured that we would have to order pizzas and eat them in our hotel lounge, or something to that accord. Well, luck happened to be on our side. MIL Buttons had frantically searched around the area, and ended up visiting a restaurant where Mr. Buttons’ brother had held his rehearsal dinner a few years back. They were able to accommodate the size of our group, AND they were willing to recreate our menu to the best of their ability (our guests had already pre-selected their dinner choice for the evening). Problem solved! The only thing we had to do now was to inform our guests of the new location, and give them directions! Sigh of relief? Indeed. Crisis… averted!

Have you had a moment of panic during your wedding planning?

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24 Responses to “It Wouldn’t Be a Wedding Without Something Going Awry”

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Mrs. Hermit Crab
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Mrs. Hermit Crab (message)  3,566 posts, Sugar bee

wow - good save! it’s the kind of thing you’ll look back on and laugh about!

 
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AnamCara
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AnamCara (message)  1,135 posts, Bumble bee

That’s an AMAZING save.
And I love Hobbes. So great post all around :0)

 
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Farfromachildbride
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Farfromachildbride (message)  1,006 posts, Bumble bee

Your poor MIL. I bet she was really upset!!

 
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Miss Locket
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Miss Locket (message)  2,837 posts, Sugar bee

Agreed, great save….so glad things ended up working out for you! We still need to figure out the logistics of the rehearsal dinner and I have no idea what we are going to do yet. I am thinking low key BBQ maybe!

 
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dddd89
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dddd89 (message)  491 posts, Helper bee

Did you get your money back from the original location (I hope)?

 
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Mrs. Pug
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

oh man that’s a lot to deal with right before the wedding! i’m glad everything turned out okay, but what a save by MIL! also, love the pug wrinkles.

 
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Mrs. Buttons
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Mrs. Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@dddd89: Thankfully, they hadn’t put down a deposit at the closed restaurant….so the big guy upstairs was REALLY looking out for us on this…

 
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jackie-o
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jackie-o (message)  2,389 posts, Buzzing bee

Oh Buttons Oh Buttons Oh Buttons - - this would have totally put me into ‘nutso’ mode. I am so happy to learn of the outcome. Don’t think you care but do you happen to know anything about the other restaurant?

 
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Mrs. Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

That is just NUTS. So glad you were able to work that one out!!

 
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JenBabe
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JenBabe (message)  316 posts, Helper bee

Yikes! Some people just blow my mind, what kind of business would do that to someone? I’m so glad it worked out.

 
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JenBabe
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JenBabe (message)  316 posts, Helper bee

Awww… that was my 100th comment, now I’m a blushing bee. I cant wait to work my way up to a bee keeper.

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,329 posts, Bee Keeper

I would’ve been crazy upset, THANK GOODNESS it was resolved!

 
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eileen marie
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eileen marie (message)  1,662 posts, Bumble bee

You go! Grace under pressure -I woulda flipped the “f” out!

 
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Mrs. Hamster (message)  4,046 posts, Honey bee

Good save - phew!

 
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fromcharleston (message)  651 posts, Busy bee

WOW. That’s INSANE! Well done you for keeping your calm! And well done MIL Buttons for thinking of such a great solution.

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

Yikes! Good think your MIL was able to find a replacement! Luckily, our rehearsal dinner is in our in-law’s backyard. It should still be in business by our wedding. :)

 
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Mrs. Buttons
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Mrs. Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

@jackie-o: Funny you ask - I have been trying to figure it out myself! However, the restaurant’s website is still up, and I can’t seem to figure out what the heck happened!

 
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emma5w
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emma5w (message)  547 posts, Busy bee

What?! Well done, you, for keeping your sanity. I probably would’ve bridezilla’d out.

 
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dddd89
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dddd89 (message)  491 posts, Helper bee

Oh wow! How bizarre this was. Glad to hear it ended happily!

 
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Mrs. Cola (message)  2,870 posts, Sugar bee

So glad you were able to overcome this! And I completely agree, it’s impossible to have a wedding without something going awry!

 
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Mrs. Buttons, Clearwater, FL Age and Occupation: 24, "Working on it" Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Financial Services Engagement Date: June 13, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Carlouel Yacht Club About Me: I'm a self proclaimed perfectionist and a professional nomad (seriously, I've lived in TX, WI, MI, FL, NC, and now VA!). I love wine, cooking, curling up with a good book (nerd alert!), spoiling the furbaby, and of course, the wonderful Mr. Buttons! We are planning a lighthearted and whimsical wedding (with a good deal of DIY projects) in Clearwater, Florida, but from a distance of 800 miles away! We are looking forward to sharing our day with our family and friends, and most importantly, starting our lives together as husband and wife!

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