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I know many brides aren’t fans of “non-registry” gifts. After spending hours adding and editing multiple registries and picking out exactly what you want, it can be hard to add something that may not fit your style into the mix. I’ve always gotten gifts from the registry, with the exception of additional gifts… I like to add something fun in addition to the registry item. For example, a cousin registered for popcorn bowls, so I also included some movie items like a “Father of the Bride” DVD, popcorn, and movie passes for a date night.

Our house isn’t huge, so I was hoping that most people would follow the registry since we spent so much time choosing everything. We don’t have a lot of space, so we had to be really picky about what we added.

Well, I was totally surprised when some of my favorite gifts we received didn’t come from our registry!

I looked at multiple stores to find a nice trifle bowl, and although I wasn’t super in love with the one we registered for, I added it because it was the nicest one we found and Mr. Starfish loves trifle, or as he calls it “goop”.

One guest at the N.J. shower gave us a trifle bowl filled with fun shore-themed oven mitts and towels, and a little blue book with a new summer trifle recipe.

Mr. Starfish’s friend and her mom gave us two huge buckets filled with baking supplies. They gave us everything from the pans, spatulas, cooling racks, mixing bowls, cake carriers, mixes and everything in between. I love to bake and can’t wait to use all these fun items!

Starfish Aunt and her daughters gave us a grill and all the accessories we’ll need to go with it, including fun summer plates and glasses, placemats, BBQ sauces, and grill accessories. We are having them over soon for a cookout as a big thank you!

BIL Starfish even sent a surprise gift to the Boston Shower; I’m sure Sister Starfish picked it out, though! He gave us tea cup cupcake holders, which were so adorable and totally fit our theme. Plus, everyone who knows me knows how much I love cupcakes and tea, so it was perfect! He also gave us a nautical plate set. I’m in love with them. They remind me of our wedding theme. It’s a set of four, which is the perfect amount for dinners with Sister and BIL Starfish!

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I always felt the need to purchase items from the registry, but I realized if you know the couple and what they like, you might make their day by getting them something that is “so them” that’s not on the registry. All these fun gifts have me thinking outside the box for future shower gifts!

Do you normally purchase gifts from the couples’ registry? Did you receive any fun non-registry items at your shower?