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Miss Handbag, Smyrna, DE/Jamaica Age and Occupation: 25, Administration Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Sales Engagement Date: Christmas Night 2008 Wedding Date: March 2011 Venue: Rosehall Resort, Montego Bay, Jamaica About Me: I am a Type A, emotional Italian fireball, who on a weekly basis must be brought back to reality by my level headed, calm, cool and collected fiance. We are planning an intimate, all white with hints of black, vintage inspired wedding on the old sugar aqueducts of Jamaica, with 30 of our closest friends and family flying in to witness the occasion. We are not traditional by any means and will be doing things very differently. :)
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Doing Things Differently

August 9th, 2010 @ 6:20 pm by Miss Handbag

Mr. Handy and I aren’t too big into dancing. I am a little too conservative to be droppin’ it like it’s hot, and he wouldn’t know what rhythm was if it knocked him over. During our many years of relationship bliss, I can honestly tell you that we have never danced together, well, except for the occasional twirl in our living room. I can’t imagine my friends dancing to Flo Rida with my elder family watching. I am not sure if most people dance the way we do up here, but shall I say, its a little on the “oh my goodness—did she really just do that” side. It’s somewhat provocative and not really appropriate for a wedding. Most people tell me after a few drinks you won’t even care about the way anyone is dancing. But then my reply is, “We don’t drink either.” Boring, aren’t we?

With that said, we aren’t having a reception. Well we are, but it is more like just a dinner. After the ceremony on the aqueduct, we are heading over to…

(Imagine a big square of long tables, not round ones scattered everywhere.)

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It overlooks an amazing view of the golf course, the breathtaking Caribbean to your left, and the lush mountains of Jamaica on your right. The food is mouthwatering, and do you want to know the best part? Its included in the all-inclusive package! The only cost that comes out of our pocket is the rental of the room and any upcharges on the food. Since it is all inclusive, they do have about five entrees that are a $20 upcharge that will get billed to the room. We will be paying that upcharge should anyone feel the need to dig into a juicy steak and lobster dinner. I wouldn’t blame them, it is scrumptious! Oh and one more thing: since it is a part of the restaurant, they decorate it with whatever I flowers I want. I just tell my wedding planner what color flowers, which ones, and whatever decorations (in moderation), and they will provide. I highly doubt they will have amazing vintage pieces on hand, so I might end up purchasing a few items, but with the renting of the room and the fee for upcharging, we are still saving so much money! Sweet!

After the ceremony and dinner, we are keeping the option open to go the club/bar on the resort, and of course it’s all inclusive! The music they play of course is Jamaican (yea, mon!), the dance floor is already there, and I highly doubt any grandparents or elder family will even consider going in there. So if when my friends decide to do the booty shake, our elders won’t see it and have a stroke. Can you tell I am slightly nervous about the dancing part?

Do you think I am crazy yet? :)

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18 Responses to “Doing Things Differently”

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quirkyparsnip
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quirkyparsnip (message)  385 posts, Helper bee

Woohoo! I love shaking up the traditional wedding plan. I am doing something similar yet different than this.

 
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quirkyparsnip
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quirkyparsnip (message)  385 posts, Helper bee

I love when weddings don’t follow the “plan”. This sounds awesome. I plan on something similar, but different for my wedding.

 
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quirkyparsnip
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quirkyparsnip (message)  385 posts, Helper bee

Oops, my first post didn’t show up, didn’t mean to double post.

 
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nina

right on sister friend! I am doing the same thing!!! we’re doing an upscale-nyc wedding - all about the food and wine, although my fiance & i dont even drink much! i think weddnigs should really reflect who you are and what you want - and if i dont want people trying to get down, why provide them w/ that opportunity??

 
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jlp2w71611 (message)  298 posts, Helper bee

Sounds like a great plan!

 
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Miss Puppy Love
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Miss Puppy Love (message)  257 posts, Helper bee

No, not at all! Kjpugs did the same thing for her “reception” and it turned out great! {her blog is misspug.blogspot.com}

 
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MissMargie
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MissMargie (message)  767 posts, Busy bee

Definitely not crazy! Everyone has different plans for their receptions and it’s your and your fiance’s day so whatever you want should be the way it goes!

 
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marieta (message)  339 posts, Helper bee

I think that sounds wonderful! I’m still trying to come up with NOT-dancing alternatives and I keep getting shot down that they apparently sound lame. But it’s not to a point where it has to be decided yet, so I’ve still got time.

 
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SandraMarie_1986
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SandraMarie_1986 (message)  1,363 posts, Bumble bee

I think it will turn out fabulous. The reception area is breathtaking and honestly, I know how you feel about the dancing part. I honestly can’t dance at all. I’m rhythmless but my fiancee is a dancing machine so my predicament is a lot different. He wants to dance the night away and I’m terrified to get on the dance floor and embarrass myself so I have some dancing lesson to take care of. But your reception will be classy and beautifully romantic. :)

 
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Miss Starry Night
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Miss Starry Night (message)  422 posts, Helper bee

I personally LOVE dancing, so we’ll be doing lots of it (and no, neither of us are good at it).

That said, I’ve been to a couple weddings that were just a dinner and wine and they were so much fun. Lots of good conversation and celebration.

 
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Tessa

I feel your pain about the dancing and not wanting to shock/offend older guests/parents :/ except it’s kind of me i’m worried about in this case :P

I really really love to dance, but the kind of dancing I like to do is club dancing…I kinda get down and dirty :P Even the tamer side of my dancing would be shocking to my parents! And my man doesn’t particularly like to dance (except when I’m getting down and dirty with him :P) Other than that I love ballroom dancing, but most people can’t ballroom dance :P Soooo…we will be having a nice dinner or cocktail party instead :) a much better option for us!

 
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Tessa

Oh, and I forgot to say that I don’t drink either! Neither do my parents! So yeah…no dancing :P

 
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Miss Argyle
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Miss Argyle (message)  2,516 posts, Sugar bee

Definitely not crazy! I think your wedding should be a reflection of who you are - that’s the most important part.

 
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LoriLori
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LoriLori (message)  727 posts, Busy bee

I. love. it!!!! Really!!! I think it’s going to be perfect!

 
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Miss Sand Dollar
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Miss Sand Dollar (message)  1,305 posts, Bumble bee

I really love this idea. Mellow, low-key, and focuses more on the couple than on the “party”. It will definitely be memorable!

 
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Laura

I’m not really in to dancing either… at our reception early this summer we ended up playing Rock Band (the video game), board games, and just enjoyed chatting. It was awesome for us!

 
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moderndaisy
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moderndaisy (message)  6,703 posts, Bee Keeper

We were totally into dancing, but my parents have been to a non-dancing dinner reception and said it was nice. As much as I love dancing, there is a lot of pressure as the bride to get up and dance the whole night which i could have done without.

 
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Soon2bBB
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Soon2bBB (message)  115 posts, Blushing bee

I hear ya on that one! Great idea.

My family is a little crazy and my BF’s family is super conservative, non-drinkers, his dad is even a pastor. SO… I don’t really want any “freaking” going on at my wedding, no thanks!

 

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Miss Handbag, Smyrna, DE/Jamaica Age and Occupation: 25, Administration Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Sales Engagement Date: Christmas Night 2008 Wedding Date: March 2011 Venue: Rosehall Resort, Montego Bay, Jamaica About Me: I am a Type A, emotional Italian fireball, who on a weekly basis must be brought back to reality by my level headed, calm, cool and collected fiance. We are planning an intimate, all white with hints of black, vintage inspired wedding on the old sugar aqueducts of Jamaica, with 30 of our closest friends and family flying in to witness the occasion. We are not traditional by any means and will be doing things very differently. :)

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