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Mrs. Swan, New York City Age and Occupation: 31, Legislative Representative Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Finance Guy Engagement Date: August 9, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: Battery Gardens About Me: I am an un-crafty but resourceful, Caribbean-born but New York-raised woman who's been known to analyze "Dancing with the Stars" and “So You Think You Can Dance”, buy stinky cheese, and use way too many parentheses. I keep lists for fun, am constantly daydreaming of my next international travel adventure (four continents down, three to go), debating sports (let’s Got Mets/Giants!) and dancing around my apartment to stay sane. I am excited to share our wedding planning journey as I hope to plan a streamlined, personal, and fun wedding with the greatest life partner I could ever imagine, Mr. Swan.
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It’s So Hard…

August 20th, 2010 @ 8:17 am by Mrs. Swan

to say Goodbye…

One of my favorite songs that say goodbye. This was the first CD that I ever bought, by the way!! If you’re not familiar with Boyz II Men, you’re missing out on some great late ’80s/early ’90s R&B.

I can’t believe that I am writing this, but this will in fact be my last Weddingbee post ever. I remember way back when when I started to read WB: Mrs. Penguin was still engaged; there were barely any discussion boards; and even Mr. Bee would occasionally write a post. That was way back in the days of late 2007 (gulp!) months before I got engaged.

When I started to write a blog and even when I got accepted to Weddingbee, I didn’t know how much it would change my life. I’ve met a great group of interesting and fun women from all over the country (and the world). I’ve discovered a new hobby and form of self-expression through blogging. I’ve learned a lot about social media. I’ve also gotten to interact with an encouraging, creative and resourceful community that are the readers of Weddingbee!

Now that I have been a married lady for a year and almost two weeks, I can say that marriage is fun, sometimes hard and rewarding. It’s been a crazy year for me and Mr. Swan: getting new jobs, leaving old ones, and going through various types of personal change. That being said, it’s all been good times, and we’re learning to be better partners to each other every day.

The biggest highlights of this year:

Cooking my first holiday dinner (Christmas) all by myself.

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A few trips

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NOLA

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Bali

And just hanging out…

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Governor’s Island in NYC. Mr. Swan took the picture, so I guess he’s in this one too! :)

I have not stopped blogging though. I have a blog about food and travel (two of my most favorite things). It’s called Try Anything Once. The cool title is courtesy of Mrs. Lamb; and if you like the blog design, it’s all Mrs. Poodle. I’d love for you to join me over there, if you don’t mind hearing about what I eat and where, my travel adventures plus a little personal stuff thrown in. By the way, those of you who are thinking about or planning a honeymoon or trip to Bali, I’m currently blogging about it there.

So this is it. I wish only good things for all of the brides and blogging bees out there old and new.

XX,

Mrs. Swan

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26 Responses to “It’s So Hard…”

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Ella1978
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Ella1978 (message)  2,027 posts, Buzzing bee

One of my favorite songs Mrs Swan.

Lots of luck to you and your husband. You only have the rest of your lives to live!!! Enjoy every minute of it. And just because you aren’t blogging doesn’t mean you can’t still check in :)

Best Wishes.

 
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candicemcc
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candicemcc (message)  509 posts, Busy bee

Awww, Mrs. Swan. Date twin, lovely blogger. I wish y’all well. And like Ella said, we won’t hold it against you if you want to pop in once in awhile.

(And do you think that there really are people out there who don’t know Boyz II Men?!)

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

Love that song! Thank you so much Mrs. Swan for sharing your wedding planning journey with us!

 
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hrev2010
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hrev2010 (message)  416 posts, Helper bee

Travel and food my true loves besides my hubs. I will definately check it out!

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh geez, it’s too early to be crying but here I am…So sad to see you leave, please don’t be a stranger!!

 
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Miss Hippo (message)  1,008 posts, Bumble bee

Mrs. Swan! You are one of the reasons I applied to WB! Sad to see you go, but excited to see what’s happens with you next! Thanks for sharing so much with us!

 
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Mrs. Pug
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Mrs. Pug (message)  3,753 posts, Honey bee

oh swan, i think you’re the best. thank you so much for blogging here and always being honest. happy anniversary!

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  2,484 posts, Buzzing bee

We love you hear Mrs. Swan and I’m not going to say goodbye because I will check out your blog and become a follower!! Ok Im not a stalker! I do love that Boys II Men song and many of their songs! I had MoTown Philly on my play list for the DJ but some how it never got played..boo! Congrats on your first holiday dinner…thats awesome I could never do that! I mean Im sure I could…but! LOL! Cant wait to check it out…and I love all these travel photos of you both! So romantic! We will miss you here…

 
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MsJeep23
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MsJeep23 (message)  1,375 posts, Bumble bee

Aw, LOVE Boyz II Men! All the best!

 
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cabanagrl9
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cabanagrl9 (message)  466 posts, Helper bee

Farewell Mrs Swan! You were definitely one of my favorite bloggers and I am STILL determined to have arms like yours before my wedding!

Good Luck!!!

 
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Mrs. Lovebird (message)  1,002 posts, Bumble bee

I’ll be missing you Swan!

 
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Miss Stripes (message)  1,063 posts, Bumble bee

NOOOO! Please don’t go Mrs. Swan! :) Okay- I’ll just keep stalking you on your personal blog….

Loved your wedding. Loved your posts. And oh how I LOVED Boyz II Men…..

 
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nina

you were one of my faves!! always! yay nyc!

 
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Mrs. Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Bee Keeper

Swan, you are amazing, and I’m sad to see you go!

 
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kayakgirl73
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kayakgirl73 (message)  2,157 posts, Buzzing bee

WE’ll miss you. I like Boyz to Men’s stuff.

 
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Kate

So sad to see you go! Thank you for all your posts, your awesome tips, and for all your contributions to weddingbee and all us women out here! :-)

 
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thistleandclovers
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thistleandclovers (message)  212 posts, Helper bee

I am going to follow your personal blog for sure- Bali is on the top of our to-go list.

I have enjoyed reading all about your wedding adventures :-) Thank you for all of your great advice and contributions

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

Swan, I am very sad to see you go! You will be missed!

 
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Miss Cheetah (message)  1,188 posts, Bumble bee

Swan! I loved reading your posts, we will miss you!

 
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misschristinec@hotmail.com (message)  163 posts, Blushing bee

the blog is lovely! Good Luck.. I’ll be a follower! :)

 
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Mrs. Swan, New York City Age and Occupation: 31, Legislative Representative Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Finance Guy Engagement Date: August 9, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: Battery Gardens About Me: I am an un-crafty but resourceful, Caribbean-born but New York-raised woman who's been known to analyze "Dancing with the Stars" and “So You Think You Can Dance”, buy stinky cheese, and use way too many parentheses. I keep lists for fun, am constantly daydreaming of my next international travel adventure (four continents down, three to go), debating sports (let’s Got Mets/Giants!) and dancing around my apartment to stay sane. I am excited to share our wedding planning journey as I hope to plan a streamlined, personal, and fun wedding with the greatest life partner I could ever imagine, Mr. Swan.

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