Weddingbee Blog

I recently enjoyed my second bridal shower—this time in Chicago with Mr. Seashell’s side of the family! It was a perfect, mild August afternoon, wonderfully suited for a garden party. Mama Seashell flew in from Providence, and Bridesmaid Allie made the trek from Atlanta. Bridesmaid Ashley also attended because she lives in Chicago. And of course, I was also surrounded by Mr. Seashell’s loved ones—friends and family who have been exceptionally welcoming to me for which I could not be more grateful.

The shower was hosted by wonderful friends of Mr. Seashell’s family. Cousins and Aunts brought delicious dishes, created beautiful centerpieces, and contributed in countless ways to make the day memorable.

{Mr. Seashell’s Aunt made the centerpieces: boxes featuring our engagement photos with African Violet plants inside}

{With Bridesmaids Ashley and Allie}

Presents!

{I’ll explain the Christmas tree later}

{Mama Seashell reads my “advice cards”}

{A platter Mama Seashell brought me from Greece!}

The Christmas tree was a gift from Mr. Seashell’s godmother. She had been collecting ornaments yearly since Mr. Seashell was born with the intention of giving him the tree when he got married. This way, he and his wife would have a collection of ornaments for their first Christmas tree!

And that was my Chicago bridal shower. It was a yet again more than a girl could ask for. And although it was absolutely wonderful, it is hard not to mention that it was tinged with sadness. It was the first event where Mr. Seashell’s mom was not present. We are all slowly healing, and yet the reality of the loss of Justine is still very powerful. We were able to celebrate, we will continue to celebrate, but we will also remember.