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Mrs. Glasses, Tokyo/Los Angeles, CA Age and Occupation: 24, English teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, English teacher Engagement Date: September 2008 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: Parents' backyard About Me: I’m an expat living in Tokyo. I’ve been in Japan for almost three years now, where I met my fantastic English fiance. It’s time to leave Japan, so we are planning a fun, intimate, backyard ceremony back home in the suburbs of L.A. in October. Our wedding will be a mix of my love for food, beer, my Japanese culture, and Mr. G’s Englishness. We are on a tiny budget and DIYing almost everything!
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So today begins a big countdown. We are moving back to America in 30 days! It’s all very exciting, nerve-wracking, worrying, tantalizing, happy, sad, etc. We are totally excited to move to America (well, at least I am—I hope Mr. G is!) but very sad to be leaving the place we’ve called home for the past three years. We grew to be very comfortable here; this is where we make our living, where we set up our first place together…it’ll be sad to leave and exciting to go. Of course, we’re also very nervous about finding new jobs in America. A lot of my friends have had a hard time finding jobs after being let go or graduating from grad school—a lot of my very capable and hard-working friends! So it is rather worrying.

Enough about that, though. Since we’ve only got 30 days left, we are going to be doing some really kick-ass things. All the things we’ve been wanting to do in Tokyo. I mean, sounds kick ass, right? I’m going to chronicle those things here! I promise to keep up with the original reason I started blogging: to showcase my ex-pat adventures.

Mr. G and I have date nights once a month. This usually involves dinner and drinks—sometimes many, many drinks! Last night’s date night was deep-fried things—deep-fried things on sticks! All you can eat, to boot! I’ve always wanted to try kushiage, which is deep-frying skewered chicken at your table. We took it one step further and found a place where you can deep-fry tons of things on sticks. I’m talking cheese, bread, mushrooms, various types of meat, potatoes, vegetables…it was a buffet, and it was delicious. Enough talking—here are some pictures!

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We were pretty bad at deep-frying and knowing when things were done. The process went: dip stuff in milky, creamy-looking substance, cover it in panko (Japanese bread crumbs), throw it in the mini-deep-fryer at the table. We over-fried, under-fried, backward-fried a lot of them.

Not ONLY was this an all-you-can-eat deal, but we threw in the all-you-can-drink deal for $10 more. We ate so many fried things and I drank so many drinks, I was starting to feel sick. The waitress came by to tell us our time had expired after 90 minutes, and I still had more than half my beer left, so I CHUGGED the thing and then RAN to the bathroom in an emergency to…well…throw everything up.

So our romantic, fry-everything-on-a-stick date ended on a not-so-romantic note. Drinking and eating until I explode like a guppy is just one hazard of dating me; Mr. G likes to say I’m the one that’s caused his prematurely graying hair.

Do you and your SO go on date nights?

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15 Responses to “Shutting Up About Weddings for a Second”

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TheFutureMcBride
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TheFutureMcBride (message)  4,461 posts, Honey bee

I’m totally stealing your date nights which happen once a month. McHusband and I tend to get into a grove of boringness, so it’d be good to dress and and do something special. P.S. I don’t mean our lives together are boring, but we get into schedules easily especially when he was working an hour away and I 45 minutes away from home.

 
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jmkm

I traveled Japan last summer, with my brother who was a former AJET. On our last night in Japan, in Osaka, a client of mine, who is Japanese, but lives in the states, who happened to be in Japan at the same time I was (Run on sentence much?) took us to KushiNobo (sp?). There, they fried all the stuff for you, and it was kind of a surprise what they would serve you next. It was the absolute best meal I had in Japan (next to Kobe beef) during my stay. Your post just made my mouth water! Yum!

 
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Swiss Miss to Bee
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Swiss Miss to Bee (message)  1,004 posts, Bumble bee

lol, too funny. I think I have a stomach ache now…

 
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Juliana

You’re TOO CUTE! I miss Tokyo. Used to live there too. Goodluck with your move with Mr. G!

 
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Miss Glasses (message)  2,741 posts, Sugar bee

@TheFutureMcBride: It is definitely great to really get out once a month. It’s exciting to get dressed up, sometimes Mr. G even “picks me up” and we flirt with each other ;) Try it and tell us about it!

@jmkm: Surprise fried things? Sounds delicious!

@Juliana: Thank you!

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,177 posts, Bee Keeper

We try to do date nights when we can, they have become more spaced out due to Mr. E’s class and work schedule. We need to plan one soon!

 
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dddd89 (message)  491 posts, Helper bee

That place looks crazy! Did you smell like grease afterward? My FI is a chef so he only gets Mondays off. We try to go out to eat or cook dinner at home and watch a movie on Mondays.

 
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emma5w (message)  547 posts, Busy bee

We try to do this as often as we can, which ends up being once every other week or so. We’ve also had a few self-proclaimed “wedding-free” nights, where we talk about anything BUT the wedding. It’s quite liberating, actually!

 
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LittlestBirds (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

I think that eating and drinking until you vomit (or, explode like a guppy) is the BEST kind of date. Deep frying everything yourself just sounds like heaven in a bucket. A bucket filled with hot grease. I want to go to there.

 
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Miss Stripes (message)  1,063 posts, Bumble bee

Mmmmm. You make me miss Japan Glasses! And you make me hungry for fried food! And I can’t wait to read more about your adventures before you return to the states (and LA! yay LA!)

 
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yjakel

So jealous!! Date night with all you can drink for 90 minutes. Dream.

Before you leave eat all the Family Mart Onigiri you can get your hands on….mmmm….”she chicken”……

 
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Miss Locket (message)  2,837 posts, Sugar bee

We do date nights too! They are typically lamo, like dinner and a movie or something of the sort.

 
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Miss Zebra (message)  1,044 posts, Bumble bee

We do date nights too but its usually on the couch with a redbox DVD. :)

 
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MissMargie
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MissMargie (message)  767 posts, Busy bee

ahhh I want to go to Tokyo so badly! Sounds like a great date night, minus the puking :)

 
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Tiger and Pearl
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Tiger and Pearl (message)  70 posts, Worker bee

はじめまして めがみ さん!Being a kasnsai girl, I totally adore kushiage and love reading about your adventures all over Japan. My husband and I were just in Japan visiting both our families, and have thought about moving back in a couple of years. I would love to know what you think about living in Tokyo! がんばって on your wedding planning - it sounds lovely and I can’t wait to read more in the future!

 

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Mrs. Glasses, Tokyo/Los Angeles, CA Age and Occupation: 24, English teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, English teacher Engagement Date: September 2008 Wedding Date: October 2010 Venue: Parents' backyard About Me: I’m an expat living in Tokyo. I’ve been in Japan for almost three years now, where I met my fantastic English fiance. It’s time to leave Japan, so we are planning a fun, intimate, backyard ceremony back home in the suburbs of L.A. in October. Our wedding will be a mix of my love for food, beer, my Japanese culture, and Mr. G’s Englishness. We are on a tiny budget and DIYing almost everything!

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