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Mrs. Moonbeam, Los Angeles/San Antonio Age and Occupation: 26, Intern Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Studio Analyst, aspiring Screenwriter Engagement Date: May 20, 2009 Wedding Date: November 2009 Venue: Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church (LaCoste, TX) and Mary Gray Events Center (Castroville, TX) About Me: I was born and raised in Texas, but after college I moved to Seattle for a couple of years and loved it. Then I followed my beau out here to LA and we're getting settled in. I've been making things since I can remember. I was raised by crafters. I love to sew, draw, paint, build, cook, bake (anything with a tangible end result is fair game). In that same spirit, I've been hosting since I was old enough to cook and set a fancy table. I kind of take after my grandmother, who believes that your morning OJ always tastes better out of the good crystal.
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Hello there hive! I’m finally going to start my recaps. For those of you who don’t remember me, I married Mr. Moonbeam (for the second time) in November of 2009 in our large, Texas, family-oriented ceremony. We were married (the first time) in July of 2009 in a small civil ceremony in Malibu (for oh-so-romantic health insurance reasons). Both were great days for the two of us, but the stresses of our big ceremony have definitely contributed to my recap hiatus.

Confession: I really dislike our pro pics from our November ceremony. I will be forever grateful to our shutterbug relatives (Aunt Annie and Uncle Chris) who took some of my favorite pictures from our big day.

Full Disclosure: I found our photographers off of Craigslist, and we paid about $600 for their services. I wasn’t expecting blow-me-away amazingness, but I was expecting competence.

(I found our beach wedding photographer on Craigslist as well and she was awesome.) Our contract guarantees something like 30 images an hour, but what I would really like are 30 images from our hour long ceremony that are properly colored/exposed without a line through the center of every image. We hired our photographers, a young husband and wife team that is new to the biz, because we liked the images we saw, they seemed nice, and we thought it’d be great to have two shooters. What we ended up with was a photographer and a babysitter. They brought their infant to the wedding. I didn’t know this until said infant made an appearance at our reception. Ask anyone: I love children, but if they had hired a babysitter, we would have had two people shooting our ceremony and maybe one of those people would have been able to take clear pictures. I know they have two cameras, because he mentioned the gear used at our wedding on his Facebook page. And since there was a red line through every image of our ceremony, I wonder if something might be wrong with that camera, and maybe the other camera would have been just fine. I really hated coming to this realization about our photographers upon receipt of our disc of images because I quite liked them in person at the wedding, but in truth, I don’t think they’re ready to be charging for photography services.

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Taken by John and Whitney Canales Photography

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It’s not a crazy zoom in trick y’all, I promise. This was the first thing I saw in every ceremony picture.

Yes, it was late in the afternoon, with strong directional sunlight, but Mr. Moonbeam’s Uncle Chris snapped this from his seat, so I would expect a professional photographer to be able to shoot competently in the same conditions.

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Taken by Uncle Chris. I didn’t do any editing, it’s just a clear shot.

After some back and forth with the photographers, I convinced them to send me everything in an unedited format, because they could tell the color was off and just sent me a bunch of black and whites. And though I like some of the editing that I’ve been able to do to the originals, the colors are still off and they’re still odd. And truthfully, seeing their unedited images upset me a bit more, because it became so obvious that they’re playing around with and learning how to use their settings. They have not mastered them, by any means, and auto settings would have been more competent in most cases.

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A picture from Aunt Annie (thanks again) using the auto settings on my entry level DSLR. (On a side note, isn’t the church gorgeous?!)

Since our wedding some great things have happened, and I can partially blame the lack of writing on that. I got a job (being unemployed certainly gave me more time to write, craft and bake a lot of bread, but it was definitely leaving a void). We’ve had six different visits from out-of-towners this summer, and some even stayed with us. We’ve moved to a new apartment. And I’ve been out of the country for almost a month this year (2 of those weeks were our honeymoon, recently recapped). But in truth, I haven’t been writing because I haven’t felt like sharing. It’s been almost a year since the big wedding and I haven’t even sent out pictures to most of my family or made a wedding album, because it’s not fun to show off pictures you’re not in love (or even like) with.

So, to any of you budget brides out there, I wish you the best of luck in finding an affordable photographer (like I did for one of our weddings), but I also urge you to spend as much as you can on your photos. Also, it’s important to know your area. I think I got a great deal on a Craigslist photographer in Los Angeles, because there is an over-saturation of talented, creative types out here. In San Antonio, not everyone on Craigslist is “straight outta art school awesomeness.” I’m not saying you can’t get burned in a big city, but I think the odds are different. I know it’s an overheard phrase in all of this business, but they really are the only thing you take with you from that day, and if you’re a part of Weddingbee, you’ve probably seen a lot of beautiful things that you will constantly compare your big day to, and having images you love will make your memories that much better.

Rant complete. Next up, a couple of last minute projects.

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SanDiegoAli
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SanDiegoAli (message)  3,076 posts, Sugar bee

I’m sorry you weren’t happy with your photos. :( Photography was HUGELY important to us and we budgeted accordingly for it.

 
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missbiscuit
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missbiscuit (message)  1,050 posts, Bumble bee

Our photographer was our biggest splurge.. almost $4k!.. but I feel OK with it because I’m confident that our pictures will be creative and stunning and totally worth it.

 
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LittlestBirds
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LittlestBirds (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

You are amazing for taking this so well. I’d be a wreck if I didn’t have any clear, well-lit, normally-colored photos to remind me of our wedding. You have a very level-headed way of dealing with the disappointment. I’m so sorry your results were so poor, but your advice to future brides is good. Welcome back, and I look forward to your recaps, even if you are limited in what photos you’d like to show - you can always make up for it with description!

 
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prettylittlemess
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prettylittlemess (message)  68 posts, Worker bee

As a fellow Texan bride, I googled your photographer to take a closer look. How do you feel about them using images from your wedding in their portfolio? The editing on those shots is misleading based on your experience with their final product. I just hope you wrote a review because their pricing is kind of outrageous given the quality you received. Other brides need a heads up!

 
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sironel
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sironel (message)  404 posts, Helper bee

Thank you for this post, it has made me more confident in my cousin (a hobbyist photographer but one I KNOW is competent and amazing) doing the photos instead of paying someone not as good

 
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Mrs. Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Awww, I’m sorry to hear about your lack of love for your photos. Unprofessionalism like that angers me so much!

On a happier note, look forward to hearing more about your day while crafting *our* recaps! :-)

 
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Mrs. Dolphin
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Mrs. Dolphin (message)  503 posts, Busy bee

The photographer was the vendor I searched for the longest (1 year of searching). I couldn’t seem to find a photographer I liked in our price range… then BAM I found them (Starks Photography), and husband and wife team that are ACTUALLY a husband and wife team. We paid right around $1200 (hello stimulus plan incentive they had).

I’m so incredibly sorry for how your photography turned out. I had a friend pay that much for a photographer and the photos turned out fine… Your photographer was most certainly not experienced at all, I would ask for your money back. Seriously, write them a letter and ask for your money back. You paid for two photographers and you got one, and those pictures are sooo grainy, what were they taking pictures with? A point and shoot? Getting your money back won’t change how your pictures turned out but it will give you a little something back. Maybe an ‘After’ Session is in your future?

 
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dance
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dance (message)  1,607 posts, Bumble bee

Photography is SO important to us….in fact, we will be spending over $5000 on ours (though that includes 2 photographers, 10 hours of coverage, a professional album for us, engagement photos, all the hi-res images on a DVD, plus a photobooth for our reception). Yes, I know that is a LOT of money, but if there is one thing we have to remember our day by, it will be the pictures. So we want them to be damn good! We will be minimizing in other areas of our wedding, though, to make this happen, but I am excited for our photogs!

 
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Kate

Aww, Moonbeam, I’m so happy you’re back! And I’m so sad for you about the pictures. I can totally understand your feelings, and why it would make you want to take a break from it all.

Try not to feel too bad for making the decision you did. Sometimes it is just the roll of the dice. And for $600, you should have had competence. And not a baby with the photographers. That’s still a lot of money. And those photos are indeed unacceptable.

If it helps, at all, you still look beautiful. And us weddingbee readers read weddingbee not to look at the pretty pictures, (although they are nice, of course,) but because we want to hear the stories behind the pictures - the real truth of how your day unfolded. The good, the magical, the bad, and the ugly. Those posts mean more to me than any others… because they are real. And they are about more than weddings - they are about marriage, and families, and friendships, and those dynamics merging into one day.

Hope to see you back soon. Your dress is stunning. :-)

 
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Miss Meerkat
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Miss Meerkat (message)  3,216 posts, Sugar bee

OMG I was reading your post and I wanted to cry for you. That is terrible!

Have you thought about taking them to a pro to have fixed? If you were able to get the raw format files, anyone with photoshop camera raw and little skill can probably do a lot to fix them for you.

 
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marisa

Ouch, I am really sorry. But not everyone on craigslist will burn you. If you do hire someone off of craigslist, or any photographer for that matter, make sure to ask to see a full wedding album from start to finish. Ask if they have shot in different lighting conditions. There is nothing wrong with asking questions. Also ask for references.

And the bringing the baby thing, that was a no no! I can’t believe they would have even done that!

 
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mariavvisa
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mariavvisa (message)  313 posts, Helper bee

Welcome back, Moonbeam! I’ve been looking forward to your recaps, since from the very beginning, I loved your color scheme and details. I’m sorry to hear about the photography situation and still do look forward to whatever you do get to share because it’ll still be awesome.

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,177 posts, Bee Keeper

I am so sorry Moonbeam! I know that there is no way to have a do over, but I do hope you are able to get something back and hopefully, maybe, have a day after (or year after) shoot taken with another photographer.

 
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Miss Brooch (message)  1,715 posts, Bumble bee

I really admire the way you’ve come out and put your honest opinion out there. I think anyone reading weddingbee can take something from your experience, although we’re truly sorry you had to go through it.

Bringing their child to your wedding was totally unacceptable and not being willing to refund your money is pretty lame too.

We’re happy that you can see the silver lining, share the honest truth, and move on. We can’t wait to see your images ANYWAY!

It just goes to show too how weddings truly are a community effort, as I’m sure you’re very grateful to the family and friends that got good pictures.

 
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Wedding Photography

We’re so sorry to hear about your bad experience! Your advice to future Brides is that it is so important to get a reputable photographer for you wedding.

 
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tweds (message)  448 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry this happened to you!! I’ve been a bridesmaid 4 times and 2/4 the pro-pictures were horrendous, which may have contributed just a little bit to me blowing 30% of our budget on the dude behind the lens. See if you get the digital negatives and have someone retouch, crop, adjust and fix your proofs. My cousin does this for a living and it’s amazing what can be accomplished. You can dribble out the cost for pictures you may ultimately love. Good luck and still looking forward to your recaps!! :)

 
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Mrs. Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

Thanks for the support everyone.

@prettylittlemess: The pictures do get somewhat better after the reception and they’re free to put whatever they want on their website (those went up right after our e-mail stating that we were unhappy with the results), but I do feel that if you can’t shoot an entire wedding, then you shouldn’t be charging.

@Miss Brooch: we never asked for a refund, so they didn’t refuse one.

@marisa: I did ask to see some images from different lighting conditions, and my Mom got a few references. The pictures were what I’d expect, clear, not amazing, but OK. C’est la vie.

 
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Mrs. Hot Wings
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Mrs. Hot Wings (message)  2,213 posts, Buzzing bee

Moonbeam, I’m so sorry. I can’t imagine your disappointment. You’re really going to help a lot of people with your honesty. It was other brides before me that helped me to realize the importance of photography as well. I actually hired a craigslist photographer to do our photobooth and he was a complete tool! Photos were ok, but he was a complete pain to work with. Knowing that now, I would have paid more money so I wouldn’t have to deal with him. I hope you find peace in the recap process.

 
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rbenaim
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rbenaim (message)  7 posts, Newbee

This worries me slightly. I put an ad looking for photographers in Miami and received about 25 emails full of talent. I just don’t know what’ll happen if we have the same outcome as yours. Best luck getting this resolved and straightened.

 
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Maureen

eek.. you should contact them for a refund. These are terrible- they obviously shot in raw and didn’t reduce the noise or anything and bringing an infant ?! (who does that?)

 
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Mrs. Moonbeam, Los Angeles/San Antonio Age and Occupation: 26, Intern Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Studio Analyst, aspiring Screenwriter Engagement Date: May 20, 2009 Wedding Date: November 2009 Venue: Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church (LaCoste, TX) and Mary Gray Events Center (Castroville, TX) About Me: I was born and raised in Texas, but after college I moved to Seattle for a couple of years and loved it. Then I followed my beau out here to LA and we're getting settled in. I've been making things since I can remember. I was raised by crafters. I love to sew, draw, paint, build, cook, bake (anything with a tangible end result is fair game). In that same spirit, I've been hosting since I was old enough to cook and set a fancy table. I kind of take after my grandmother, who believes that your morning OJ always tastes better out of the good crystal.

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