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Mrs. Elephant, Dallas, TX Age and Occupation: 27, Financial Operations Analyst Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, IT Student/Store Manager Engagement Date: March 29, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2011 Venue: The Tribute Golf Club About Me: I'm a Philly native creating roots deep in the heart of Texas. I might be a little obsessed capturing those Kodak moments of anything and everything (mainly on vacations). I've become more of a gamer thanks to Mr. Elephant, who I met online and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with. We are planning a wedding based on our favorite colors, blue and green, with a travel theme for 150 of our closest friends and family. Hopefully our long (2-year) engagement won't kill me!
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The Sounds of the Islands

October 20th, 2010 @ 12:56 pm by Mrs. Elephant

Last year my family and Mr. E took a trip to my dad’s home country of Trinidad and Tobago, which is a set of 2 main islands (and several smaller landforms) in the Caribbean off the coast of Venezuela. This was the first trip ever for Brother Elephant, me and of course, Mr. E.

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The Whole Elephant Family

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Arriving in T&T

We had some quality relaxation time on the beach.

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We were able to try regional drinks (Sol) and food (like Roti and Conch & Dumplings). It may look weird, but that Roti tasted so good!!! You may be able to see the awesomeness of Roti from that pic of Brother Elephant and Mr. E chowing down.

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We toured both islands learning so much about Daddy Elephant’s childhood and culture while enjoying family time together.

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While we were there, we heard a lot of steel drum music which originated in Trinidad and Tobago.

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I thought that it would be awesome to somehow incorporate the steel drums into our wedding as a nod to Daddy Elephant’s heritage. Early in the game I requested a quote to have a local group play at the cocktail hour, which ended up being a little out of our price range. So I tabled that idea for a later discussion.

As the months rolled by, I thought more and more about it, and thought that having the steel drums for the ceremony would be something that all of our guests would remember and could be a surprise to my dad (a small token of thanks for all of his monetary help for this wedding). So I reached out to Island Boogie and found out that their price was very reasonable! Here is a you tube video of some common wedding songs played on the steel pan.

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I am so excited to work this into the budget and surprise my dad on the big day… let’s hope I can keep this secret better than I do with most of Mr. E’s Christmas gifts! Last year was a major fail as I couldn’t keep the secret and gave him his gift the day after Thanksgiving.

Are you planning any music forms for your wedding that incorporate your heritage?

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Rachel

I had a good friend growing up and her family was from Trinidad and Tobago. There was also a restaurant owned by a family from there in town and the food was SO GOOD. Whew!

Glad you had a good time.

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

This is a really sweet idea, I think your dad’s going to love it!

 
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bRooklynRocks
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bRooklynRocks (message)  3,767 posts, Honey bee

Your dad’s going to love it. I hope he doesn’t know anyone who reads this blog who is going to spill to him. BTW, that roti DOES look good ;)

 
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tocarat
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tocarat (message)  324 posts, Helper bee

I love this sound, and such a great idea to surprise you dad!

 
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cafegirl
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cafegirl (message)  441 posts, Helper bee

Oh wow! I’ve wanted to go to Trinidad ever since reading The Dragon Can’t Dance in a college English class. That will be SO fun and unique to have a steel drum band at your wedding!

 
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Ms. Fox
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Ms. Fox (message)  37 posts, Newbee

My best friend married a guy from Trinidad. She flies back and forth from MN to Trinidad all the time. She is currently trying to get him back into the states. Anyways, I think Trinidad looks like an awesome place!

 
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Miss Hippo (message)  1,008 posts, Bumble bee

What a neat idea! Who would have thought there would be a steel drum band in Dallas?!

 
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Mrs. Jellyfish (message)  1,450 posts, Bumble bee

This is a great idea, I’m glad you’re doing it! We incorporated Romanian music into our reception by having a Romanian hora, which is when all the guests dance in a circle around the dancefloor. It’s so much fun and made for great photos.

 
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

@bRooklynRocks: LOL so far so good, Dad has only read one blog and that was because mom had him read it. I don’t even think he knows that it was on weddingbee :)

@Miss Hippo: I know! Crazy, right? They do a lot of events around the DFW area and beyond.

 
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aribari
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aribari (message)  350 posts, Helper bee

OMG i just got soooooooooooooo excited to see this post! I’m from/ live in Trinidad.
eeeeeeeeeeeep how exciting to see roti on here!

 
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BM Matty

I Can’t wait to hear it live

 
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BM Matty

I Can’t wait to hear the

 
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BM Matty

I can not wait to hear the music live & see Father Es’ face. He WILL LOVE IT!

 
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

@aribari: It’s funny about the roti, my dad was really worried that Mr. E wouldn’t be up for different foods, but he ate everything! After the trip my dad said he was glad that Mr. E could hang with the island food.

 
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missDNA (message)  231 posts, Helper bee

that is so neat! It also fits in with your travel theme! I’m sure your dad is going to love it, as will all of your guests!

 
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tweds (message)  448 posts, Helper bee

I’m Trini too!! Yay for this post :)

 
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sarahcisme
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sarahcisme (message)  346 posts, Helper bee

I love your black and white bathing suit in one of your pictures!

 
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feministbride
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feministbride (message)  283 posts, Helper bee

What an awesome trip!

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

What a great nod to your culture!

 
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tksjewelry
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tksjewelry (message)  9,769 posts, Bee Keeper

Trinidad and Tobago is on our list of “must sees” in the next ten years along with Sweden, Germany, and Israel. Such a beautiful country. I think that is really sweet to do for your dad.

 
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Mrs. Elephant, Dallas, TX Age and Occupation: 27, Financial Operations Analyst Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, IT Student/Store Manager Engagement Date: March 29, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2011 Venue: The Tribute Golf Club About Me: I'm a Philly native creating roots deep in the heart of Texas. I might be a little obsessed capturing those Kodak moments of anything and everything (mainly on vacations). I've become more of a gamer thanks to Mr. Elephant, who I met online and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with. We are planning a wedding based on our favorite colors, blue and green, with a travel theme for 150 of our closest friends and family. Hopefully our long (2-year) engagement won't kill me!

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