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Mrs. Jellyfish, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Air Force Pilot Engagement Date: February 21, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2010 Venue: Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery About Me: In a nutshell, I’m the most optimistic worrywart you’ll ever meet. My family emigrated from Romania to San Jose, CA when I was 8, and I've been a Nor Cal girl ever since! My fiancé is also a Bay Area native, so it’s funny that we met at UCLA, as college freshmen living on the same floor (go Bruins!). Between his career as an Air Force pilot and my path to becoming a lawyer, our relationship has been anything but typical. We currently live together in Berkeley with our puppy Stinson. In addition to spending time with the loves of my life, I enjoy crafting, attempting complicated recipes, environmental law and non-law school reading (Us Weekly, anyone?). Follow along as I plan an elegant 200-person winery wedding, graduate law school, take the Bar exam, get married and get used to the always unpredictable but never boring life of a military spouse!
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My Twin’s Wedding

November 9th, 2010 @ 10:42 am by Mrs. Jellyfish

On Saturday night, I had the honor of attending the wedding of my twin. My wedding twin, that is. As you may recall, Jenn and I met through our mutual friend and my bridesmaid, E, and we quickly bonded over having weddings at the same venue. Throughout the wedding planning process, Jenn and I relied on each other for ideas, inspiration, and advice. Although she wasn’t able to make it to my wedding, luckily I was able to make it to hers—with Mr. Jelly in tow!

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In the same courtyard where we said “I do” almost exactly 2 months before.

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Our friend E was there too…she introduced us!

So, was it weird attending another wedding at our venue, only two months after our own? Not really. Weddings are so inherently personal that even in the same venue, they have a completely different feel to them. For example, Jenn’s ceremony layout was different (she did “in the round” – in the center of the garden, whereas we did under the arch) and dinner was served “family style.” As a recent bride myself (and someone who has religiously followed Jenn’s wedding blog), I couldn’t help but notice all the beautiful details that went into her wedding:

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Her pink, brown and green wedding came together beautifully. From her seating chart to the brown and pink bridesmaids dresses to Coco’s pink tutu to the candy buffet, no detail went unnoticed.

And speaking of candy buffet…

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Do those candy jars look familiar? [Probably not, considering I haven’t done my recaps yet!] Jenn borrowed the candy jars I used for my wedding (ah the perks of having a wedding twin). It was neat to see them take on a whole new look! And check out that needlepoint art in the middle – beautiful!

But despite all these gorgeous details, what I really loved about the wedding was intangible. Yes, details are important, and we both spent lots of time obsessing about them while planning our respective weddings, but the things that really struck me on her wedding day were the things you can’t make using materials bought from Michaels…things like Jenn’s giddy smile as she was walking down the aisle (with both her parents, which I loved):

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…being able to witness part of Jenn’s heritage when they did the tea ceremony…

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…the genuine emotion in her bridesmaids’ voices as they did the readings…

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…the way D looked at Jenn all day…

…the couple’s hilarious, handwritten vows (which made me both laugh and cry)…

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The bridesmaids during the vows (BTW, how cool is it that she had her bridesmaids sitting?)

…a stolen kiss between new husband and wife.

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I could go on, but you get the idea. Those are the things that make a wedding. And maybe it took me fretting over inconsequential things for a year and half and having our own wedding to realize this, but the things that make a wedding aren’t candy buffets or monogrammed napkins or photobooths, they are love and family.

Thank you Jenn and D for inviting me to be a part of your special day. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness!

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12 Responses to “My Twin’s Wedding”

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Joanna910 (message)  65 posts, Worker bee

I would love to go to a wedding at our venue, even if we didn’t know the couple. I think its fun to see how someone else designs their wedding around the same place/space.

 
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PitBulLover (message)  8,314 posts, Bee Keeper

Thats so cool! You are totally right - its not the details that bring back the emotion, its the moments that are what makes our wedding days so special!

 
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Kate

Love this post - so beautiful, all of it.

 
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KaitlinHudson
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KaitlinHudson (message)  1,131 posts, Bumble bee

How fun! I wish I could do the same!

 
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Ms Cheetah (message)  1,188 posts, Bumble bee

I love that you had a wedding twin! What a beautiful wedding!

 
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SandraMarie_1986
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SandraMarie_1986 (message)  1,363 posts, Bumble bee

Her wedding turned out beautifully.

 
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jgoulart
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jgoulart (message)  1,069 posts, Bumble bee

What a beautiful wedding!

 
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jordynrose
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jordynrose (message)  6,351 posts, Bee Keeper

Gorgeous wedding!

 
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el0624
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el0624 (message)  205 posts, Helper bee

I love the dog in the tutu! :)

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

nice. i agree that after being a bride, you do tend to notice all the tiniest details in other weddings :P

 
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Mrs. Buttons
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Mrs. Buttons (message)  5,046 posts, Bee Keeper

How cool! :) Love the details…and I’m loving the dress YOU wore!

 
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Mrs. Jellyfish
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Mrs. Jellyfish (message)  1,450 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Buttons: Thanks Buttons! I got it at H&M!

 

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Mrs. Jellyfish, Pleasanton, CA Age and Occupation: 27, Law Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Air Force Pilot Engagement Date: February 21, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2010 Venue: Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery About Me: In a nutshell, I’m the most optimistic worrywart you’ll ever meet. My family emigrated from Romania to San Jose, CA when I was 8, and I've been a Nor Cal girl ever since! My fiancé is also a Bay Area native, so it’s funny that we met at UCLA, as college freshmen living on the same floor (go Bruins!). Between his career as an Air Force pilot and my path to becoming a lawyer, our relationship has been anything but typical. We currently live together in Berkeley with our puppy Stinson. In addition to spending time with the loves of my life, I enjoy crafting, attempting complicated recipes, environmental law and non-law school reading (Us Weekly, anyone?). Follow along as I plan an elegant 200-person winery wedding, graduate law school, take the Bar exam, get married and get used to the always unpredictable but never boring life of a military spouse!

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