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One of the first things that I’d decided about the wedding was that my bridesmaid J would be making our dessert. She’s currently in school to be a pastry chef, and while she won’t have graduated by the wedding, she’ll have a full year of school under her belt. Not that it matters; her baked goods were delish even before she started school. Right after asking her to be my bridesmaid, I asked her to be our baker, and she accepted both duties with enthusiasm.
Mr. S is not a dessert person, so he left the decision up to me. I didn’t want a traditional cake, and after falling in love with some cupcakes I found online, I realized that they’d be perfect for our reception.


Aren’t they the cutest things you’ve ever seen?
And then, this past summer, I went to a friend’s wedding where there was a kick-ass dessert buffet. And of course, after I saw it, I wanted it. SO BAD.
But I didn’t want to inconvenience J. She is my bridesmaid, after all, and I didn’t want her to spend the days before the wedding baking her ass off in addition to anything else I might ask her to do. And I didn’t want her to feel obligated to say yes if she really didn’t want to.
I finally worked up the guts to ask her. What was the worst that could happen, right? She’d say she was too busy to make a bunch of desserts, and we’d stick with the cupcakes. But of course, she agreed to it. When I asked her over email if she was 100% sure that it wasn’t too much trouble, she replied, “This is what I’m trying to do with my life! So I’m happy to have the opportunity to actually do it!”
Sounds like a deal to me! We’ll still have those gorgeous cupcakes, along with a whole slew of other baked goodies.
Let’s check out some of J’s creations so far:
Coffee cake cupcakes (drool).

Whoopie pies (yum).

Eclairs (humina humina).

All photos courtesy of Bridesmaid J.
I couldn’t be more excited about our dessert spread. And I’m so thrilled that a good friend of mine will be at the helm of the dessert extravaganza.
What kind of dessert will you have at your wedding?
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