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There is something you should know about us Sloths. We absolutely LOVE food.

NOMS!
And we wanted to make sure that our wedding food was fabulous without breaking our budget. Bartram’s Garden only has five preferred caterers, so after we decided on our venue, we started contacting caterers right away.
The first caterer never even called me back, after two voice mails and an email. I didn’t continue trying. If you’re not going to be responsive, you’ve just made our decision easier. One down, four to go.
The second caterer replied back to my first email within five minutes with a canned proposal menu that they send to everyone, saying “This is all we can do for your price.” The proposal had no hors d’oeuvres and only one entree option—basic grilled chicken with mixed veggies and rice. Blah. Two down, three to go.
The third caterer practically laughed at me over the phone when I told her our per person budget. Three down, two to go.
One of the caterers said that he could work within our budget and sent us a proposal. The menu looked okay, but neither Mr. S and I were that impressed. There weren’t a lot of selections and what they did propose wasn’t too exciting. Still, it was the only semi-appealing option we’d seen so far, and we began to worry that we’d never have the exciting and eclectic menu we’d hoped for. So we really hoped that caterer #5 would come through.
And did they ever!
The first question that the catering manager asked me was one that none of the others did: “What kind of food do you want at your wedding?”
Imagine that: asking what we want! We told him how we wanted a menu that was eclectic enough to be exciting and interesting, but not so “out there” that the grandparents would be afraid to eat. We wanted options for everyone: carnivores, pescaterians, vegetarians, vegans, people with gluten allergies, Kosher Jews, and on and on.
And the proposal they came up with was amazing. Trendy-yet-classic, and incredibly versatile. Check it out!
Welcome Beverages as Guests Arrive for Ceremony:
Stationary Hors D’oeuvres
Butlered Hors D’oeuvres
Stations Buffet
Tuscan
Grilling Station
Mediterranean
We had a tasting, the food tasted fabulous, and we signed a contract. And that was that!
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