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Mrs. Earrings, Fresno, CA/ Nelson, New Zealand Age and Occupation: 20, Student, Wannabe Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 19, Photography Student Engagement Date: February 14, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2011 Venue: Gardens of the World About Me: I'm a girl from down under who grew up in Indonesia and I'm marrying a California boy. I'm addicted to all things sweet, have never met a chocolate silk pie than can get the better of me, and have dreams of one day being a fulltime novelist. I go weak in the knees for lace, tea cups, and a beautifully crafted sentence. When I get excited about something (whether it is historical linguistics or the Beatles) I tend to go overboard in research, and planning this wedding is no different. Mr. Earrings is my high school sweetheart, my best friend, and somehow we combine all our quirks into one big happy mess.
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Cake Conundrums (And a Recipe!)

December 6th, 2010 @ 2:19 pm by Mrs. Earrings

People, I need cake advice. You know how I want to  make our wedding cake myself? Maybe you don’t, but just pretend you do for this post. Anyway, I did a trial last week, and the results were mixed.

First, the pictures:

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Cake Conundrums (And a Recipe!)  :  wedding cake new zealand Importe03 Importe03

(Both pics taken by Mr. E)

Ignore the wilted roses and my sloppily tied bow for a minute. Lets talk about the good bits for a start: The cake itself tasted amazing. We chose to use a chocolate cake recipe that my mother found in a bunch of papers when we were clearing out the garage, and it was soooo good. Rich, moist, and packed a serious chocolate punch. So there are no issues with that.

Except, can you guess what I’m not happy with? Yup, it’s the frosting. Mum and I couldn’t agree what frosting to use, and in the end we went with a simple cream cheese one, but I do. not. like. how it turned out. Way too lumpy and too yellow.

So the obvious remedy would be to change the frosting, but that is proving more difficult than I anticipated. I’m experienced in baking, but I’m really not that experienced with frostings. I love the look of buttercream, and a Google search revealed some very helpful tutorials (specifically here and here if you are interested)…but as helpful as they are, do I want to be attempting something I haven’t tried much before a couple of days before the wedding?

Another option is my grandmother. She used to be a professional cake decorator, so she would seem like the perefect solution…only she is a perfectionist, and she has got it in her head that she is “too old” to do it “right” anymore. Plus she really only works with fondant. I could live with that (I’m losing my fussiness as it gets closer to the wedding). And creations like this are very enticing:

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Mrs. Button’s Cake of Gorgeousness

Back in Granny’s day, she was all about lace details on cakes. But that still doesn’t necessarily mean she will decide she wants to frost our cake.

My mum’s idea is to just scrap the DIY cake idea and grab a small white chocolate cake from the local bakery, but that option isn’t totally ideal either. I guess none of them are, and I’m feeling totally confused and overwhelmed about what to do next.

So I want your opinions. What would you do in my situation? Here’s a poll (because I like polls) that lays out my options for you again.

What should I do?


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Thanks bunches for voting! As your “reward,” here is the recipe I promised:

Decadent Chocolate Cake

You need:

  • 300 g dark chocolate
  • 180g unsalted butter
  • 1 cup caster sugar
  • 1 T vanilla extract
  • 4 eggs, separated
  • 1/4 cup port
  • 1/2 cup cocoa powder
  • 1 cup self-raising flour
  • 1/2 tsp baking soda
  • 1 cup ground hazelnuts

1. Preheat oven to 180 degrees Celsius (350 Fahrenheit). Line a 23 cm round (I used a 20 cm one, though—about 9 inches) with a double layer of baking paper. Melt chocolate either in the microwave, or in a bowl set over a saucepan of simmering water, stirring until smooth.

2. Beat butter and sugar together with an electric mixer until light and creamy. Add yolks, one at a time, beating after each addition. Stir in melted chocolate, vanilla, and port.

3. Sift dry ingredients on top of butter mixture, add hazelnuts, and fold through until combined. Beat eggwhites until soft peaks form, and fold through cake mixture.

4. Pour into cake tin. Bake one hour, or until a skewer inserted into the cake comes out clean. Cool in tin.

It isn’t the easiest of cake recipes, as you can see, but it really is delicious and so worth it. :) Enjoy!

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52 Responses to “Cake Conundrums (And a Recipe!)”

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Mrs. Star (message)  2,057 posts, Buzzing bee

I voted for grandma because I bet she’d do something totally awesome if you could convince her, but failing that, I say go for the buttercream and just practice once or twice first and stay simple. Whatever you do, I know it’ll be beautiful!

 
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tea (message)  7,288 posts, Bee Keeper

you still have a few weeks before the wedding so there’s some time to practice with the buttercream. maybe you have friends or someone to pawn the finished cake off on so you get to practice without having to eat all the cake.

if all else fails, there’s always your mom’s suggestion.

there should be a way to whip the cream cheese frosting into a more smoother consistency. my sister’s frosting comes out super smooth. have you tried whipping it longer?

 
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froggy518 (message)  268 posts, Helper bee

If you should decide to go the DIY route after all, definitely check out this video . . . not the most exciting thing in the world, but it’s good to know (and totally do-able)!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCEV5bCJBEU
“How to ‘Crumb Coat’ a Cake”

For what it’s worth, I would try a different icing recipe - give the cream cheese frosting a fair chance! (It’s my favorite!)

 
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realeastcoaster (message)  1,245 posts, Bumble bee

I voted for the grandmother option as well - if you go that route, hope it works out for you!

And thanks for the recipe, I’ll have to try it out. I think it’s interesting that it calls for port - I’ve never seen that before! I’m not an experienced baker though, so maybe that’s why.

 
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Mrs. Trail Mix (message)  6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

I voted to get Grandma in on the action! Show her your photos and say “Granny, if you can do better than this, I’ll be happy” and see what she says…

 
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mightywombat (message)  3,311 posts, Sugar bee

I love to bake, but my cakes always looked terrible (though they tasted great). Then I watched this video, and it changed my life.

http://www.chow.com/food-news/55522/how-to-frost-a-cake-with-meg-ray/?tag=post-55522;h3-55522

 
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cb4690 (message)  101 posts, Blushing bee

Just wanted to share what I’m doing, since it’s kind of similiar…my mom is a cake decorator (thought slightly old-school, like your grandmother), and she’s doing my cake. I like the look of fondant, but hate the taste, so we’re thinking of doing the cake in buttercream (you ice it and then use paper towels and an icing knife to get the surface very smooth) and then either piping lace details onto the cake, or making up some lace details in royal icing (very hard) and letting it set, then attaching them to the cake. Pretty detailing doesn’t always have to be done with fondant; there’s more room for error with buttercream, but the taste is worth it, I think!

 
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AlejandraRamos (message)  23 posts, Newbee

I’m making my wedding cake too! I’m going with a 3-tier almond cake with raspberry filling and chocolate ganache frosting. i ordered gumpaste flowers from a website called discountsugarflowers.com that I’ll then used to decorate the cake. One thing I could suggest, if frosting isn’t your strong suit, trying going for an alternative cake. You can just do layers of cake with layers of frosting in between. You can do a bunch of delicious bundt cakes and just serve with fresh whipped cream and berries on the side. Or just practice with a simple buttercream; it’s more durable than cream cheese frosting and will be much smoother. One question: are you using an electric mixer to make the frosting? That’s the way to get it very smooth. Also, make sure all the ingredients are at room temperature before you start whipping (the cream cheese, butter, any extracts, etc.,)

Good luck!!

 
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eloping
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eloping (message)  5,073 posts, Bee Keeper

thanks for the recipe and i suggest a wilton 1 course that will teach you how to buttercream frost - its very easy. goodluck!

 
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edb (message)  415 posts, Helper bee

Buttercream frosting really isn’t that difficult, and it really doesn’t matter that much what your cake looks like.

A possible solution might be to ask your grandmother to make some fondant flowers, decor, etc. for the cake - you can put them over any imperfections, and she can obsess over them as much or as little as she would like.

 
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Miss Panther (message)  1,046 posts, Bumble bee

I voted for Grandma — HOWEVER, Mr. Panther tried making his own buttercream from scratch for the first time a couple weeks ago, and it came out amaaaazing. He is not an experienced baker at all. I don’t know about how hard it is to make it LOOK good, but making it TASTE good can’t be that hard.

 
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Jess E

It honestly just looks like your cream cheese wasn’t at room temperature. I think you should give this icing another try IF you like the taste of it. And don’t be afraid to beat the hell out of that cream cheese!

Barring that, this recipe from the Pioneer Woman is quick and easy (and almost foolproof!) I can make this icing with my eyes closed i’ve made it so many times!

http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2009/05/strawberry-shortcakecake/

good luck! Keep trying! :)

 
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kjurinjak (message)  4 posts, Wannabee

I havve been decorating cakes for years and i wanted to decorate my own but i am glad i didn’t! I had a 4 tier cake and that would have been way to much and i was way to stressed when it came down to it! BUT if it is going to be something smaller like watt u showed you should be OK. Now for my advice: after you bake the cakes, put them in the freezer, wait until they are completely frozen and frost them that way! No crumbs! That’s how all the professionals do it! Then u can ice with any icing!

 
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Ragtop1 (message)  493 posts, Helper bee

Why don’t you have your grandmother do it and “assist” her, thereby learning new skills and having a hand in your own wedding cake, as well as having the enjoyment of spending the time with your grandmother — that is something you will never forget. It is also easy to make up the cream cheese frosting and mix it with buttercream frosting — even the Wilton buttercream in a tub. The two mixed together will taste better than the buttercream and still be stiff enough to use for decorations.

But all in all, I think having your grandmother do the cake would be something you will remember forever. Just a simple fondant covered cake, with ribbon around the bottom of the layers and fresh flowers for decoration can be very very beautiful. They would need to be somewhat “arranged” a little better than your example, but I’ll bet grandma knows just how to do that!

 
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Mrs. Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

You can master frostings, for sure. Make sure the butter and/or cream cheese is at room temperature, and sift the powdered sugar before mixing it in. I used ricotta cheese, butter and sugar the other day in a frosting and it turned out really light and lovely. Good luck on whatever you choose.

 
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Jackleen

Add a can of (evil, commercial, store bought) cream cheese icing and add it to a homemade buttercream recipe. You will avoid the sickenly-sweet taste of store bought cream cheese icing, lighten the color drastically, and make the icing much more easy to spread.

You could also try mixing the cream cheese icing in a food processor instead of a traditional mixer which will make it much smoother.

Keep in mind that buttercream is just butter solids, seasoning (for me that’s vanilla, milk, and a little salt), with powdered sugar. Don’t let it intimidate you!

 
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Erin

I vote for trying the cream cheese frosting again, if for no other reason than to show that you can make frosting. Several suggestions, though:

- Use a block of cream cheese and 2 tbs butter, and make sure that they’re room temp, first, then beat til combined

- add a tsp of vanilla and a cup of powdered sugar, and beat using a stand mixer for at least five minutes

- at this point it will get super fluffy and white. if you want it to be thicker, add more powdered sugar

I promise if you try these suggestions, it will turn out much much better!

 
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Sherry

making the cake yourself won’t be so bad if you don’t think you’ll be stressed over it and will have time to do it before the wedding (cuz, you know, you’ll have a million other things to also worry about!) i would suggest using a buttercream frosting which will hold up better when left out. this is a great recipe: http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/07/project-wedding-cake-swiss-buttercream/. Just don’t be afraid to keep the mixer on and beat the crap out of the frosting to make it come together! good luck!

 
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kitzy
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kitzy (message)  4,224 posts, Honey bee

i always have a problem with frosting too…it ALWAYS melts and i have no idea why. if granny won’t do it, i would just go for a can of frosting.

 
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ktbrady
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ktbrady (message)  1,054 posts, Bumble bee

Dude, you totally HAVE to get your grandma to do it!!! How awesome and sweet (pun intended) is that?!? Play the bride card if you must, or tell her it is her gift to you, whatever, but I think that’s the BEST ideas. Good luck!

 
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Mrs. Earrings, Fresno, CA/ Nelson, New Zealand Age and Occupation: 20, Student, Wannabe Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 19, Photography Student Engagement Date: February 14, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2011 Venue: Gardens of the World About Me: I'm a girl from down under who grew up in Indonesia and I'm marrying a California boy. I'm addicted to all things sweet, have never met a chocolate silk pie than can get the better of me, and have dreams of one day being a fulltime novelist. I go weak in the knees for lace, tea cups, and a beautifully crafted sentence. When I get excited about something (whether it is historical linguistics or the Beatles) I tend to go overboard in research, and planning this wedding is no different. Mr. Earrings is my high school sweetheart, my best friend, and somehow we combine all our quirks into one big happy mess.

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