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Mrs. Earrings, Fresno, CA/ Nelson, New Zealand Age and Occupation: 20, Student, Wannabe Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 19, Photography Student Engagement Date: February 14, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2011 Venue: Gardens of the World About Me: I'm a girl from down under who grew up in Indonesia and I'm marrying a California boy. I'm addicted to all things sweet, have never met a chocolate silk pie than can get the better of me, and have dreams of one day being a fulltime novelist. I go weak in the knees for lace, tea cups, and a beautifully crafted sentence. When I get excited about something (whether it is historical linguistics or the Beatles) I tend to go overboard in research, and planning this wedding is no different. Mr. Earrings is my high school sweetheart, my best friend, and somehow we combine all our quirks into one big happy mess.
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My Mother's Wedding Dress, a Photo Shoot, and Thoughts on Facing the Camera :  wedding new zealand photography 16 1

You got to see a bit of my mother’s wedding dress in its original glory here. I have always wanted to try the dress on and have a few photos taken with it, and we won’t have time for that on the wedding day, so we decided to do our own photo shoot….kinda like the Southern pre-wedding bridal session tradition that I have seen around the blogs (just think of me as being really far South).

Mr E is shooting his first ever wedding in just over a week as well, so he wanted some bridal portrait practice for that; plus, isn’t it fun to just have a chance to dress up? It also turned out to be a great opportunity for me to get more comfortable in front of a camera.

Hanging out for the pics? Well, here are my favourites:

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I’m also wearing my mother’s wedding shoes that we found last week, and the pearls of three generations (a bracelet from my grandma, another bracelet of my own, and my mum’s necklace)!

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Mr E made my bouquet—I loved it :)

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It was great having Mr E as a photographer; we had so much fun together.

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I’m not exactly the most glamorous or graceful person in front of the camera, but we enjoyed ourselves and I will always treasure the pics because the fact that I got to wear my Mum’s wedding dress for a few hours is very special to me. The dress was also one of the most comfortable things I have ever worn—I didn’t know it was possible for “wedding dress” and “comfortable” to be in the same sentence!

I’m glad I had this chance to practice facing the camera as well, because it helped me reconcile with something that I am very self-conscious about. You will notice that I’m not wearing glasses in the photos. Yes, I finally faced the beast and got my contacts in. Yay me. However, when I was looking through all the photos, I noticed that in a few of them one of my eyes was very cross-eyed. I don’t have binocular vision (meaning I don’t see with both eyes at the same time), and my right eye is practically blind. And sometimes that eye decides to wander off by itself, especially when I am tired, and I can’t do anything to control it. It all results in a very unflattering look. When I saw the cross-eyed pics I panicked a bit, but then I realised that we took over 80 photos, and I was only cross-eyed in 3-4 of them….so on the wedding day I am sure there will be many pictures taken, and yeah, some might not turn out right, but my eye seems to behave well the majority of the time, and that is the main thing.

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I’m aiming for un-cross-eyed photos like this!

Has anyone else had a chance to rock their mother’s wedding dress? Or do any of you have one thing that really bothers you in photos of yourself?

*All photos by Mr E

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33 Responses to “My Mother’s Wedding Dress, a Photo Shoot, and Thoughts on Facing the Camera”

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heather25
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heather25 (message)  2,355 posts, Buzzing bee

You look like a model in the second pic. PS I so don’t know how you feel about this. I would update this dress real quick and wear it to the rehearsal. It is so pretty. Vite! To the Seamstress!

 
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Golden139
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Golden139 (message)  1,768 posts, Buzzing bee

You look so pretty! Such a great idea to do a photo shoot in your mom’s dress. Mr. Earrings did a great job! I’m hoping to do the same thing. :)
And one thing that bothers me about my photos is that my left eye can get a little lazy sometimes.

 
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ktbrady
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ktbrady (message)  1,054 posts, Bumble bee

I have a lazy eye too! Grrr, it drives me crazy. Mine is even worse because, for some reason, in photos one eye is normal and one eye is white from the flash!!!! But not when our pro photogs took our e-pics. IDK why this is.

Anyways, back to you. You are so gorgeous! I love the three generations of pearls too!

 
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MissHelen
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MissHelen (message)  2,440 posts, Buzzing bee

You look beautiful!
Oh yes. I’m self conscious about my nose and slight double chin. I’m only concerned about them NOW that the pictures have come back
:-/.
I would have loved to have worn my Mom’s dress….but she’s about a foot and a half shorter than me and was about 8 sizes smaller.

 
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Mrs. Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the last picture! How fun that you got to wear your mom’s dress :)

 
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Julialimei
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Julialimei (message)  723 posts, Busy bee

Could you look any more gorgeous in your mom’s dress? I think not! Stunning photos! And your eyes are just beautiful!

 
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Miss Maid (message)  86 posts, Worker bee

You look stunning! Esp in the 2nd picture!

 
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Mrs. Husky (message)  1,754 posts, Buzzing bee

You look absolutely beautiful!

 
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MissMargie
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MissMargie (message)  767 posts, Busy bee

So if I thought you looked like your mom in yesterday’s post, the resemblance in this post is even more so! You look so pretty and I love that you did this; these pics will be a great memory for you and Mr. E. I wish my mom hadn’t rented her wedding dress so I could have done the same thing!

 
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jv

I really like the natural looking hair. Really nice pictures.

 
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mightywombat
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mightywombat (message)  3,311 posts, Sugar bee

You are a stunner, and you REALLY look like your mom in these pics! How sweet!

 
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Miss Georgia Transplant (message)  6 posts, Newbee

You look absolutely stunning. I am not too terribly fond of how my neck looks in some profile shots, but I too love my mothers dress. It’s not my size; but I am having her satin skirt and train incorporated into my custom recycled dress. We are even incorporating my grandmother’s blue cashmere wedding suit into my dress!

 
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I think these pictures are great. So special and sweet! One of my eyes always goes half-closed if the flash is used. :( the one thing that I really hate, and really makes me super self-conscious is my teeth - my front teeth are very crooked look awful. I call them caveman teeth. I hate smiling because of it but hopefully I won’t look miserable in my pics.

 
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Mrs. Sewing (message)  2,701 posts, Sugar bee

very sweet pics, and you have gorgeous eyes!

 
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Miss Earrings (message)  2,477 posts, Buzzing bee

Thanks for all the lovely comments everyone :) My mum is so excited to see her wedding dress on a blog.
@bride123: yes he is doing his first one for free :)
@Miss Georgia Transplant: your dress sounds like it will be amazing!

 
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Mrs. Locket
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Mrs. Locket (message)  2,837 posts, Sugar bee

Great pics! I think you look great, but if you are worried about having your eyes play tricks on you be sure to let your photographer know. I’m sure they will know what angles to use to minimize the problem. I know I hate my teeth in some photos because they stick out weird at certain angles.

 
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Ms Cheetah (message)  1,188 posts, Bumble bee

You look amazing!

 
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Miss Jam (message)  309 posts, Helper bee

What a sweet set of photos! Everything about this whole post is absolutely gorgeous : )

 
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Miss Ostrich (message)  1,948 posts, Buzzing bee

earrings, these photos are wonderful - and way to go mr. earrings for making that lovely bouquet!

 
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KlingonBride (message)  69 posts, Worker bee

Oh my goodness, Miss Earrings, you are so lovely in all of these photos. And I adore your mama’s wedding dress - what a gorgeous gown!

 
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Mrs. Earrings, Fresno, CA/ Nelson, New Zealand Age and Occupation: 20, Student, Wannabe Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 19, Photography Student Engagement Date: February 14, 2010 Wedding Date: January 2011 Venue: Gardens of the World About Me: I'm a girl from down under who grew up in Indonesia and I'm marrying a California boy. I'm addicted to all things sweet, have never met a chocolate silk pie than can get the better of me, and have dreams of one day being a fulltime novelist. I go weak in the knees for lace, tea cups, and a beautifully crafted sentence. When I get excited about something (whether it is historical linguistics or the Beatles) I tend to go overboard in research, and planning this wedding is no different. Mr. Earrings is my high school sweetheart, my best friend, and somehow we combine all our quirks into one big happy mess.

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