Oh, Bolero!

Oh, Bolero!

December 9th, 2010 @ 11:18 am by Ms. Sloth
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When I first started the long, arduous task of trying to find a wedding dress, I was 100% anti-strapless. I wanted a sleeveless v-neck dress or maybe something with cap sleeves. Unfortunately, the dresses that looked best on my body were strapless. I finally found a dress I loved, and that was that.

But it was still strapless. And I’m just not a fan of my arms. Even when I was at my healthiest weight, my upper arms looked thick and heavy. They’re not terrible, but I’m insecure about them, and I don’t like the idea of them being exposed throughout the entire day.

There’s also that pesky tattoo that I still haven’t dealt with. Sigh.

The solution seemed obvious: I needed to find something to cover my shoulders.

Originally, after seeing some photos of fabulous brides wearing cardigans, I wanted to do the same:

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Adorable, no? Unfortunately, I have my heart set on wearing my bright pink shoes, and I think that a bright cardigan would look silly. What to do?

Luckily for me, Mrs. Thimble came to the rescue and inspired me. Check out some of the non-pro pics she posted here on the ’bee:

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That’s it! I need a flirty, romantic, vintage-inspired bolero. And I could only imagine one place that I’d find it…

Etsy. Obvs.

Seller MaryAndAngelika had a gorgeous lace bolero for a great price, and they were willing to custom make it in my size!

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Problem solved! My arms will be covered, and I’ve got a soft, vintage-inspired and romantic accessory to make my dress even more special.

Are you planning on wearing a bolero, shrug, or cardigan over your wedding dress?

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23 Responses to “Oh, Bolero!”

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micks_mandee

I was in the *exact* same situation. The dress I bought comes with a lace bolero, but I love yours!

12/9/10 @ 11:30 am (reply)

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StrawberryBee (message) 149 posts, Blushing bee

SO pretty, I’m very tempted to steal this idea from you :3. I’m also wearing a Galina; I love the one you ended up with! Wish it came in full length as well as tea length.

12/9/10 @ 11:33 am (reply)

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mjchexum (message) 485 posts, Helper bee

I’m thinking about going the cardigan route if I can find the perfect one

12/9/10 @ 11:41 am (reply)

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Kemi82JP (message) 749 posts, Busy bee

are you going to have one made exactly like the very last pic??? that one is SO PRETTY!!!!!! i loved the cardigan look but opted to go bare shouldered because we were getting married in June… and as we suspected, it was the hottest day ever!

12/9/10 @ 11:55 am (reply)

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Laura

SLoth!!

My friend rocked a Bolero AND pink shoes with a short dress. I bet you can too, if you want

check it:
http://hitchedstudiosblog.com/?p=2338

12/9/10 @ 11:55 am (reply)

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tdizzle (message) 191 posts, Blushing bee

That is gorgeous! I’ve been struggling on what to wear to our winter wedding. I can’t stand outside in my strapless! Right now I have 4 different options (yes, I’ve purchased all four so I can try them on with my dress, I will have a lot of returns after the wedding!). A vintage fur stole, a fur bolero, a sequin jacket (found it at forever 21!) or a cardigan. Decisions, decisions!! I love your choice though! I will have to look her up on etsy

12/9/10 @ 11:56 am (reply)

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rachaelrobin (message) 2,882 posts, Sugar bee

Love that look!!

I am wearing a bolero also. It actually is a matching jacket for a different dress. I tried it on while I was in the store to get a ‘feel’ of what a bolero would look like, since I too did not want to be strapless. It ended up looking very nice with my dress so I decided to order it!

12/9/10 @ 12:00 pm (reply)

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Mrs. Spaniel (message) 6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

Lovely! My dress came with a lacey bolero, but mine looked too busy with my already busy dress so I never wore it (I got a large ivory pashmina to keep warm instead). I loved Thimble’s bolero, and can’t wait to see yours with your dress!

12/9/10 @ 1:01 pm (reply)

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Mrs. Trail Mix (message) 6,328 posts, Bee Keeper

Beautiful choice!! I the look of a bolero (they’re pretty standard for Jewish weddings, since you’re supposed to have your shoulders covered.)

12/9/10 @ 1:34 pm (reply)

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October4040 (message) 118 posts, Blushing bee

I wore a satin wrapor with my dress. Loved it.

http://www.wraporshrug.co.uk/product/duchess_satin_shrug/

12/9/10 @ 2:03 pm (reply)

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Miss Earrings (message) 2,477 posts, Buzzing bee

I got my bolero from maryandangelika too and I love it Great choice!

12/9/10 @ 2:10 pm (reply)

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kayakgirl73 (message) 2,157 posts, Buzzing bee

I think Mrs. turtle had a really neat Bolero also.

12/9/10 @ 2:33 pm (reply)

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In the media (message) 1,568 posts, Bumble bee

I have no idea what I’ll be wearing but that bolero is adorable. I love it!!

12/9/10 @ 2:34 pm (reply)

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KLloyd1 (message) 814 posts, Busy bee

i LOVE cardigans (i’m a teacher and my closet is full of them) and after seeing these pics, I WANT to wear a cardigan! haha

12/9/10 @ 4:13 pm (reply)

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Mrs. Glasses (message) 2,741 posts, Sugar bee

A lace bolero? Now that’s something you don’t see everyday. So pretty!

12/9/10 @ 6:35 pm (reply)

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blanket (message) 206 posts, Helper bee

That is a beautiful bolero! Just gorgeous. I’m kinda wondering if your tattoo will show through?

BTW, that second mustard cardigan picture has been haunting me forever. It’s in in my inspiration board, but I just can’t tell what it is about it that inspires me so. Is it the pearls, the textured bouquet, the hair flower or the sweetheart neck (check, check, check and check!)? Thanks for helping me figure out that what is taking that look to another -oh, so very rocking- level is in fact the cardigan! How awesome would it be to AT LEAST wear it in my signature (raspberry!) color when leaving the party? Most work on this newly planned CHECK now!!!

12/10/10 @ 1:35 pm (reply)

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littlee22 (message) 5 posts, Newbee

So cute! I would love to wear one, but my dress is lace and I think it might detract from the pattern.

12/10/10 @ 1:39 pm (reply)

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ARIEL

OMG!!! I was favorited that one and was going to buy it and then noticed it was gone! Now I know who did it! It was you! Ha. That’s ok. I found another one that they sell that I love.

12/13/10 @ 1:25 pm (reply)

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