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Mrs. Jam, Chicago Age and Occupation: 25, Writer/Associate Wedding Coordinator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Structural Engineer Engagement Date: December 23, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2011 Venue: Hunter’s Ridge, Princeton, IL About Me: I’m a penny-pinching cat lady getting ready to marry the frugal dog lover of my dreams. Our ideal Saturday morning includes rummaging around people’s junk at garage and estate sales followed by an afternoon date to our favorite café, where we only eat sandwiches that include the word “salad.” We actually love it so much, it’s sort of our unofficial wedding theme: Look at our delicious finds, eat homemade ham salad, and celebrate our love…barndance style. When we’re not obsessing over our love-fest shindig, we’re planning themed parties for our best friends and jamming to '90s music.
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Wedding Grammar 101

December 24th, 2010 @ 4:50 pm by Mrs. Jam

I figured it’s high time I shared something dear to my heart, super basic, and ultra necessary.

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Photo source; all wedding grammar added by yours truly.

I realize some of us have been out of school mode for more years than we’d like to admit (ahem), so this Wedding Grammar 101 lesson is intermixed with some absolutely delish looks for the guys and gals who make your worlds go ‘round—the wedding party.

The first lesson is based on something I saw with my own two eyes at a wedding a few months ago. I went into the church and picked up a program, and this glaring mistake practically jumped off the paper and assaulted me:

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Vintage-inspired tea dresses right over here.

We can collectively agree that the ladies do all look fab in those vintage-inspired frocks, but that wedding grammar is not so pretty. The rule: One maid of honor. Two maids of honor. Multiple girls (maids), all equally full of honor.

And while we’re on the whole “which word ends in ’s’” topic, let’s visit another common mistake, shall we?

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Love the idea of a “wear it a million times in a million different ways” convertible bridesmaids’ dress.

Pop quiz time! Which would you say?

A) “I’m so glad we’re sister!”

B) “I’m so glad we’re sisters!”

If you guessed B, you’re right! So get pumped you’re going to be sisters, and tack on the in-law (sans the “s”) for some grammatically correct excitement.

Onto the next lesson (and more wedding-party eye candy)…

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The Liberty Print ties by Elise Bergman = ohhhhhhhhmygosh.

Love (!!!) the ties, and love the proper uses of your and you’re even more:

You’re welcome!”

Your wedding was absolutely stunning!”

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Elise Bergman’s multi-wrap dress, which I own (and didn’t wear as a bridesmaid). Best thing to ever happen to my wardrobe.

Let’s correctly use each word in a wedding-ish sentence:

“…announce the marriage of their daughter Fanny McBride.”

There are so many ways to wear this multi-wrap bridesmaids’ dress after the wedding!”

They’re going to have such a blast on their Parisian honeymoon.”

What, is this too basic for you? Sorry, but I’m thinking you might want to avoid a disaster of this magnitude:

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Ouch. Photo source

Congratulations! You’ve almost passed your first lesson of Wedding Grammar 101. But there’s one final thing that all almost-engaged, almost-married and already-hitched people must remember:

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Loved this dress at first sight, then realized it’s by Project Runway winner Leanne Marshall. Double whammy!

You’re not marrying yourself, and it’s not just your wedding. Always replace my with OUR and live happily ever after.

Have you had an unfortunate run-in with poor wedding grammar? How many times did you spell check your invites? Are you a stickler for correct word usage, too?

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32 Responses to “Wedding Grammar 101”

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kjwinter (message)  209 posts, Helper bee

LOVE THIS!

 
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kelsgurl
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kelsgurl (message)  279 posts, Helper bee

That invite typo made my eyes bleed!
Loved, loved, LOVED this post! :)

 
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

LoL, J! This post had me cracking up - it’s def one of my favorites so far! Love the tips!

 
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escapekiken (message)  40 posts, Newbee

I speeled desert on the the menu instead of dessert. It’s what happens at 3 in the morning…

 
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ritsi_bitsi
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ritsi_bitsi (message)  930 posts, Busy bee

Love this post! I get annoyed when people use they’re/their/there, your/you’re and than/then inappropriately. This is one of my pet peeves!

 
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mrstilly (message)  1,399 posts, Bumble bee

AMEN!!!!
Proofreading is totally underrated and underused.

 
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Mrs. Glasses (message)  2,741 posts, Sugar bee

This post is EPIC! I love grammar and I love weddings! Although I have to admit I’ve typed and said “MY wedding” a lot. Oopsy? ;D

 
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Amaryllis
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Amaryllis (message)  4,075 posts, Honey bee

And especially relevant for weddings: you wear a VEIL while you walk down the AISLE!

Nice post. :)

 
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SadieBee
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SadieBee (message)  771 posts, Busy bee

Love, love, love this - glad to know I’m not the only one who gets her yayas from proper grammar :-)

 
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SLRbride
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SLRbride (message)  4 posts, Wannabee

I’m a grammar snob, loved this post AND the graphics!

 
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miss.qwerty (message)  895 posts, Busy bee

YES! This post is amazing!

 
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Miss Lioness
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Miss Lioness (message)  817 posts, Busy bee

I LOVE THIS POST! Also, all I kept hearing in my head as I read it was Ross on Friends: “Y-O-U-apostrophe-R-E is you are; Y-O-U-R is YOUR!”

 
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H

Another is fiance is for guys, fiancee is for girls. Gah!

 
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GA

Lose vs loose. Carat vs carrot. And this one annoys me the most. Bees vs bee’s!

 
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Also, women referring to their FI as “boy”. It’s not cute, especially when they are over 30.

 
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JoyfulBee
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JoyfulBee (message)  167 posts, Blushing bee

I love, love, love this! :)

Especially nice is that last part, I think we all need to remember that we’re not the only ones up front saying “I Do.”

 
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CTbride2010
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CTbride2010 (message)  386 posts, Helper bee

I love this post!!!! my FI says “baby its your day..” I say nope! It’s our day!!! And I want it to reflect both of our styles and ideas not be all about me and what I like!

 
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spinningstars (message)  248 posts, Helper bee

You make this English teacher very happy :)

 
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Wehaf

You could make a part II just from the suggestions in the comments!

 
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P.S. I’ve seen some people refer to their fiances or fiancees (sorry, I can’t put the accents in) as their finances. That’s probably not a healthy relationship!

 
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Mrs. Jam, Chicago Age and Occupation: 25, Writer/Associate Wedding Coordinator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Structural Engineer Engagement Date: December 23, 2009 Wedding Date: June 2011 Venue: Hunter’s Ridge, Princeton, IL About Me: I’m a penny-pinching cat lady getting ready to marry the frugal dog lover of my dreams. Our ideal Saturday morning includes rummaging around people’s junk at garage and estate sales followed by an afternoon date to our favorite café, where we only eat sandwiches that include the word “salad.” We actually love it so much, it’s sort of our unofficial wedding theme: Look at our delicious finds, eat homemade ham salad, and celebrate our love…barndance style. When we’re not obsessing over our love-fest shindig, we’re planning themed parties for our best friends and jamming to '90s music.

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