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Mrs. Ostrich, San Francisco/Hawaii Age and Occupation: 30, Fashion Buyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 38, Copywriter Engagement Date: October 4, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2011 Venue: Sweet ceremony by the sea and sunset celebration on the North Shore of Hawaii About Me: Born in the city of angels and residing in the city by the bay, I’m a fearless fashion buyer by day, a passionate blog author by night and a dreamy bride-to-be in between. I thank my lucky stars to live in such a stunning city that gives me gifts like organic honey lavender ice cream, movie nights in the park, tucked away beaches, legendary record stores, '80s dance parties, awesome sports teams, stellar flea markets, and vintage bookshops. Oh, and I love to dance! We always find every excuse to escape to the beach, and decided a little seaside wedding in Hawaii is our idea of bliss. Full of our favorite people, music, food and sparkly lights, this is one sunset celebration we will always remember.
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“Every once in awhile, a girl has to indulge herself.” - Carrie Bradshaw

It's My Wedding and I'll Have a 2nd Dress if I Want To. :  wedding dress hawaii 3083129bin.jpg

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One of the perks of being a bride is that you make up the rules to your wedding. Who said Emily Post has to run the show?

For the Ostrich wedding, we went wild making up our “new rules.” {Cue Bill Maher!} One of the first?

I get to have a 2nd dress.

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Don’t get me wrong. I truly, madly, deeply love my wedding dress. It’s perfect for me in every way and I feel like I should be going to the Oscars when I put it on…it’s so fancy!

But that’s the thing—after we do the “I dos,” I want to let loose—twirl around my flower girl nieces, say hey to everyone on the beach and do the dougie on the dance floor. And I can’t do them in dreamy dress number one.

Hence the new rule for dress number two—the party dress!

And, in true bargainista form, I was hell bent on finding a fabulous frock at a fraction of the price. I had considered a few options, but they were still too much $$$. So I took a break and waited for some deeper discounts.

Cue the holidays. As an insider in the fashion/retail world, let me tell you that there are two  times a year when you’ll find the most “OMG-I-can’t-believe-how-freaking-cheap-that-is”— - before the new season begins. And just like that, magical signs like “70% off” and “take an additional 40% off” start popping up everywhere.

And that’s when I go shopping.

So today, I spent a good hour on Gilt Groupe’s Final Sale pages for cute and crazy cheap dresses, but nothing in the “second wedding dress” arena. Then I went back to my new favorite online outlet shop, The Outnet {Net-a-Porter’s online outlet}, to check out the goods. And bees, the goods? They were GOOD…and a lot of them? 70% off. All right—it was time to go shopping!

It only took a few minutes before I saw it.

Then it took me another few minutes to make sure there wasn’t a better deal for this dress on another online shop {there wasn’t}.

And then - click, click, click - I bought it!

After lots of bargain hunting, dress number two has been found. I’ll be getting it in a week—YAY!!

Want a sneak peek?

Here she is!  I’d like you to meet Miss Wedding Dress Number Two:

It's My Wedding and I'll Have a 2nd Dress if I Want To. :  wedding dress hawaii Millyb milly+b

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Isn’t she cute? Wedding Dress Number Two is also known as the beaded silk trapeze dress by Milly. She’s short and breezy so I can play, romp and dougie all night long. But she has just enough glam to feel wedding-y.

And she cost a little over $100. SCORE!

Have you made a “new rule” to have a second wedding dress for your celebration? What kind of style are you looking for?

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10 Responses to “It’s My Wedding & I’ll Have a 2nd Dress if I Want To.”

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Kemi82JP
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Kemi82JP (message)  749 posts, Busy bee

nice find!! you have such great style, it shows in both your dress choices :) you should still wear your first gown for dinner, and the father/daughter and first dances, and the cake cutting. then change after that. is that what you plan to do?

 
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Mrs. Jellyfish
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Mrs. Jellyfish (message)  1,450 posts, Bumble bee

Love Bill Maher’s “New Rules”! Cute dress.

 
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Miss Ostrich (message)  1,948 posts, Buzzing bee

@Kemi82JP: You read my mind! My lovely dress no.1 will be the star of the show for dinner and the first dance. And once the dance party starts, dress no.2 will make her debut! :)

 
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I also had a second dress in my wedding and everybody loved it. If you truly want to wear another one, then go for it!

 
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Miss Jam (message)  309 posts, Helper bee

Love BOTH dresses, but this second dress is dougie-approved! Still glam & totes perfect for the party…you’re going to look gorgeous!

 
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,182 posts, Bee Keeper

Such a cute 2nd dress!!

 
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Mrs. Glasses (message)  2,741 posts, Sugar bee

So cute and very appropriate for your wedding!

 
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Miss French Toast (message)  288 posts, Helper bee

so cute and so you!!

 
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

Totally cute! Great choice!

 
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Miss Waffle (message)  1,121 posts, Bumble bee

I L-O-V-E your second dress!

 

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Mrs. Ostrich, San Francisco/Hawaii Age and Occupation: 30, Fashion Buyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 38, Copywriter Engagement Date: October 4, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2011 Venue: Sweet ceremony by the sea and sunset celebration on the North Shore of Hawaii About Me: Born in the city of angels and residing in the city by the bay, I’m a fearless fashion buyer by day, a passionate blog author by night and a dreamy bride-to-be in between. I thank my lucky stars to live in such a stunning city that gives me gifts like organic honey lavender ice cream, movie nights in the park, tucked away beaches, legendary record stores, '80s dance parties, awesome sports teams, stellar flea markets, and vintage bookshops. Oh, and I love to dance! We always find every excuse to escape to the beach, and decided a little seaside wedding in Hawaii is our idea of bliss. Full of our favorite people, music, food and sparkly lights, this is one sunset celebration we will always remember.

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